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vieneinpace

William Etty's Male Nude, with Arms Up-Stretched (1828) revamped by Astra Zero

so-much-for-subtlety

#dear god wait hold on #art

listening to men moaning this pride

shegs

I FOUMDH IT

princess-anri

Regular Couple

pawhold-deactivated20180415

this ended homophobia

nikoni

happy pride month

sorry not sorry I havent been on here happy pride

weirdo-on-the-internet

aromantic pansexuals be like: fuck everyone but also fuck everyone

aro-culture-is

aro culture is trying to figure out how to get a friends with benefits situation going because thats your ideal relationship and random hookups are not working out

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#everybody complaining abt ending up in situationships how TF do i do that

I dont hate my body but I do Hate that I'm the one in it sometimes

what-even-is-thiss

Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid

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Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.

what-even-is-thiss

I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.

now that im older and having an increasing desire to look attractive I feel im getting more dysphoric. like in the sense that I want to look sexy in a My Gender kinda way but my gender is like 🔮🧸⭐️ but theres no real way to do that practically so im always having to choose between looking like a girl or a girl trying to look like a boy and id just rather do none of it.

#i have plans to go clubbing w friends and im excited bc i like clubbing i like dressing up #but then when i remember ppl will be seeing me its like. oh ok well how do i not be perceived