*We are diamonds*

Hola! I'm Julieta, argentinian. 21. This blog is dedicated to my love: Coldplay (& Daft Punk). Psychology student, film & book lover. I like to talk.

[la--chica--de--la--ventana]

¿Te has dado cuenta lo triste que es tener que cerrar los ojos para poder ver a alguien?

[rabillodenube]

Cierra los ojos, pide un deseo y rebloguea esto.

[heyxhopeworld]

No olvides desearlo con todas tus fuerzas. Todo con fé es posible.

Porfavor Dios que se cumpla..

Realmente lo necesito :c

(yn) ♥

[markyrosas-teamoo]

PORFAVOR DIOS HAZ QUE SE CUMPLA :C

[la-viida-es-bella]

Dios, que e cumpla :/ 

[13youareperfecttome13]

que se cumpla D: por favor :c 

[sonrie-mejor]

por piedad que se cumpla :c

[crownedzor-el-deactivated202110]

cabros , esta hueá funciona , pídanlo con muchas ganas

[lunaefiles]

por favoooooooor que se cumplaaa !!! 

[ambitiouslut]

Que se cumpla:c

[sonriequellegamosalfinaldelviaje]

Lo necesito en serio :(

[deseame--suerte-deactivated2021]

por favor :c

[una-mirada-distinta-a-la-tuya]

Por favooooor :c

[yo-creo-en-mi-galaxia]

Jfbdkdnrkfkr se me cumplio ctm :“) pidanlo con tos la fe del universo 😄 grande tumblrrrrr💕💙💛

[runs-this-shit-and-be-happy]

[i-am-a-walking-disaster-fc]

La última vez que hice esto se me cumplió 😍❤

[carbonmetalico]

Nunca se cumplen :c

[xiorojas74]

Espero que se cumplan

[un-espiritu-en-la-oscuridad]

Ojala :3 Por Favor

[empathy-intimate]

porfa

[el-secreto-que-guardo]

Por favorrrrr😞

[newscoldplay]

Coldplay performing in Melbourne, AU on the Twisted Logic Tour - July 1, 2006

[axngelic-princess]

Guys moans make me go 💕💗💗❤️🌟🌟🌸🌸💓🌟💕💕💘💘💓💝💝💝💫💫💫🌸💗💗💫🌟💓💓💝

[task-mismanager]

[coldasyou]

not to be fake deep but like average poor kids deserve affordable higher education too lmao. we shouldn’t be expected to get a perfect ACT, work 40 hours a week, do another 20 hours of extra circulars, be on the honor roll, take only AP classes, have a 4.5 GPA just to have a CHANCE at being able to afford college. esp when avrage rich kids can go wherever the fuck they want with a subpar GPA and test scores. 

[cat-memes-only]

[wheresmybubble]

Journal comic.

[gif87a-com]

That awkward moment when Hugh Jackman remembers he taught you at school [x]

[invaderxan]

Women who are beyond done with all of this shit.

(via)

[thehappyhooker-deactivated20190]

When I look at this I feel like it should be something from 100 years ago but this is really going on right now

[unclefather]

[aigislovesrobots]

he makes a serious point here

[amnesiaguy]

the four cardinal moods: africa by toto, judas by lady gaga, fourth of july by sufjan stevens, and mr brightside by the killers

[adrenaline]

[geyashvecova]

Art G.Shvecova (Design graphics - Glitter Azure_260118)

[giandujakiss-deactivated2021081]

The female price of male pleasure

Let's talk about bad sex

Women are constantly and specifically trained out of noticing or responding to their bodily discomfort, particularly if they want to be sexually “viable.” Have you looked at how women are “supposed” to present themselves as sexually attractive? High heels? Trainers? Spanx? These are things designed to wrench bodies. Men can be appealing in comfy clothes. They walk in shoes that don’t shorten their Achilles tendons. They don’t need to get the hair ripped off their genitals or take needles to the face to be perceived as “conventionally” attractive. They can — just as women can — opt out of all this, but the baseline expectations are simply different, and it’s ludicrous to pretend they aren’t.

The old implied social bargain between women and men (which Andrew Sullivan calls “natural”) is that one side will endure a great deal of discomfort and pain for the other’s pleasure and delight. And we’ve all agreed to act like that’s normal, and just how the world works….

Women are supposed to perform comfort and pleasure they do not feel under conditions that make genuine comfort almost impossible. Next time you see a woman breezily laughing in a complicated and revealing gown that requires her not to eat or drink for hours, know a) that you are witnessing the work of a consummate illusionist acting her heart out and b) that you have been trained to see that extraordinary, Oscar-worthy performance as merely routine.Now think about how that training might filter down to sexual contexts….

One side effect of teaching one gender to outsource its pleasure to a third party (and endure a lot of discomfort in the process) is that they’re going to be poor analysts of their own discomfort, which they have been persistently taught to ignore.

[gothhabiba]

“The studies on this are few. A casual survey of forums where people discuss “bad sex” suggests that men tend to use the term to describe a passive partner or a boring experience. (Here’s a very unscientific Twitter poll I did that found just that.) But when most women talk about “bad sex,” they tend to mean coercion, or emotional discomfort or, even more commonly, physical pain.”

this is even more disturbing once you consider that at least some of the “passive partners” these men are complaining about were probably “passive” because they didn’t really want to be there at all.

plus, Loofbourow talks about how men’s pleasure often relies on women hiding or enduring pain but doesn’t mention (maybe it would be a bit too controversial, or maybe it seemed beside the point) the fact that men’s pleasure often relies on knowingly causing women pain. she describes men as “the gender for whom bad sex sometimes means being a little bored during orgasm”–think about what kinds of sex we as a culture consider “boring,” “uninteresting,” “vanilla,” etc. generally it’s sex in which a woman isn’t being hurt above and beyond–although these lines are blurred–what’s generally expected to be “unavoidable” or “ignorable” during sex (which is enough of a problem in itself, & that’s what the article is about). not only does women’s pain not factor as a disincentive to sex but it’s very often cited as an incentive or even a requirement, as what makes sex “sexy”

the reason I say that this might not have seemed relevant is that again she’s talking about what’s considered “normal” sex, everyday sexual relations between women and men, in order to counter the “it’s just a few bad apples” excuse, which makes sense. but the fact is that this IS part of “normal” sex… even outside of what most people would consider “kink” / BDSM, things like choking / slapping etc. during sex seem to be becoming increasingly normalised, such that sex that doesn’t factor them seems deprived or lacklustre

so it’s not just that the reasons why men would consider something “bad sex” are more petty or less extreme than the reasons why women would consider “bad sex”–it’s that men’s experience of “bad sex” is often bound up in women’s pain: either their failure to pretend well enough that they’re not feeling it (“passive partner”) or, perhaps, the fact that they’re not in enough of it (at least a significant subset of “boring sex”). these men & women may very well be talking about the same encounters. these things are connected.

[thelovelylights]

gringos always looking so stupid when they open their mouths. 

Despacito is a reggaeton song and perreo is how reggeaton songs are danced. Like stop being a white feminist and calling our culture fucking disgusting and disrespectful because of how we dance. This aint a boyband pop hit, or a contemporary piece. It’s reggaeton, it’s danced like that. And if a female dancer wants to specialize in that form of dancing who are you to judge her for what she willingly does with her body and time.