clinicallyCantankerous

They say kindness is free but hating dont cost me shit | Can’t stop and smell the roses when time is dead kids | they/them non-binary | Transneutral

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I’d like to apply for mount Holyoke but I fear “nonbinary inclusive” means “women-lite” to them and I would not be accepted socially as someone with a penis and non-femme presentation :/

Idk id like some words from mount Holyoke attendees if there are any

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I love having curly hair, it does wonders for androgyny (because I’m white)

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you do not get to know what my genitals are, stop inventing new ways to ask.

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Kid on the street asked their parents what I was today

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TW: SA

Tma/tme needs an early retirement because every last one of us is effected by transmisogyny.

Am I a trans woman? No.

Am I transfemme? No.

Did I spend all of highschool surrounded by sexual comments, rape threats, groping, unsolicited dick pics, and other such forms of harassment? Yes.

This all happened because I was transneutral and as a result, presented more feminine than the dudes at the school. They saw I was still viewed as a man and saw me as an acceptable target compared to cis women. They used me as an outlet for their misogyny because I was trans.

Trans men undeniably face much worse threats to their safety everyday, and you’re going to tell me constant rapes and murders that happen because they are TRANS and are viewed by most people as WOMEN *isn’t* transmisogyny?

Trans women face transmisogyny because they aren’t cis men, trans men face transmisogyny because they aren’t cis men, intersex and nonbinary people face transmisogyny because we aren’t cis men.

We ALL face transmisogyny because *none* of us are cis men.

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I know a house divided cannot stand but I’m getting sick of binary people.

Yall cis people are yapping about how enbys are just freaks making things up for attention.

The RADICAL trans women won’t shut up about “amab afab” or “tme/tma”, all because they want us in the binary. Then they go on to believe all enbians are closeted trans women or silly girls pretending to be trans. Because *clearly* only people with penises are smart enough to transition.

It’s only the trans men I see that majorly support us!

All yall gotta wise up, mind your P’s and Q’s, and either shut up or support us.

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what do other enbys do for dating? It might be easier in bluer states but where I am I can’t date cis people because they expect me to be the big strong man, and I cant date trans people because none in my area think that I count as trans.

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Thinking about when my lit teacher read my common app essay about my experience being nonbinary and how it shaped who I am. She read it, gave me some improvement tips and said “it could use some work, but this is really good young man”.

you can’t make this shit up

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OMG god I just got my upcoming schedule and I have this teacher AGAIN

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Despite everything, I’m still not in a transition phase into a trans woman

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every one of us needs to be angrier about how we get treated

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i love how transneutrality/transandrogyny/transxeninity/all unaligned trans modal qualities act like the biggest fuck you to absolutely every bigoted thing established in this here earth

it’s an absolute fuck you to this world’s binarist framing which tries to find a binary in absolutely anything it possibly can. there’s no going about “girl-lite” “boy-lite” from them with this now and they’re pissed, and we do not conform to their shallow, inaccurate line of thinking that anything that doesn’t lean towards any degree of femininity or masculinity cannot possibly exist. our mere persevering existence and resolve to never conform to what we aren’t is and always will be proof of that

its a fuck you to their perisex usage of AGAB

its a fuck you their tma/tme shit, now none of that matters and our mere existence will continue to defy its necessity to exist (and that’s why you see them wanting us GONE gone)

its a fuck you to how they dichotomized transfem/transmasc insisting that “to be trans in the first place” one must be one or the other plus so that their “AGAB” is revealed, all to tie back to the constructed notion of knowing whether they’re somehow “exempt” from the intersection of transphobia and misogyny or not all based on “AGAB” as it (apparently!) is the thing that dictates that. and supposedly this whole time the oppression an entire subsection of the community has been continuously enduring on the daily never existed to begin with unlike that of others. even though being misogyny-affected literally came free with us being trans and hence all victims of the patriarchy. because we are not cis men to have even a hint of cis man privilege, hence all of us being transmisogyny affected

our mere existence is a threat to TRFs’ worldview and i think that enough is reason to never stop shutting up. our mere existence has enough power to bring about great change and for that we NEED to be louder with everything to do about our concrete, impossible-to-deny presence now and till the very end

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Pouring one out for the enbys that were shunned in “accepting” queer spaces because the space wanted enbys that they could see as quirky women and not enbys that have a penis.

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some days I feel like so many judgements and biases are given to the nonbinary identity that it’s just a third box with male and female, defeating the whole point. Am I actually agender? Do others feel this way about being enby?

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nothing quite like being told that my identity isn’t real so much I grow apathetic to trying to pass as androgynous, then being kicked out of local queer groups because I didn’t look enby so they thought I was lying

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did anyone else get mysterious stomachaches in gym class when the coach would separate everyone into boys versus girls?

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Thinking about when my lit teacher read my common app essay about my experience being nonbinary and how it shaped who I am. She read it, gave me some improvement tips and said “it could use some work, but this is really good young man”.

you can’t make this shit up

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schools starting soon time to take my gender out back and old yeller it as I get ready for another year of misgendering