What do you mean when you say se is a subtle ship? Like their dialogue or expressing their feelings or..?
I mean that Elena and Stefan have their epic, sweeping, fairytale moments, for sure
but even these moments aren’t IN-YOUR-FACE, LOOK AT THEM BEING SO FUCKING EPIC like the show tries to do with DE.
For instance, when Elena goes to kiss Damon in 3x19 Florence + The Machine is in the background wailing AND THE ARMS OF THE OCEAN ARE CARRYING ME and it’s very flashy and it’s like AND ELENA’S HAIR IS BLOWING IN THE WIND AND DAMON IS TOPLESS, LOOOK. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK AT THEM
Whereas 1x10, it’s just Stefan and Elena, it’s just Nina and Paul and their chemistry, it’s their expressions, it’s their words
and when “Cut” does start to play, it’s really more an accompaniment than anything else.
And with DE, the show likes to stop everything to see them be together plus gives them overblown, overwrought dialogue BECAUSE THEY ARE SO EPIC
LET’S SHOVE IT IN THE AUDIENCE’S FACES AND GIVE DE HIGHLY CHOREOGRAPHED DANCES ON MOONLIT BRIDGES BECAUSE EPIIIIIIIIC
BARN SEX BECAUSE HARLEQUIN ROMANCE NOVEL AND EPIC-NESS
whereas with Stelena there’s more subtlety in displaying their love because they don’t actually rely too heavily on tropes like they do with DE what they do is find ways for them to show their love that makes sense for Stefan and Elena and that’s also entwined with the plot, like the blood-share
This isn’t highly romantic because Stefan is drinking Elena’s blood, this is highly romantic because Stefan is an addict and human blood makes him erratic and violent but Elena is opening her veins to him because she trusts him and she loves him and she believes in them. That’s way more nuanced and framed much more subtly than a rain kiss that’s supposed to be romantic because its a trope.
Or the fact that the SE love is shown in the details such as the fact that in 2x18 she’s wearing Stefan’s shirt like no big deal
or that Stefan says he’s on edge so Elena naturally goes to rub his shoulders and it isn’t framed like AND NOW SHE’S RUBBING HIS SHOULDERS, it’s just fact
Or even the way Stefan and Elena are positioned in relation to one another, which shows that they’re aligned with each other
Or the way that Elena just never not has her hand on Stefan’s chest and they’re legit just talking but her hand is simply always on his chest
That’s what I mean.
Also Nina’s hands are going kinda low, lmao.










