So you’re interested in me and my type of Dominance? Well, I’m going to warn you up front, that it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. You see, only the right person will fit with me and I won’t settle for less. I feel the need to make some points clear, before we go any further, and that’s what this writing is all about.
First of all, my wife/slave is my most prized possession. If you want to be with me, you’ll need to be with her, too. This doesn’t mean intimacy, just a healthy relationship, with mutual respect. I don’t date, or attend events without her, no matter the situation. We have a set of rules that we both abide by, and if we start into talks, together, we’ll make them very clear to you, before we go any further. You’ll need to work as hard to develop a relationship with her, as you do with me. She’s sharing her Master and husband of over 20 years, don’t expect her to chase you for that privelege, that’s on you. While she doesn’t need to know every aspect of our relationship, if there’s something she asks me about, I will tell her. A relationship like this is built on trust and transparency, and secrets have no place in one. And if you’re not careful, you might just get a good friend out of it. She’s one of the most caring and generous people I have ever known.
Second, I need to talk about what I expect from my potential submissive. Quite simply, I expect power exchange, in other words, surrender. Does this mean I want someone to mindlessly follow me? Not at all, but if you’re with me, you’ll trust me to be your guide thru this crazy lifestyle. Questions and concerns will be brought up at the proper time, and not while we’re out at an event, or otherwise getting ready to engage in play. I expect loyalty from my submissive. I’m not against letting you play with other people, but I expect you to hold me above all others, and make me your “safe place” in your kink world. I expect my submissive to conduct themselves in a responsible manner, and to carry themselves with grace. If you want to brat me, be prepared to accept the consequences of your actions.
Now that we’ve covered the important topics, let’s talk about play. I like impact, I like to get up in front of a crowd and play at big events, and show off a little. I give a damned good impact scene, that just keeps getting better, as the trust and comfort level grows between us. I’m also very fond of firecups, and wax/knife scenes. As the trust and comfort level grow, I will want to get into more intimate, sexual play. While this isn’t something I would expect on the first couple of play dates, it WILL be expected. I’m a reaction junkie, all the weird things that you wouldn’t expect to turn you on, turns ME on. Things like forced orgasms, orgasm control and denial, genital torture, fisting, and anything else my devious mind can dream up, will also be on the table, as will sex. As to my personal hard limits, blood and needles are not my kink, but I’m lucky enough to know some people that it is there’s, and I would be happy to set something up for you, whenever the opportunity arises. Besides that, just about anything else is on the table.
Now you may be asking “What’s in it for me, if I jump thru all these hoops?”
Well, I’ll tell you, you get a real dominant, born with an alpha personality, and a healthy dose of empathy. It’s a rare combination. I care for people. I protect and nurture my submissives, in hopes of making them the best version of themselves, they can be. I truly enjoy being a positive presence in someone’s life. Like I mentioned earlier, a “safe place” for you to come to. We typically get out a couple of times a month, and you’ll be welcome to join us wherever we may be attending. My slave and I are well known and respected members of the local kink community, and are welcome to many events, both public and private. We like to have fun, and while the nature of this writing seems very business like, I assure you that’s just so we can get the business out of the way, and get on to the fun stuff. I have healthy relationships with most (nobody’s perfect…lol) of my former play partners and submissives, and I welcome you to talk to them, and ask them about us, for yourself. On the vanilla side, we can meet for dinner and drinks between events, and possibly even more, depending on your wants or needs.
Like I said in the beginning, I know that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. But I am a unique blend of Dominant and pervert that lends itself to some very exciting times. If you think you would want to explore the topics of this writing with me, I’m available to chat on kik, my screen name on there is cockymccockerson all one word. Stop laughing, it’s a carry over from my twitter acct, and I’ve never bothered to change it. If this is not something you think is right for you, I understand, no hard feelings, and I hope we can still be friends.
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