Don’t Tell Me What To Do

28, Cancer, INFJ, 4w5, Pacifist, NPE.

[missinyouiskillingme]

[missinyouiskillingme]

it wasn’t even worth it.

[ohmyboytoy]

[cowboy-beboppin]

Do you have an onlyfans?

Nah

[aletheyass]

going on a girls trip! (me and my earphones to the supermarket)

[stgloria]

Happy International Women’s Day! 💜

A small selection of Soviet posters that I really like

[cowboy-beboppin]

major!

Lolol ok Human Development and Family Studies with a Concentration in Child Life

Kind of a mouth full but basically I’m trying to be a child life specialist

[zsirkretaszigetek]

Living in 2022 be like

[0ttosgotahammer]

Every day he must endure this. He is tormented.

[urbanfantasyinspiration]

The lack of music really ties all this together

[thepersonalquotes]

[cowboy-beboppin]

What do you do for school?

As in what am I majoring in or what kind of homework am I suffering through? :)

[cowboy-beboppin]

Valentines plans?

Cooking with my guy🥰

And a shit ton of homework😂

[cowboy-beboppin]

New Year’s resolutions??

Ummm kinda? Drinking more responsibly (specifically at parties), and just generally being nicer to my body. But those are like normal things, not just new year things🤷🏻‍♀️

[cowboy-beboppin]

I’ve literally known you for years but fine

You’re remaining anonymous so how on earth would I know how long you’ve known me 😂 and still, I don’t know anyone who’s paid that much attention to my relationship habits lol. Not even my best friends—likely because they have lives. I mean hell, there are people who hate my guts and even they don’t give a fuck about this. Weird and a little sad to me that you’re invested enough to comment at all

[cowboy-beboppin]

sensing a theme here in your realationships

Weird that you’ve been paying attention for long enough to get any idea of a “theme” while I don’t even know who you are☺️ Sounds like you have a really fun life🤪

[cowboy-beboppin]

😆😆😆 if you didn’t cheat why did you move on so quickly after being engaged 😜😜😜

Lolol good one. I may have mentioned in my last response that I was free to make big mistakes? That was one of them. He had been interested and tbh that kind of attention was nice, especially considering I wasn’t getting that from my own fiancé. He was the first call I made when I ended things with P, and I had told P that I would be pursuing that possibility. Wasn’t very careful though and we moved way too quickly. Looking back he was like a walking, talking red flag but damn was he nice to me🙃

P made it very easy to move on by being a total asshole to me for a very long time👍🏻

[cowboy-beboppin]

I’m really happy for you 😋

Lol I appreciate it

[cowboy-beboppin]

I didn’t hear that you had “cheated” so. unfortunate that he lied about that… sorry to hear about all of it btw,

Thank you, but I’m not very sorry about it haha. Honestly I’m just glad it’s over. Glad I haven’t heard from him in a week. After several months with him in a very limited role in my life, I’ve discovered that my life is easier without him and I hope he hears I said that. At some point I realized he has no time or didn’t care to try to make my life easier the way I tried to do for him so…..why would I try and make him do that?

Leaving him gave me space to make my life easier on my own and to make myself happy and make a few mistakes and a few wonderful decisions and things are just generally better now🤷🏻‍♀️

[cowboy-beboppin]

I think I’m on your side but why did you and P not work out together?

The first time, because I realized we didn’t even like each other anymore. There was no specific instance I just realized we hadn’t had a conversation without arguing with one another in a few months and that wasn’t going to change.

The second time, we agreed to try and work things out but he failed to mention that he had trashed my name to everything that breathes. I knew his family was upset but he hadn’t mentioned that he had lied about me and that actually they hated my guts at that point :•) I know a lot of people who could make that work anyway, but I’m not one of them so I guess you could say his aunt cyber bullying me through Venmo was the final straw there lol

Long story short: we both had a lot of growing up to do and we were keeping each other from that. There are several little things that I don’t feel are necessary to bring up, but if you’re wondering if I cheated like he said I did, ✨no✨

Also, feel free to not take a side on this one. It quite literally does not matter anymore