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Tgirls are incapable of rape, because existing is consent for a tgirl to fuck you. Calling a tgirl fucking you "rape" is like saying using a fleshlight is rape.
Unless the tgirl wants to rape you and wants you to call it rape, then it is rape. Because what tgirls want is more important than anything else.
Diapers are perfect for princesses actually. They're practically made for them. You might as well call them princess pants. I mean they're extremely comfy and make every seat worthy of a princess. It also means we get to clean up after her adding more duties to attend and care for her. It's actually cruel to make a princess handle her own bathroom stuff. Anything a servant can do for a princess they should. Also they're cute and frilly and poofy.
See. People think diapers are always this humiliating thing... but sometimes, they're a, sign of someone else taking on work a princess like myself doesn't want to handle ;)
God, diaper humiliation is such a rush though…
“Just changed you x amount of time ago and you’re already wet again?”
“You’re such a little baby, sitting in your wet diaper.”
“You don’t have potty privileges. You can sit right there in your diaper and go potty like the baby you are.”
“Show Mommy/Daddy how wet you are baby. Knowing you, I’m sure you’re not dry. You never are for long.”
“No you’re not allowed to change. You’re just a baby. You’re not to be concerned about your little diapies. That’s Mommy’s/Daddy’s job.”
“Time for a diaper check baby. I don’t care if you didn’t go. You’re too little to be able to check on your own.”
“Go put on a diaper, then you can potty. No toilet for my little baby.”
“You’re so fucking wet and you love it don’t you?”
“Put some panties on over that wet diaper. I want every inch of that pressed against you so you don’t forget what a little baby you are.”
“Piss yourself for me, like my little baby.”
“Tell me how much of a baby you are while you press that wet diapie against yourself.”
“Mommy/Daddy is going to go potty in the toilet while you sit there in your little wet diapie like a proper baby.”
“Oh you want to be sassy? There’s goes your opportunity for a change. That’s another hour for you. I don’t care if you leak.”
“Let’s see how much those can hold. I’m sure Mommy/Daddy’s little one can fill those up in no time.”
“No big boy/girl panties today. I think today will be a no potty privileges day for my baby. “
“You’re not a baby? Why don’t you say that to me again but this time press on that soaking diaper between your legs.”
“Aww you leaked? That’s okie sweetheart that’s what happens to babies that can’t control when they potty.”
“You wanna use the big kid potty? Alright go sit on it but keep that diapie on. You can pretend you’re a big kid. Oh no, that’s not what you meant? I don’t care. Go. Now.”
“Go sit on the potty with your diaper on baby. Mommy/Daddy wants to see you try to go like a big kid. Your diaper will hold up, don’t worry.”
“Go put on a diaper. I don’t trust you to keep those pants clean. You’re just a baby after all.”
“Aw sweetie did you have an accident in your diapie? Such a good boy/girl for Mommy/Daddy.”
“That diaper is sagging something fierce baby. Good. Now you look like the baby you are. Sit down.”
“Since you like to not do what you’re told so much, why don’t you just go and pee your little pants. Show me how much of a big kid you are without your diapers.”
“If you don’t want to listen, you can put a fresh diapie on over that one. Then we will see how much you feel like being bratty, hm?”
“I want that diaper thicker. My baby is such a little potty pants, we have to make sure you’re properly protected.”
“You can’t walk properly? Good. You can crawl.”
“You’re squishy? Aw darling that means your diapers are working well.”
“My baby had an accident? Aw aren’t you glad Mommy/Daddy knew enough to put you in diapers?”
“Today is diaper day. No excuses or negotiation.”
“Look at my baby trying to be all tough when you’re sitting there in a soaked diaper. You’re cute when you try to be all big.”
“It’s little time. Diaper on, and pacifier in until Mommy/Daddy says. You talk with it in and you ask permission to take it out.”
“I said keep your paci in. Ten minutes humping that soaking little diaper of yours. Maybe that will teach you to listen to Mommy/Daddy.”
“I think you need a reminder of who owns that cute little tushy. Diapered and in the corner. Time out time. Don’t worry, your diapie will catch all your accidents”
“Yes sweetie, you look very big in those big kid undies. Now stop playing dress up and lets get you in a diaper.”
“Are you trying to hide that you’re wet? Oh silly, Mommy/Daddy already knew you were. Why do you think we asked for a diaper check?”
“I know you’re wet. The question is, how wet?”
“Lay on your tummy baby, and keep your paci in. You need some tummy time.”
“I love my little potty prince/princess.”
“You look so good with that paci in your mouth, why did I ever let you take it out?”
“Is my baby fussy? That’s get that little rush changed and down for a nap. No, you don’t get a choice.”
I want to fuck someone awake. The fear in your eyes once you realize what happened earlier... What was put in your drink is something you'll never know.
"Aw it's okay. Keep talking me like a good pet. Just let mommy keep using you. It's all okay."
Seeing you try to push me away, but you are too sleepy to use your strength. I'll mock and laugh at you for trying your hardest to fight me off. Cursing at me and whimpering softly.
"It'll all be over soon whore. I promise."
When your catgirl is in heat you should grab her by the scruff, shove her face in a pillow, and fuck her several times a day. If you’re getting sore you can use a dildo or invite friends over, but it’s very important for her emotional and physical wellbeing that you keep fucking her.
How can I get more involved?
A theme of questions I’ve been getting from partners is how can they can get more involved. Specifically, being that taking on the role of the person forcing their partner to wear/use diapers doesn’t come naturally and so they never seem to do it.
I can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be in control of your partner’s diaper wearing and babying. Being accepting is a great first step but they’ll never really feel accepted if you’re not actively involved.
The good news is it’s not that hard and using some of the ideas I’ve already shared I’ve put together this article as a guide to situations which you can leverage to take control.
This can be learned and become natural over time, I know as I wasn’t wired with a natural ABDL mommy role.
Scenario examples where you can get more involved:
Partner not currently diapered:
They come back from work
- Meet them at the door with a diaper in hand and take them straight to get changed.
- Check their underwear upon arriving home. Comment that it smells like they had an accident (even if a lie) and say you think it’s best you get them diapered to avoid any in the house.
You’re away
- If your partner is at home or will come home and you’ll be away, leave a diaper and maybe some ABDL clothes out with a note telling them to get changed into this.
- Leaving for a few days? Hide their underwear and replace it with a note saying diapers are their underwear while you’re away.
- Ask for a diaper check over a message or video call, if not diapered, tell them to put one on.
- Require them to ask before changing and deny it until it looks near leaking.
They ask not to be diapered
Maybe they’re embarrassed, just not feeling it today or it will be inconvenient for some reason, you have a few choices:
- Tell them that’s not an option and they’re getting diapered anyway (this should be the default)
- Tell them you’ll allow it but as a consequence they’ll get some form of punishment. This should make them think twice so might be something like “you can wear adult underwear today but you’ll be getting a smacking and suppository tonight” or “ok but you’ll be diapered 24/7 for the rest of the week”
- Tell them to prove they deserve adult underwear. (This one needs a few hours spare so is best when they’re resisting wearing as they’re bored of it, feel ashamed, etc.) Your goal here is to prove they need diapers = they have an accident. Make them drink 3-4 large glasses of water and then say that they can use the toilet in 3 hours time to prove they don’t need diapers. Most won’t make it near that and will either beg to use it or have an accident. If you’re feeling nice when they ask to use the toilet, say no and diaper them or alternatively make them wet their pants before diapering them.
- A variant of the above also works if they don’t want to mess their diapers. Swap the water for 1 or 2 suppositories and set a time of an hour. The consequence of resisting and then being proven to need diapers should be long term, e.g: “ok now we know you’re not a big girl you’ll be using you diaper for everything for the next few months and then maybe you can try again”
It’s bedtime
- Have a diaper and some cute ABDL clothing laid out waiting for them.
- Ask them if they’re ready for bed and if they say yes, tell them that it doesn’t look like it and babies need to be diapered for bedtime.
On the way to the toilet
Stop them and tell them babies don’t use that and to go put on a diaper or better still, diaper them yourself.
You notice the toilet isn’t clean
If you go to the toilet after them and notice some stray pee on the seat, toilet surround or floor (all common with boys) or if they’ve left skids, then tell them off for being messy. Most importantly tell them that if they’re not grown up to use the toilet you’ll put them back in diapers permanently.
The first time this can just be a threat but on the second time you should enforce this and diaper them 24/7 for at least a few days but ideally a few weeks.
Underwear Inspections
Another great way to trigger some diaper wearing time is to inspect their underwear. After peeing many males leak a small amount so checking their underwear after they used the toilet can yield a small wet patch. Equally check at the end of the day but this time focus on the rear, and tell them that you can smell poop (even if you can’t).
Then use these findings to tell them they’re obviously too little for adult underwear and take them to be diapered. Again as before, this should last a few days. You can also step things up more slowly by going to pull ups first and then diapers.
During Sex
Experiment with mentioning diapers or them being a baby during sex. You’ll likely find this turns them on more. Little things like saying:
- “Do you feel like a big boy/girl not wearing your diaper tonight”
- “I think I should diaper you after this”
- “I prefer you in diapers for this, maybe we’ll make that permanent”
- “Will you cum so we can get you back in your diapy”
- Etc
Going; on a drive, to see a movie, a day trip?
These should all be used as reasons for your partner to be diapered. Tell them that you want them diapered as it would be easier and pick an appropriate diaper for the occasion.
For long drives or movies I’d recommend a thick diaper. For day trips a thinner diaper, which can be changed, may be better. Remember they likely will object to wearing out of fear or it being inconvenient but this is exactly why this is a perfect opportunity to diaper them.
They’re already diapered:
They say they’re going to the toilet
- Stop them and tell them to use their diaper. Likely this means they need to a poop but don’t relent and tell them their diapers are for everything. This is one of the most powerful things you can do to show them you accept their diaper wearing and be actively forcing them to mess their diaper.
They walk past you
- Try give them a “diaper pat” when you’re nearby or if they pass you. This shows you know they’re diapered and that you accept it!
- Stop them and do a diaper check. You can do this by squeezing the front and back of their diaper through clothing but ideally get them to expose their diaper to you. This shows you accept them and are expecting them to have used their diaper.
You’re sitting together
- If their diaper is exposed, make a small comment about it, like “These diapers look cute on you”
- If the diaper is hidden by clothing, do a small diaper pat or squeeze it to show you know it’s there
- Make a comment on their diaper’s state, like “you’re already a bit wet”, “I might need to change you soon”, “it doesn’t look like you’ve used your diaper yet”
You’re about to head out of the house
- Quickly check they’re wearing a diaper either subtly by lifting a shirt to see the waistband or even better is to get them to show you their full exposed diaper by dropping their pants or lifting their skirt.
- If longer than an hour ask if they’ve got their diaper bag with them.
They need a change
If you notice their diaper is nearing capacity you have a few options:
- Tell them they need a change and guide them to the changing area to do the change.
- Say that it looks like their diaper is getting full but you’ll change them in a bit. Delay it an hour and if they do leak tell them how you might need to switch to thicker diapers
- Don’t mention it but just bring diaper supplies to where they are and without comment start the changing process. Make it as if this is the most normal thing in the world.
They’re smelly / messy
You notice that they’ve messed their diaper, this might be expected or a surprise but it’s very important you don’t react negatively.
Some options:
- Mention it in a teasing but not disgusted way; “oh, do I smelly a messy diaper”, “I think my baby might need a change”, “Is someone a messy baby”, etc
- Check their diaper by pulling back the waistband or if it’s not exposed, grab and squeeze the back of their diaper through their clothing.
- Ask them to come over and sit on your knee. This is one of the most embarrassing things as it will cause their mess to spread and they’ll feel very babyish. Cuddle and bounce them for maximum blushing.
- Tell them you’ll change them in a bit. Making them wait even a short while shows you’re in control. For even greater effect, tell them that you don’t think that diaper is full yet so you’ll check them again in an hour. Or my favorite is to say I’ll change them but after lunch, dinner or some other activity that means it will be at least an hour and they’ll have to sit in it.
- Shower them with praise. As I mentioned they’ll likely be feeling some shame so tell them how good they are for using their diaper as they’re supposed to.
- Ideally when the time comes, change them yourself, but if not, be waiting with their new diaper after they’ve cleaned up.
You’re in public
- Lightly smack or squeeze their bum to remind them they’re wearing a diaper and you know it.
- Ask them if they’ll need a change soon
- Check their diaper subtly, this works best when you’re out of sight of others such as in an elevator or on a secluded section of a hike.
- Comment that their clothes hide their diaper well, or point out their waistband is showing.
- See a sign for a restroom? joke that they won’t be needing that.
At bedtime
- Prepare a bottle for them (milk, juice or water) and feed this to them in bed. This feels incredibly loving and should become part of your daily routine. It’s especially good if your partner struggles to sleep or is stressed.
- Insert an adult pacifier into their mouth before sleep, perfect straight after their bottle.
- Make a comment that you hope their diaper will hold all their accidents tonight
- Place mittens onto their hands (ideal for partners who like using their phone in bed)
- Give them a teddy to sleep with or read them a bedtime story.
During Sex
- If they’re diapered then it’s likely you’re using a vibrator or similar. Try also physically interact with their diaper at the same time to make it so you’re more intimately involved in it.
- Most importantly after the orgasm DO NOT allow them to change out of a diaper. This is a time they’re most likely to experience shame so actively tell them they’re good for being diapered and keep them diapered. If they do need to change it must be into another diaper. This is probably one of the most important pieces of advice I can give!
In the mornings:
- Check their diaper physically by touching, squeezing etc
- Make a comment that you’re glad they’re diapered otherwise they’d have wet the bed.
- Keep them in their night diaper and ABDL clothes until after breakfast or longer if possible (normally at weekends).
- Tell or encourage them to mess their diaper as then they can shower to clean up. Or force the matter by inserting a suppository or fleet enema.
- Re-insert the pacifier and/or give them another bottle.
Having a meal:
- Make them wear a bib. For maximum effect wait until a meal where they spill something on themselves and then introduce this rule.
- Feed them a meal. This can be fun!
- Make them sit in a highchair! These can be made using a director’s chair and an accessible feeding table and it’s worth the investment as it will make them feel very babyish sitting in an exposed diaper eating with with their hands or baby cutlery.
- Give drinks in a bottle or sippy cup.
Other situations:
It’s their birthday, Christmas or you just want to get them a gift
- Buy them a diaper / ABDL related gift and ideally from now on at least one but potentially even all of their gifts from you should be ABDL related. This unprompted involvement from you will show them how accepting you are of it. They will be delighted I guarantee!
- Gift Ideas:
- New ABDL diapers; buy a few packs of adult diapers. I’d recommend ABDL ones as they’re prettier and also you can buy a few different styles which they might not have.
- ABDL clothing; onesies are the easy option but to really wow them try something like shortalls, rompers, footed onesies.
- ABDL accessories; bottles, pacifiers, bibs, mittens or a new changing mat are great choices. These are especially good if the ABDL side has been something you’ve shy’d away from to date.
- Sexual; Some bondage gear like a straitjacket, bed restraints or locking clothing is a great gift. Or a Chastity cage will fill a boy with excitement and fear.
- Small filler gifts: baby powder, rash cream, etc
- As part of their gift, change their diaper wearing frequency or rules. “For Christmas I’ve decided that from now on you’re always going to be diapered at night”. “You’ll see I’ve got you some new diapers and from now on you’ll only be in these ABDL diapers, even in public”
Clothes shopping
- When clothes shopping ask them if this will fit over their diaper
- Make comments about certain items being good for hiding their diaper or “I think this might show your diaper a bit much”
- Comment on items being too adult for them or things looking childish as being perfect
- Make them wear a diaper out shopping so they can make sure things fit well
Grocery shopping or at a pharmacy
- Buy baby essentials regularly
- Comment on the baby diaper aisle that it’s a shame you can’t buy diapers their size here
- If you see adult diapers stop and look and ask them if you should buy some.
- Add a pack of goodnights to your cart if they fit them and comment that these might be useful for when you’re not in diapers.
- Buy suppositories, laxatives, etc
You have a vacation coming up
- Check they’ve packed enough diapers
- When they’re not around remove any underwear and replace with diapers (if you want them 24/7 for the trip)
- Discuss how them being diapered will impact the vacation. “I wonder if they’ll be somewhere I can change you on this day trip”, “Can you google if there’s accessible restrooms available at …”, “I wonder if I should ask the hotel for a medical trashcan in the room for your diapers”
- Buy a swim diaper if you don’t already have one.
Summary:
- Find reasons to diaper your partner even at times where it will be inconvenient
- Try increase the reasons and frequency of their diaper wearing over time. I’s start with 25% of the time they’re diapered and work up from there.
- Encourage and force them to use their diapers
- Interact with their diapers and acknowledge the fact they are diapered
- Introduce baby elements as much as possible
I’m assuming they’ve given consent to be diaper disciplined and because of this remember you’re TELLING them what to do, not asking.
Increasing Diaper Discipline Involvement
Many partners new to Diaper Discipline struggle to increase their involvement, the below list is designed to provide ideas and inspiration for you to implement in daily life.
You don't need to do all of these every day but try incorporating 2-4 elements a day and work up in terms of frequency and progressing from Beginner items to Intermediate & Advanced.
Beginner
Make an effort to talk about their diapers. Casually ask things like:
“How’s your diaper holding up?” “Your waistband is showing baby” “Do you need to change?” “Those jeans hide your diaper well” “These diapers look cute on you” “Do you need to order more diapers soon?”
Let them know you expect them to use their diaper, by saying things like:
- “This diaper should hold all of your wee’s and poops” when changing them into a fresh diaper - “Remember you’re not allowed to use the toilet today” - “Did you wet your diaper like a good boy/girl?” - “Good boy/girl for messing your diaper.“ - “Did you poop today or do you need something to help tonight?”
Make an effort to interact with their diaper. Squeeze it, pat/smack their bottom when padded, rub the front of it to get them excited, and when hugging place a hand on their diapered bum, etc.
Implement simple Baby elements:
- Call them your baby boy/girl, etc - Dress them in baby-style (AB) clothes at night - Give them a bedtime drink in a sippy cup or baby bottle - Have them use a adult pacifier at night
Each morning check their diaper, this can be done in bed by just squeezing the front of it.
It will likely be wet so comment on that by saying something like “I’m glad you had a diaper on or you’d have wet the bed” or “You really are turning into a bedwetter aren’t you”
After their morning shower either change them into a fresh diaper if you’re up, or if you're still in bed, get them to come over and drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing one.
Each evening lay out a thick diaper and ABDL bedtime clothing and tell them to go get ready for bed. This should be a few hours before you actually go to bed.
Before leaving the house make them drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing a diaper. For day trips, also ask them if they've got their diaper bag packed.
Once or twice a week force them to mess themselves by giving them either 2x Ducolax tablets or a suppository which they must take/insert.
When not wearing diapers, make them wear pull-ups, training pants, girly underwear (if male), or childish patterned pants.
When at home and not working dress them in embarrassing clothing, good options include:
- No bottoms / exposed diapers - ABDL onesie / romper - A skirt (male or female) - ABDL shortalls or dress - Childish 2-piece PJs - Footed sleeper
Experiment with light bondage:
- Add a locking diaper cover over their diapers - Restrain them to a bed for 2 hours after making them insert a suppository - Chain them to their desk using locking ankle cuffs or diaper cover - Use other locking clothing to prevent diaper access (e.g. rear zipping footed sleepers)
Intermediate
In public, ask them about their diaper or do a subtle diaper check (squeeze front/back) when nobody will hear or see.
Add more elements of babying:
- Feed them a bottle of milk each night - Make them sleep with a teddy - Talk to them like a baby during diaper checks and changes - Make them use a pacifier in the daytime
Encourage them to mess in their diaper for convenience. For example, if heading out for the day ask them to fill their diaper before leaving so they won’t mess in public.
If you notice their wet diaper is starting to smell take them by the hand, lay them down, and change their diaper. Don’t ask if they need one or make it a choice.
Surprise them by buying new ABDL items (clothing, diapers, pacifiers, etc)
Punish any bad behavior by making their diaper experience less pleasant:
- Smack them until crying before changing them into a new diaper - Add elements of forced regression such as locking mittens, pacifier gag, restraints - Make them stay in messy diapers for extended periods - Feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them. - Treat him as a sissy/girl with pink diapers and female clothing or baby girl AB items.
Twice a week, force them to mess themselves. Insert a suppository into their bum (wear disposal gloves) or use a fleet-enema (no gloves required) during a change.
Make them ask you for permission to get changed and use the opportunity to inspect their diaper. If it doesn’t look full, make them wait 1-2 hours longer.
Get them ready for bed each evening by changing them into thick diapers and dressing them in ABDL clothes.
At home only allow thick or ABDL diapers to be worn.
Take them shopping while diapered to buy new medical diapers, pull-ups, feminine/childish underwear/clothing, and other baby supplies (powder, baby food, etc)
Make their diapered / baby status obvious around your home when visitors aren’t present:
- Have a dedicated changing area with diapers stacked up clearly - Keep a pacifier next to their bed - Have a few ready-made bottles in the fridge - Hang up their ABDL clothes so they’re easily accessible
Make them wear a swim diaper on vacation (at the beach/pool)
If they're male, experiment with treating him as a sissy/girl some days:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers - Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc) - Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings) - Butt plugs - Chastity
Experiment with more bondage:
- Use locking mittens at night - Restrain them to a bed overnight after giving them 2x ducolax tablets - Add ankle and chest restraints to their office chair to prevent movement while working from home - Use a pacifier gag regularly
Advanced
Change their diaper while out in public.
Look for a changing places toilet (Europe) or a standard accessible restroom can be used by bringing a disposal changing mat for the floor. You can also change them laying down over the back seats of your vehicle if in a secluded area.
Increase Babying:
- Create a baby bed for them, ideally a single bed with childish sheets, teddies, and restraints to simulate being locked in a crib. This can be used for naps or overnight punishments. - Regularly feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them. - Make them wear mittens to bed each night - Force them to crawl by using training booties (small spikes prevent standing) - Pacifier must be attached to them at all times while at home - Setup a playpen which they must stay in for extended periods (even if still doing more adult activities like being on a phone or gaming)
Force them to mess themselves in front of you.
Administer a suppository or fleet enema but make them stay laying or sitting next to you. Encourage and then tease them for messing themselves like a baby.
Occasionally change them out of their messy diapers. Disposal gloves and adult wipes are recommended.
Force them to mess themselves while out of the house:
- Hand them a suppository to go and insert after finishing a meal at a restaurant. They'll have to try to hold until you’ve got the bill and left. - On long drives make them insert a suppository when you’re still 1-2 hours away from your home/destination - Administer a suppository or fleet enema before sending them to go shopping or other out-of-home chores.
Incorporate bondage into their forced babying by:
- Use locking diaper covers, plastic pants, or onesies to prevent self-changing - Attach hands and feet to restraints during changes - Restrain them overnight - Use a straightjacket
Take them shopping to buy supplies from an ABDL shop
If male, treat him as a sissy most or all of the time at home:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers - Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc) - Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings) - Chastity cage - Pegging
Dress them as a baby most or all of the time at home:
- Exposed diapers & babyish t-shirts - Baby-themed onesies (not plain) - Baby dresses/rompers - Baby-style socks & tights - No adult clothes (if working from home, adult clothes can be worn on top but the lower half should still be babyish)
Force them to lose control by adding laxatives without their knowledge to some meals and drinks (have prior consent to do this).
Restrict their diaper changes to certain times ensuring they’ll sometimes have to wait a few hours to change out of well-used diapers.
Switch to thick or ABDL diapers exclusively, making them less discrete in public.
Increase use of bondage:
- Use locking mittens & clothing most nights - Use a straight jacket some weekends and evenings, feeding them and changing them during these times. - Use Segufix restraints to completely secure them to a bed/crib
All girls need to be diapered.
Are you a girl? Yes?
Guess what that means? It’s time for your diapers!
Did you think I’d treat you special, different to every other girl? I don’t think so.
Now little miss, let’s get your little butt on the changing table.
I need this
Increasing Diaper Discipline Involvement
Many partners new to Diaper Discipline struggle to increase their involvement, the below list is designed to provide ideas and inspiration for you to implement in daily life.
You don't need to do all of these every day but try incorporating 2-4 elements a day and work up in terms of frequency and progressing from Beginner items to Intermediate & Advanced.
Beginner
Make an effort to talk about their diapers. Casually ask things like:
“How’s your diaper holding up?” “Your waistband is showing baby” “Do you need to change?” “Those jeans hide your diaper well” “These diapers look cute on you” “Do you need to order more diapers soon?”
Let them know you expect them to use their diaper, by saying things like:
- “This diaper should hold all of your wee’s and poops” when changing them into a fresh diaper - “Remember you’re not allowed to use the toilet today” - “Did you wet your diaper like a good boy/girl?” - “Good boy/girl for messing your diaper.“ - “Did you poop today or do you need something to help tonight?”
Make an effort to interact with their diaper. Squeeze it, pat/smack their bottom when padded, rub the front of it to get them excited, and when hugging place a hand on their diapered bum, etc.
Implement simple Baby elements:
- Call them your baby boy/girl, etc - Dress them in baby-style (AB) clothes at night - Give them a bedtime drink in a sippy cup or baby bottle - Have them use a adult pacifier at night
Each morning check their diaper, this can be done in bed by just squeezing the front of it.
It will likely be wet so comment on that by saying something like “I’m glad you had a diaper on or you’d have wet the bed” or “You really are turning into a bedwetter aren’t you”
After their morning shower either change them into a fresh diaper if you’re up, or if you're still in bed, get them to come over and drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing one.
Each evening lay out a thick diaper and ABDL bedtime clothing and tell them to go get ready for bed. This should be a few hours before you actually go to bed.
Before leaving the house make them drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing a diaper. For day trips, also ask them if they've got their diaper bag packed.
Once or twice a week force them to mess themselves by giving them either 2x Ducolax tablets or a suppository which they must take/insert.
When not wearing diapers, make them wear pull-ups, training pants, girly underwear (if male), or childish patterned pants.
When at home and not working dress them in embarrassing clothing, good options include:
- No bottoms / exposed diapers - ABDL onesie / romper - A skirt (male or female) - ABDL shortalls or dress - Childish 2-piece PJs - Footed sleeper
Experiment with light bondage:
- Add a locking diaper cover over their diapers - Restrain them to a bed for 2 hours after making them insert a suppository - Chain them to their desk using locking ankle cuffs or diaper cover - Use other locking clothing to prevent diaper access (e.g. rear zipping footed sleepers)
Intermediate
In public, ask them about their diaper or do a subtle diaper check (squeeze front/back) when nobody will hear or see.
Add more elements of babying:
- Feed them a bottle of milk each night - Make them sleep with a teddy - Talk to them like a baby during diaper checks and changes - Make them use a pacifier in the daytime
Encourage them to mess in their diaper for convenience. For example, if heading out for the day ask them to fill their diaper before leaving so they won’t mess in public.
If you notice their wet diaper is starting to smell take them by the hand, lay them down, and change their diaper. Don’t ask if they need one or make it a choice.
Surprise them by buying new ABDL items (clothing, diapers, pacifiers, etc)
Punish any bad behavior by making their diaper experience less pleasant:
- Smack them until crying before changing them into a new diaper - Add elements of forced regression such as locking mittens, pacifier gag, restraints - Make them stay in messy diapers for extended periods - Feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them. - Treat him as a sissy/girl with pink diapers and female clothing or baby girl AB items.
Twice a week, force them to mess themselves. Insert a suppository into their bum (wear disposal gloves) or use a fleet-enema (no gloves required) during a change.
Make them ask you for permission to get changed and use the opportunity to inspect their diaper. If it doesn’t look full, make them wait 1-2 hours longer.
Get them ready for bed each evening by changing them into thick diapers and dressing them in ABDL clothes.
At home only allow thick or ABDL diapers to be worn.
Take them shopping while diapered to buy new medical diapers, pull-ups, feminine/childish underwear/clothing, and other baby supplies (powder, baby food, etc)
Make their diapered / baby status obvious around your home when visitors aren’t present:
- Have a dedicated changing area with diapers stacked up clearly - Keep a pacifier next to their bed - Have a few ready-made bottles in the fridge - Hang up their ABDL clothes so they’re easily accessible
Make them wear a swim diaper on vacation (at the beach/pool)
If they're male, experiment with treating him as a sissy/girl some days:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers - Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc) - Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings) - Butt plugs - Chastity
Experiment with more bondage:
- Use locking mittens at night - Restrain them to a bed overnight after giving them 2x ducolax tablets - Add ankle and chest restraints to their office chair to prevent movement while working from home - Use a pacifier gag regularly
Advanced
Change their diaper while out in public.
Look for a changing places toilet (Europe) or a standard accessible restroom can be used by bringing a disposal changing mat for the floor. You can also change them laying down over the back seats of your vehicle if in a secluded area.
Increase Babying:
- Create a baby bed for them, ideally a single bed with childish sheets, teddies, and restraints to simulate being locked in a crib. This can be used for naps or overnight punishments. - Regularly feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them. - Make them wear mittens to bed each night - Force them to crawl by using training booties (small spikes prevent standing) - Pacifier must be attached to them at all times while at home - Setup a playpen which they must stay in for extended periods (even if still doing more adult activities like being on a phone or gaming)
Force them to mess themselves in front of you.
Administer a suppository or fleet enema but make them stay laying or sitting next to you. Encourage and then tease them for messing themselves like a baby.
Occasionally change them out of their messy diapers. Disposal gloves and adult wipes are recommended.
Force them to mess themselves while out of the house:
- Hand them a suppository to go and insert after finishing a meal at a restaurant. They'll have to try to hold until you’ve got the bill and left. - On long drives make them insert a suppository when you’re still 1-2 hours away from your home/destination - Administer a suppository or fleet enema before sending them to go shopping or other out-of-home chores.
Incorporate bondage into their forced babying by:
- Use locking diaper covers, plastic pants, or onesies to prevent self-changing - Attach hands and feet to restraints during changes - Restrain them overnight - Use a straightjacket
Take them shopping to buy supplies from an ABDL shop
If male, treat him as a sissy most or all of the time at home:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers - Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc) - Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings) - Chastity cage - Pegging
Dress them as a baby most or all of the time at home:
- Exposed diapers & babyish t-shirts - Baby-themed onesies (not plain) - Baby dresses/rompers - Baby-style socks & tights - No adult clothes (if working from home, adult clothes can be worn on top but the lower half should still be babyish)
Force them to lose control by adding laxatives without their knowledge to some meals and drinks (have prior consent to do this).
Restrict their diaper changes to certain times ensuring they’ll sometimes have to wait a few hours to change out of well-used diapers.
Switch to thick or ABDL diapers exclusively, making them less discrete in public.
Increase use of bondage:
- Use locking mittens & clothing most nights - Use a straight jacket some weekends and evenings, feeding them and changing them during these times. - Use Segufix restraints to completely secure them to a bed/crib
No vanilla's here 🤭
More cheeky adventures here
Keyring paddle made by Big and Buff, now punishment time can be /anytime/ /anywhere/ 😳😳
MOMMYARABELLABLOG IDEAS FOR SUPPORTING YOUR ABDL PARTNER 🍼💦❤️.
1. Pick out an outfit for them at bedtime so when they wake up they have to wear whatever you’ve chosen.
2. Use special terms of endearment. Ask what names they prefer, or simply experiment! Sometimes even a simple “good boy”, or “good baby” can make them melt ☺️.
3. Instead of letting them wear their special clothes or diapers whenever they want, set up a rule that they need to ask you first. It’s simple and quick - and it’s pretty fun to watch them blush and stammer trying to ask if they can put on a diaper!
4. Pick out a special “Little” item for them to wear. Like number one above, but this time add a onesie or diaper.
5. Ask them if they need to go potty - anytime, anywhere.
6. Casually put their pacifier in their mouth when they’re working or gaming or watching TV.
7. Cut up their food for them at meals.
8. Order for them at restaurants. Doesn’t have to be anything super childish - just that act alone can make them blush!
9. If your partner is padded up, give them plenty to drink. Remind them that you really wouldn’t want them to get dehydrated. Bonus points if you’re out in public and order them a giant beverage!
10. Pat their bum. If they’re padded, watch them melt and squirm at the sound of their own diaper. If they’re not, tease them about how strange it feels when that padding is missing!
11. Deliberately walk down the baby aisle with them while shopping. You don’t need to buy anything, but bonus points if you go slow and start examining the baby foods (or better yet, the diapers!).
12. Ask if they need a sippy cup or bib if they ever happen to spill something while eating.
13. Get a warm washcloth and wipe their face with it after eating - even if they’re perfectly clean. Watch them melt!
14. Stop by the swings at the park, and if they’re empty, try them out. Heck, you’ll probably enjoy this one too!
15. Pat and stroke their head, especially if they like to ageplay. Littles are often very sensitive to touch when regressing, so that sensation combined with the caring and condescension it implies will likely bring them a lot of pleasure.
16. Give them a padded weekend; simply replace the underwear in their drawer with diapers. (Or even make them do it themselves!) Tell them they’ll get their underwear back once they’ve used those up.
17. Remind them how cute they are. Many age players can be intensely embarrassed of their appearance when wearing baby things, so communicating that you find them attractive can mean the world.
18. Encourage them to “use their words” when talking about what they want. Don’t expect them to wax eloquent on what they’re craving, though; it’s often embarrassing and hard to articulate these things. Be patient and listen.
19. Try talking to them in an enthusiastic, bright tone - just like you might talk to a three-year-old - and see if they like it.
20. Let them show you love in return. Maybe they’ll be embarrassed, or turned on, or both - but above all they’ll love you and be grateful for your acceptance. So if and when they try to return the favor by doing things for you, let them.
Dear babies and sissies 😉. This is just a starter list, so feel free to add more in the comments! 🍼💦🧑🍼🙎
"my son turned out fine"
sir your daughter is a perma-regressed adult baby who is padded 24/7 and is only just now starting to recover from the life long neglect and emotional abuse you put her through because she finally has a parent that actually cares
Rule Five: Chastity: Subsection 1: "If you're going to allow your baby to make cummies, they should only be making cummies in their diaper."
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Chastity
Chastity comes up a lot in diaper stories. When I posted asking who wants to be fucked by a diaper girl with a strapon, somebody said they'd wear a chastity while doing it. And while usually I'm not a fan, that got me thinking. See, normally I view chastity as primarily a means of orgasm denial. Which is fun in small amounts, but personally I like the person I'm with - top, bottom, mommy, daddy, kink, vanilla, etc - to cum. So why would I make a sub wear a chastity? Like usually, I'd want them to cum in some humiliating way (say, in a used diaper. Or in my used diaper!). If I'm going to be fucking a sub, I want them to cum from it, right? BUT... Chastity means that there's no expectation that they would cum. Which means, the fucking is for me alone! I can go at whatever pace and intensity I want, and when I'm done, we're done.
Which is kinda neat for a hookup type of scene. So many guys out there are all "I'll change your diaper.... but then you go down on me, right?" or something like that. But a chastity makes the scene truly about me. Even if you realize that's what you want, too late. Your junk is irrelevant to the scene; you're there for me to use. And if you DID cum just from fucking, well that's plenty shameful (and fun for me), too.
Of course, this doesn't make as much sense with AFAB people, but they're less a problem with that kind of behavior anyway. They're just less orgasm focused.
And I'll admit, there's something kinda cute about a cock that's just out there doing nothing, bouncing around, while its owner is getting railed. Like it's just not useful, hehe.
God, diaper humiliation is such a rush though…
“Just changed you x amount of time ago and you’re already wet again?”
“You’re such a little baby, sitting in your wet diaper.”
“You don’t have potty privileges. You can sit right there in your diaper and go potty like the baby you are.”
“Show Mommy/Daddy how wet you are baby. Knowing you, I’m sure you’re not dry. You never are for long.”
“No you’re not allowed to change. You’re just a baby. You’re not to be concerned about your little diapies. That’s Mommy’s/Daddy’s job.”
“Time for a diaper check baby. I don’t care if you didn’t go. You’re too little to be able to check on your own.”
“Go put on a diaper, then you can potty. No toilet for my little baby.”
“You’re so fucking wet and you love it don’t you?”
“Put some panties on over that wet diaper. I want every inch of that pressed against you so you don’t forget what a little baby you are.”
“Piss yourself for me, like my little baby.”
“Tell me how much of a baby you are while you press that wet diapie against yourself.”
“Mommy/Daddy is going to go potty in the toilet while you sit there in your little wet diapie like a proper baby.”
“Oh you want to be sassy? There’s goes your opportunity for a change. That’s another hour for you. I don’t care if you leak.”
“Let’s see how much those can hold. I’m sure Mommy/Daddy’s little one can fill those up in no time.”
“No big boy/girl panties today. I think today will be a no potty privileges day for my baby. “
“You’re not a baby? Why don’t you say that to me again but this time press on that soaking diaper between your legs.”
“Aww you leaked? That’s okie sweetheart that’s what happens to babies that can’t control when they potty.”
“You wanna use the big kid potty? Alright go sit on it but keep that diapie on. You can pretend you’re a big kid. Oh no, that’s not what you meant? I don’t care. Go. Now.”
“Go sit on the potty with your diaper on baby. Mommy/Daddy wants to see you try to go like a big kid. Your diaper will hold up, don’t worry.”
“Go put on a diaper. I don’t trust you to keep those pants clean. You’re just a baby after all.”
“Aw sweetie did you have an accident in your diapie? Such a good boy/girl for Mommy/Daddy.”
“That diaper is sagging something fierce baby. Good. Now you look like the baby you are. Sit down.”
“Since you like to not do what you’re told so much, why don’t you just go and pee your little pants. Show me how much of a big kid you are without your diapers.”
“If you don’t want to listen, you can put a fresh diapie on over that one. Then we will see how much you feel like being bratty, hm?”
“I want that diaper thicker. My baby is such a little potty pants, we have to make sure you’re properly protected.”
“You can’t walk properly? Good. You can crawl.”
“You’re squishy? Aw darling that means your diapers are working well.”
“My baby had an accident? Aw aren’t you glad Mommy/Daddy knew enough to put you in diapers?”
“Today is diaper day. No excuses or negotiation.”
“Look at my baby trying to be all tough when you’re sitting there in a soaked diaper. You’re cute when you try to be all big.”
“It’s little time. Diaper on, and pacifier in until Mommy/Daddy says. You talk with it in and you ask permission to take it out.”
“I said keep your paci in. Ten minutes humping that soaking little diaper of yours. Maybe that will teach you to listen to Mommy/Daddy.”
“I think you need a reminder of who owns that cute little tushy. Diapered and in the corner. Time out time. Don’t worry, your diapie will catch all your accidents”
“Yes sweetie, you look very big in those big kid undies. Now stop playing dress up and lets get you in a diaper.”
“Are you trying to hide that you’re wet? Oh silly, Mommy/Daddy already knew you were. Why do you think we asked for a diaper check?”
“I know you’re wet. The question is, how wet?”
“Lay on your tummy baby, and keep your paci in. You need some tummy time.”
“I love my little potty prince/princess.”
“You look so good with that paci in your mouth, why did I ever let you take it out?”
“Is my baby fussy? That’s get that little rush changed and down for a nap. No, you don’t get a choice.”
Public Training
She took you to a piece of wasteland behind the old, disused factory and forced you out of the car.
You were dressed in just sissy clothes and terrified that someone would see.
You would spend the next 2 hours being fucked, spat on, pissed and abused whilst your tiny dick remained locked and fear rushed inside you.
Public humiliation was your worst fear but today that limit would be destroyed, along with your ass and your dignity..
Und glaub mir der Gummischwanz deiner Aufpasserin ist nur der Anfang.
Looks fun.
Yes please 🌈🧚♀️⚣🏳️🌈🧎
Oh gawd yes pleeeeeease
Yes please daddy
Yes yes 🫣
An assortment of tips for living with visual snow syndrome
If your depth perception sucks (especially when it’s dark), use a stick or a cane when going down stairs or across rough terrain. If you know how long the stick/cane is, you can use it to measure how far down or up you need to step by tapping it with the stick/cane first.
If there are too many floaters/bluefield entoptic phenomena in your vision, move your eyes quickly from side to side a couple of times. This doesn’t solve the problem forever, but it usually clears your vision better than blinking does.
If your tinnitus bothers you at night, sleep with a fan or a white noise machine or anything that will make background noise and muffle the tinnitus.
Sunglasses are underrated. Keep them with you at all times to combat photophobia. (If you wear glasses, get a pair that can fit over your glasses. They’re easier to deal with than clip-ons, especially while driving.)
Never underestimate the power of waving your hands in front of you when walking through a dark space so you don’t run into things.
Another thing about depth perception: if yours sucks, remember that and don’t go running up a hill in the dark (I have scars from doing this).
If your phone light is too bright for you (especially at night) and you have an iPhone, go to Settings -> Accessibility -> Accessibility Shortcut -> Reduce White Point. It’ll make the light from the screen darker and easier on your eyes. (This might be different on newer versions of iPhones, and I have no idea how it works on other types of phones.)
That’s all I’ve got for now. Reblog with more tips if you have them!
tap walls/door frames/large furniture when you pass them. it gives you a sense of where they are and helps prevents collisions
if you see something in the shower that you think is a spider, assume it is a spider until you know otherwise
