the void

confess to me your deepest, darkest secrets with or without anon. you can ask me anything you want, if that’s more your style. nobody has to know who you are, not even me. i don’t know everything, but i’m willing to help however i can.

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bruh why’d you follow my iron man blog i’m so confused

i have interests & hobbies other than resolving other people’s issues, i think. also Tony Stark is the best avenger :))

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one of the hardest things to learn as a depressed former Gifted Kid™ is that half-assed is better than nothing. take the 50%, 40%, even 20% job. scrubbing your face is better than not taking a shower at all. picking up your clothes is better than never cleaning. nibbling on some bread is better than starving.

DO THINGS HALFWAY. NOW YOU’RE 100% BETTER OFF THAN YOU WERE BEFORE.

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One of my college professors used to say “anything worth doing is worth doing poorly.”  I didn’t understand that for years because I didn’t do anything poorly, I couldn’t do anything poorly, I had to Do Everything Perfectly.

But brushing your teeth for 30 seconds is better than not brushing them at all when that 2 minutes seems exhausting.  Doing ten minutes of yoga is better than 10 minutes of sitting when 30 minutes of cardio sounds impossible.  Changing my clothes is good when a whole shower is impossible.  Standing on the porch for a few minutes is worth it after being in the house for three straight days because I don’t have the energy to go anywhere.

Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly… because doing it poorly is better than not doing it.

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For a couple of months i am super afraid of getting blind or deaf... I don't know where this came from but it still scares me..

oh gosh, i totally understand that; getting one of your senses that you use on a daily basis taken away from you is super scary to be honest. Although,, so long as you aren’t actively putting yourself in danger (like playing music a little too loud or burning your corneas with bright lights), i don’t think there’s much reason to worry. irrational fears are just that; irrational. unless you have reason to believe somebody is going to take your sight or hearing away from you,, i’d say you’re okay for now (and if you feel you need to, you could always be cautious in your everyday life; whether it be noticing if you’re in a loud or bright setting maybe? better safe than sorry, i suppose).

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please talk me out of making a fake tumblr account just so I can still talk to my old best friend from high school. we had to stop talking because she's on her last year of hs, we sorta fell apart because I moved away. I just miss her. she thinks it's good if I move on but she was my best friend for 4 years. I still just want to check in with her and see if she's okay but I know I agreed on my part to not contact her but idk. is that a bad idea? that's not catfishing is it? lmk pls.

first things first, take my opinion with a grain of salt seeing as i’m a teenage girl, but if you were best friends for 4 years, she probably knows what would be best for the both of you as much as you do, and you have to take her side into consideration. if she thinks it’s best that you move on and you’ve already agreed not to contact her, don’t go back on your word. in response to the first sentence of your submission,, please don’t catfish her. if she know’s it’s you that runs the account and is okay with you talking, then it’s all good. however, if you begin talking to her and she thinks you’re somebody else, however long, it will only hurt her to find out the truth and will probably cause some trust issues between the two of you. if you’re truly concerned about her and want to check up on her for her wellbeing,, i’m in no position to stop you from doing that. this is just my opinion on your situation; you should do what you feel is right even after having read this.