🥐 I'm happily taken in a feedist relationship. Don't dm me and ask me to be your feeder. I'm monogamous. I'm down to be friends or chat about feedism, but I'm not interested in sexting.
🍮 This is a sideblog I started but I've had Tumblr since 2015
🥥 I've been interested in feedism, weight gain, stuffing, and bellies from a very early age. The older I got I learned more about fat liberation and I've been active in feedist communities for my entire adult life
🥨 Minors can go ahead and follow bc I usually post about kink, not kink itself, and minors should have a safe place to explore their kinks on the Internet.
🥧 I'm pro kink, pro fic, and while I think these titles are annoying, that makes me pro ship. No one is going to turn to dark kinks bc they read it online. That's correlation not causation
🍭 I actually work in healthcare and I'm a certified professional for medication for adults managing chronic conditions, so feel free to ask health related questions in my inbox. If I'm not familiar with your condition I'll do a quick internet search. I believe in risk aware consensual kink and the dignity of risk to choose to gain weight and manage health conditions
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🍰 along with the "funnier as a feedist" gimmick, sometimes I make feedist graphics, "your fave is a feedist" posts, fat liberation original posts, and "certified feedism post" reblogs
Blog ID: profile picture is a dragon fruit cut in half, and the banner is my edit of the 2011 fat fetish pride flag made by Eugene Victor (black lines removed, red heart changed to white heart for visibility)
surprisingly forward-thinking of jim henson and co. to make a female character in the 70's that's allowed to be loud-mouthed and violent and kind of overwhelmingly romantic and even a huge bitch at times and not have a moment where any character asks her to change
going through all the muppet movies in a row made me realize that like. miss piggy was made in the 70's. and it's so rare even today to have a character like her. she's loud, she's selfish, she's funny, she's extremely vain, she's obsessed with romance, she's violent, she's kind of annoying, and there's not a single moment in any of these films where she's asked to tone down any of these personality traits. i am not joking when i say that miss piggy might be one of the best treated female characters ever written
I don't know if this counts as fat joy but I think it does. I've always been very insecure specifically about the shape of my body and how I gain weight. My mum was fat but "pear shaped", for lack of a better word, and said a lot of mean things about me and my dad (who I take after, shape wise), because when we gain weight it all goes to our belly. We're "chicken limbs and a pot belly" shaped. Before I transitioned, she told me I had to keep a better eye on weight because "if you get fat you'll look pregnant and you don't want that". She (thankfully, honestly) died before she saw me transition, and I feel bad saying she was fatphobic, because she was fat herself, but she always tried to teach me that there was a right way to gain weight and that I specifically had to stay thin.
I'm starting my gaining journey but it's been slow. Her comments really got to me and I had an ED for awhile partly because of the way she treated me. I'm obsessed with a (now deceased) celebrity I won't name for privacy reasons, but he gained weight at one point for a film role and then didn't lose this weight after. He looked sooooo good. And there's one video of him, towards the end of his career, in a pretty figure hugging shirt. And that figure? Is just like mine! Skinny limbs, no hips, no ass, big big belly and round double chin. He's bigger than me in that video but it gives me hope. There's no "right" shape to be fat, and when I do get as big as he did (and bigger!) I'll be just as sexy.
Audibly groaning as everyone around him rose to their feet, local baseball fan Mark Girma told reporters Friday that he resented a fourth-inning home run for making him pause eating so he could clap. “Oh, for Christ’s sake, now?” said Girma, who had reportedly just squeezed his way down his row following a 25-minute concessions ordeal and was balancing a hot dog, a cup of fries, and a large beer on his lap when Kansas City Royals left fielder Isaac Collins launched a solo shot into the bleachers.
random thought but i wish i saw more abt how to cope with experiencing fatphobia. not just how to find good doctors but also how to increase your own confidence. my body is made with love but my brain is anxious abt being treated differently. i love my body yet theres so much shame around gaining on purpose and i wish there was more advice on how to cope with the anxiety and also with experiencing discrimination cuz both really suck
Yeah 🫂 it does suck. I'm sorry. I think the biggest thing to do in the face of discrimination is to get involved with your community! Overcoming your own insecurities is good and important, but when you have messaging from media and society 24/7 saying you're worthless, even the most confident person can still be shaken. Surround yourself with fat friends! Follow fat people on social media! When you have other people around you that look like you, you feel like less of a freak. And seeing how other fat people deal with the abuse they get on a daily basis is really validating and makes you feel less alone. Not all fat people will be accepting of a feedist (sadly), and feedism communities might be more difficult to find irl, but there are strength in numbers. There are good resources out there about how to deal with fatphobia specifically! It might be tough to find them, but if you give me specific questions, I'll dig through the Internet and find an answer/see if I have knowledge on the subject to provide an answer myself/leave it open to my followers for their additions. I love you and you're not alone!
Im feeling kind of weird right now, and id appreciate some feedback if youd be willing to give it to me.
I see a lot of feedists and feedees talking about their goals revolving how much theyre hoping to be able to eat in the future, and how they progress to that point. I love the goals, but it also makes me feel quite invalid personally, as (to put a long story short,) I ended up getting very ill and now have a stomach that can only hold MAYBE 6oz of solid food on a good day, due to surgery.
I guess what I’m trying to ask is, do you have any suggestions on how to deal with this odd insecurity? Im not even particularly a feedee, and am more into feeding a partner, but i still worry about this frequently. Have you come across other feedists/feedees with a similar issue?
Thank you:)
I'm sorry you feel like this 😞 it's definitely not a prerequisite of feedism to be able to consume a large quantity of food. I can see why it would bring feedees pride to be able to do so, but there's no point in shaming others who can't- for any reason, including medical. I have encountered other feedists who have capacity limitations that bring them insecurity- specifically, I had one in my inbox asking how they could increase their capacity, but that's not possible for everyone. I'm not sure how to make you feel better about it, other than to say that you're not less of a feedist for not being able to eat huge amounts. If you experience a full sensation after 6 oz of food, maybe you have it better than the rest of us for needing a large quantity to feel stuffed? Lol food is expensive and I bet there are some feedees that would trade a tiny stomach to feel full quicker if they could keep the weight. 🫂 Everyone has their own strengths and I'm sure there's something awesome you can do that a majority of others can't!
This is something I'm just generally curious about as someone who isn't in a feedist relationship: how exactly does feedism shape your relationship with your partner on a day-to-day basis? This kink is pretty all-encompassing for a variety of reasons obvious but not many people talk about just regular living life as a feedist couple outside of just intimate moments. How does feedism define or shape how you love and interact with your partner? Feel free to ignore or delete if this feels out of line to ask!
Not out of line at all, I love being tmi (and talking about my partner 😛). We don't do a scene (feeding or stuffing or feedism talk) every time we get intimate, but I would say there's body worship involved every time. I'm always playing with his belly during sex. I usually playfully tweak his love handles or ass etc whenever he passes by me. I love biting him playfully (NOT in a sexy way lmao more of an annoying gremlin way) and he lets me chew on his sideboob/tummy. Sometimes when he's eating I'll playfully encourage him to eat more or ask him if he wants dessert. Eating more is always a good thing to us, so it's a light type of flirting that we'll casually engage in private. I don't always watch him eat and he doesn't stuff himself at every meal, every day, or even every week. He's not interested in gaining weight (or losing); he just wants to do whatever his body wants. I don't push him to gain weight and I'd still be happy with him/his body/our relationship if he lost weight. If he was thinner I might want to engage in my kink in other ways, like more frequent stuffing. Sometimes he puts on old clothes for me that we have just for scenes. On special occasions I'll ask him to eat a ton and he'll playfully bargain with me for what he gets in return. He also has his kinks that I do my best to indulge in return to keep us both fulfilled. We don't involve our kink much outside of the privacy of our home - maybe in restaurants, but never in front of others or in a way other people would notice. We align pretty well in kinky ways. It might be less kink on a daily basis than I fantasize about, but of course that isn't realistic, and I'm so lucky & grateful to have a partner that is sex and kink positive and engages in a kink that ultimately changes his body. I was insecure and worried about freaking him out at first, and even a couple of years into our relationship there were still things that I felt were too shameful to bring up. Now that we've been together for 6 years I feel like we have a really solid dynamic to incorporate our fetishes.
What draws you to feedism the most, if you can think of anything specific? c:
It just makes me feel so safe and protected! I've had this fetish literally since before I could remember, so I don't know what it was that drew me to it in the first place. I had periods of food insecurity in my childhood and I also struggled with an eating disorder in my teenage years (and I still struggle with disordered thinking now, even in recovery) so feedism is like security to me. Having partner that participates in it is the most supportive kind of love I can imagine and I feel so seen by him 🥰
anorexia as class signaling in the US needs a dissertation atp because that's genuinely why celebrities are like that. it's not just being thin but underweight to the point where if you didn't have proper resources, you would be unable to function in daily life. that's where class comes into play. it's a way of saying you can afford to live on the edge. I fully believe this
