The more I think about the hypocrisy regarding Pudding in WCI by fans the angrier I get. We can all understand the arranged marriage being hell for Sanji, but we somehow can't sympathize with Pudding also being upset just because she was angry instead of sad? Because she wasn't the uwu girl she pretending to be? Because she wasn't the perfect victim?
Imagine spending your whole life wanting true love, but knowing your crazy mother will make you marry whoever she chooses regardless of your feelings because you're nothing more than a political pawn to her.
Then when she finally tells you who you're going to marry it's all a big fucking lie so you don't even get to enjoy the wedding party. She doesn't give you room to even pretend to be happy & get lost in the fantasy.
She's going to make you seduce this random man you've never met before, make you use your DF to erase all evidence after the fact, and to top it off you have to sit through said random man fawning over you when you've been conditioned to think his kindness is contingent on you looking & acting a certain way. You have no choice but to play along if you don't want the perfectly crafted lie of a life you've built to be taken away from you. If you want to stay safe.
That's not even taking into account Sanji's pervy persona. We know Big Mom is the best at intelligence gathering so you think they wouldn't find out about his love of women? That Big Mom wouldn't encourage Pudding to use her "assets" to keep him complacent. Did y'all forget he literally rocketed himself into the wall because of how violently he nosebled over her just smiling at him?
I can't believe we suddenly forgot how off-putting Sanji is to people who don't know him. His gag is so bad sometimes that even the fandom misrepresents his character yet we expect Pudding to understand the nuances of his personality after a couple brief meetings? When at this point she didn't even have half the information the fans did?
As far as she's concerned he IS a pathetic excuse of a man. He IS a shallow, weak person who brought everything upon himself. He is so far from what she dreamed of as a little girl it would make anyone upset. In her mind, she's being stuck with a loser for the sake of her mother's ambition.
But why wouldn't she change her mind after he tells her he's being forced too? She saw how beat up he was! Her lack of empathy is unforgivable!
Nobody gave her empathy or helped her so why should she?
The only reason Pudding is now adored by WCI is because of her own hard work. She spent her whole life concocting a lie & presumably manipulating memories to make everyone sans her family forget her 3rd eye. Then she melts into a fake palatable & submissive personality so people will instantly love her & not torment her anymore.
Even the "evil" facade she puts up for her family isn't who she actually is. She's turned her life into one big acting gig just so she could fake happiness & acceptance. Then this fucking dude with a simp fetish wants to come around & threaten everything she's worked her whole life to get? I don't fucking think so. I'm sure to Pudding, Sanji was the real villain here.
Lastly, let's not forget why Sanji even overheard Pudding say such terrible things to him in the first place.
Was he trying to be sweet & bring her food? Yes, but was he also being a perv & hoping to take a peek at her naked body? Also yes!
One thing about Oda is that he likes to punish Sanji within the narrative every time his pervy tendencies lead him to do less than savory things. It's happened many, many, many times throught the story. This was just another, albeit more extreme instance of karmic punishment for the love cook.
Pudding never intended for Sanji to hear all these terrible things. She didn't even want Reiju to keep her memories of them. She was planning on keeping Sanji completely in the dark up until the moment she pulled a gun on him. She never set out to be particularly malicious to him. It's not like she knew he was outside her balcony in the rain.
So in conclusion, Pudding did nothing wrong. Why should she be the only character in One Piece to be expected to have the foresight of the fans?? She was just as much a victim as Sanji. In fact, she's better than me! I would've been a lot more nasty to some guy squirting blood everywhere & love bombing me.