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Lucifer in Sam's room in 11.22 genuinely does make me feel sick to my stomach. That's his rapist. In his bedroom. Probably on his bed. And the show wants me to laugh. It wants me to laugh about Sam's rapist in his bedroom just 7 episodes after "you're like the girl who kept turning me down at the prom", just 12 episodes after "a solid "B" on the tongue action". The show took the time to remind us in inescapable language exactly what Lucifer did. We saw Sam small and fearful like a child telling Sully that he thinks he has to go back to The Cage, we saw tears roll down Sam's face when he realises he's trapped in The Cage with Lucifer again, we saw the terror and horror on Sam's face at the realisation that Cas was Lucifer, as Lucifer violated him yet again by touching his soul, Sam pressing his palm after that violation because he needs to know if what he experienced was real. And I'm supposed to laugh.

I'm supposed to laugh.

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mrs sadie adler, widow /// [redraw]

francy-sketches

Sometimes I like to imagine a world where joffrey is (slightly) nicer to his siblings u.u

queermania

i think before you marry someone, you should sit down and go through the AITA subreddit with them and see what their take on those situations is

queermania

does your potential future spouse think it's reasonable for their mother to be involved in your family planning? or to make comments about your body? do you? how does your future spouse feel about girls and/or boys nights? situations involving exes? cancelling trips last minute? under what circumstances do they think it's reasonable to host somebody in your home and for how long? etc.

and the goal of doing this isn't to agree one-hundred percent on every single thing. it's to understand how you both view obligations, family, friends, finances, conflict, etc. and to make sure that even if you don't have the exact same perspective, you can understand where the other person is coming from without feeling like they're a crazy person. you have to be able to come to reasonable compromises and sometimes that involves one person fully caving, and sometimes it involves the other person fully caving, and sometimes it's both of you giving a little, but you need to understand what things you both are and aren't willing to compromise on because those types of situations are going to come up in a marriage.

queermania

also, since this has turned into actual advice: you should talk through why you think what you think, even when you agree, because you might not be agreeing for the same reasons.