EDIT 9 MARCH 2026
I will be unreliable on and off tumblr due to a relationship break up. If I've talked to you and you're not getting responses from me it's because I'm working things through in what to do next. I'm not deliberately ghosting you. At some point I may be back, I just don't know. In the meantime I'm leaving the blog up as this has been requested.
Be well everyone, and love each other.
Vina
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Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl.
I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Pronouns she/her.
I'm Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. She's grown to be a valued submissive little girl to me and is the sweetest little peach you could wish for. She'll probably blush at that. I make her do that a lot, now I come to think of it.
If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. I have a busy life but I do try to answer asks and messages.
IMPORTANT EDIT: if you can't message respectfully, politely, and with at least a degree of interesting discussion then please fuck right off.
Furthermore, don't presume to tell me who I am, what I think, or judge me. You don't know me. My partner knows me, and he has to daily unlock the female mystery I am, so you should start from realising your immense ignorance of the box that I am, for which you don't even have a key. Knock and speak nicely, and the box might open to you a bit, more if you take time, care and frequent attention. There are a few people who are welcome inside, and I've no need to overcrowd myself. Thank you.
Men please pass on by, nothing for you here, I have all the man I need.
