kinda out of it

shepard | he/they | 23 | aro | bi | masc enby

[transmechanicus]

You haven’t eaten anything yet today and your estrogen isn’t going to work if you don’t feed yourself. There are hashbrowns and sausage in the freezer, you should make a breakfast burrito! It will be delicious and i won’t have to eat your boobs just to keep your organs alive.

[corpseflowerqueer]

have a crush on my local smoke shop worker I miss him so bad

[terminally-online-bi]

I want "just friends" to not exclude sex. I honestly want to be "just friends" with my sexual partners. Like, I still love you and adore you. I cherish your presence immensely. But I'm not looking to get married or become the center of your life.

I want to be your friend, and I want to fuck your brains out.

[vitabreva]

[corpseflowerqueer]

I like to act like im not kinda obsessive or whatever but I am so quick to choose when I like someone and once I do I have suchhhh a hard time letting it go

[vieneinpace]

William Etty's Male Nude, with Arms Up-Stretched (1828) revamped by Astra Zero

[so-much-for-subtlety]

[corpseflowerqueer]

listening to men moaning this pride

[shegs]

I FOUMDH IT

[princess-anri]

Regular Couple

[pawhold-deactivated20180415]

this ended homophobia

[nikoni]

happy pride month

[corpseflowerqueer]

sorry not sorry I havent been on here happy pride

[weirdo-on-the-internet]

aromantic pansexuals be like: fuck everyone but also fuck everyone

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is trying to figure out how to get a friends with benefits situation going because thats your ideal relationship and random hookups are not working out

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[corpseflowerqueer]

I dont hate my body but I do Hate that I'm the one in it sometimes

[what-even-is-thiss]

Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid

[what-even-is-thiss]

Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.

[corpseflowerqueer]

now that im older and having an increasing desire to look attractive I feel im getting more dysphoric. like in the sense that I want to look sexy in a My Gender kinda way but my gender is like 🔮🧸⭐️ but theres no real way to do that practically so im always having to choose between looking like a girl or a girl trying to look like a boy and id just rather do none of it.

[maracuya]

Avel de Knight (1923-1995)

[ring2002]

sexually repressed people be like “i have an ancient evil stirring within me. no one can know” and its literally just craving intimacy

[corpseflowerqueer]

wish dating apps could be more nuanced abt their nonbinary users pleaseeeee hinge stop showing me lesbians and straight men