#corvina fae

[corvinaf31]

would you ever be open to having another sub?? 👀

-🦴 18 she/her

Yes for the right girl.

I do find myself quite committed at the moment though and various things are getting on top of me. There a control freak admitting guilt lol.

So it would have to be someone who accepts my limitations, and also that I have a special online sub with bunny, who takes priority. She also has to contend with my work, hobbies, downtime, plus a romantic life partner who is also my male submissive and an occasional female play partner.

So the answer is yes, it depends.

Thank you for including your age and pronouns.

Vina

[corvinaf31]

Reflecting on the frailty of humans

Let your yes mean yes, and your no mean no ...

I'm not a Christian any more and certainly not a Catholic (winks friendly and inclusive style) but this is good advice.

Learn, girls.

Miss Vina

[corvinaf31]

What’s with all these shits in your anons? I’m sorry you’re getting their rubbish in your inbox. Sending hugs and remember you don’t owe anyone an explanation, like what you like.

Tumblr is a strange space. I try to answer authentically. I'm big enough now to hold my ground and better that than hide, I've found.

I don't reply to some of the really dim ones. Not so much as cutting room floor, as litter for the cat tray. I let the cats deal with my replies to those ones.

Thank you for your support

[corvinaf31]

how do u and ur long distance sub keep ur relationship healthy

Well I hope it's healthy.

Communication.

The rough stats are communication is 30pc words 70pc non verbal. So no voice reduces understanding lots, no visual clues the same.

Add to that that women are highly intuitive (maybe some men) and make communication text and word based, what a potential disaster.

So ... volunteer information (safely...don't give away identity, leverage etc), chat!, be friendly as well as submissive or dominant. Isn't that what you'd do with a girlfriend with a small g?

Then once you're in a baseline of relationship, be prepared to challenge, share more. Maybe be a little vulnerable. But stay safe.

Does that help? Are you the regular anon ... you can ask for an emoji if you like.

[corvinaf31]

We can’t call you Mistress, but what are we allowed to call you?

So there is a school of thought that says calling someone a dominant honorific should be earned, not assumed

I vary. My experience is if I allow it sometimes people get wanky and needy about it, which isn't attractive or actually that pleasant.

Why not give yourself an anon emoji so I can see how you do in any ongoing asks. If you're respectfully behaved and interesting then I'll instruct you further.

[corvinaf31]

do u have deep feelings like affection for your subs and how do u show them u care

Hello my lovely

It depends.

Emotional connection doesn't happen with everyone. Some people are wankers. Only wanting what they can get. Others are more open and honestly seeking. Which are you I wonder?

I show I care with genuine submissives by attention, respect and understanding. I have a romantic partner and they fulfill many of my needs. I need authentic submissives who please me and fill any gaps. I'll be honest I don't have many gaps.

Please do ask more questions.

If you're on the start of a journey it can feel daunting I know

Vina

[corvinaf31]

When Auntie Natty comes over

I always know I'm in trouble. Generally it means my little girl has rung her and complained, or told her something I've been up to.

She's got her kit bag with her and among other things I know there are floggers, a bot gag, nipple clips and other toys she knows so well how to use

Fluttering tummy, I wait while she settles into her room .... for a day or a week, I don't know as it's my sweet little girl who decides that ...

[corvinaf31]

do u have any favorite pet names u like calling people or ones u like being called? ex. baby, babe, angel, etc.

Hello

Yes, I think pet names are a nice mark of intimacy. In my experience they happen naturally where there is an intimate or emotional dynamic. Some can be specially loaded where a deeper emotional, sexual or power dynamic exists (egBDSM play)