🌹You Will Heal🌹

this is a blog for anyone who has experienced CSA or cocsa trauma and wishes to cope and heal. This blog, however, is not meant for maps and they will be blocked, go follow the hundreds of other map blogs. This blog is currently run by mod Jade, mod Dave and mod Remus, but we don't mind having more tho 💕

[proudmoore3377]

For any abuse survivor, wether it be physical, sexual, emotional, this song is powerful. Kesha is part of the community of survivors, and has blessed us all with an anthem.

[allthingsshabbyandbeautiful-dea]

[csa-positivity]

I'm so scared of becoming like my childhood abusers. One of my dreams is to protect kids from pedophiles but I keep getting thoughts like "what if you become a pedophile" and I'm so scared.

Don’t think about it too much anon. You’ll never become like them, you WONT become like them. You just have to keep telling yourself that. Everything will be okay 

-mod jade

[csa-positivity]

i liked 2 safe-for-work age regression posts and then after that, a childporn blog interacted with one of my posts on my main blog. im so triggered right now. and it doesnt help that i felt triggered all day, especially right after waking up from a nap at 7 pm. thank you for your blog. it's helping me calm down. im so upset. i dont know if the cp blog found me through mutual followers or through the agere posts b/c they reblogged from someone i used to follow :(

Ugh thats so gross, I hope your okay. I’m sending you lots of hugs and I’m glad my blog helps you guys so much <3

-mod jade

[positypo-blog]

❤

[egg-ii-deactivated20190112]

yea.

[csa-positivity]

% (Previous anon) No, no, no, I am a CSA survivor, myself! The question wasn’t nessicarily about trying to invalidate CSA survivors (I understand their feelings completely), but rather why I don’t feel as strongly as they do. I naturally sympathize with people, but when I try to say ‘I’m a CSA victim and all pedos maybe shouldn’t die’, they react so... Weird. You assuming that I’m not a CSA survivor because I’m of this mindset is a good example, actually. I’m awfully sorry for the confusion.

well, one, you didn’t specifically state you were a CSA survivor with a differing opinion. I would have responded differently, the way your tone came off seemed like you were a non CSA survivor asking for assistance. So I don’t appreciate you trying to blame me for something I didn’t know about, I find it a bit rude so don’t include me in your “example”. And two, I’m not sure what the point of this even is...are you trying to get me to sympathize with you or validate you? Because your entitled to your opinion and you shouldn’t have to explain your trauma whenever you bring up your opinion. But try and keep in mind that often people who go through a traumatic event often sympathize more that others, just something to remember ya know? If that answers your question. 

-mod jade 

[csa-positivity]

% All the CSA survivors I’ve met always say that every single pedophile, even if they’re seeking help, should burn and suffer, and I’m not sure I agree with that. I mean, do I hate them? Absolutely. Do I want to talk to them? No. Do I sympathize with them? AB-solutely not. But do I want them all to die when they COULD get help? No, not really. But I’m scared to bring this up with anybody. It’s just... A gross feeling. Do you have any thoughts?

um....I don’t really like discourse here but I’ll try and answer this. If your uncomfortable with death I can understand. If you aren’t a CSA survivor I’m not saying you can’t have an opinion, but you shouldn’t try and talk over/ assert your own opinion on them. Most CSA survivors are often forced to try and sympathize with their abusers when they express their (justified) anger. I’m not saying your doing that, but try and keep that context in mind if you do ever bring it up. 

Like, if a friend is venting to you, and they talk about wanting pedophiles to die, don’t be like “well I don’t think they should all die ya know”, but if its a casual discussion please tread likely. Also take into account the individual survivors feelings, they all aren’t a monolith. Context of the conversation is important, don’t just send them an ask saying “I don’t think all pedos deserve to die :/” because it can come across as rude. 

I hope I helped you out, have a nice day :-) -mod jade

#pedophile mention  #discourse #asks 

[naturaekos]

[art-0f-studying]

I am cheering you on, keep going. You can do it, get that homework done, do that thing you’ve been putting off, clear your desk. You’re doing brilliantly :)

[csa-positivity]

I’m not sure if I would count as a CSA survivor. When I was 12, I got into a relationship with and sexted a man who pretended to be someone my age, before being found out my my mother and being forcibly taken away from him. For a long time, I’ve identifies as a CSA survivor, because ‘sexual’ is defined as ‘relating to the... activities connected with... intimate physical contact between individuals’, and ‘abuse’ is ‘treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty’, but lately I haven’t been sure.

it was csa. you were coerced by an older man to be sexual with him.... I would consider that csa. and please dont look at your trauma as something that needs to “pass” a certain number of qualifications to be able to be considered trauma. Sending sexts can be consider “sexual intimacy” since you are showing that person your naked body, and it’s abuse because someone coerced you into thinking you were talking to someone your age. And even if that the man you were talking to you was your age or slightly older, it still isn’t okay, it would be under the category of COCSA (child on child sexual abuse). So...try and focus on healing instead of scrutinizing yourself, okay?

-mod jade

[novice-heartbreaker-deactivated]

Based off my own reminder post | You’re doing a pretty good job and you are worth more than you give yourself credit for!

[sheisrecovering]

Being alive is not easy. Be proud of how far you have come. 

[csa-positivity]

i am SO grateful you are running your blog, you are such a good person <3

Omg thank you! I wanted to make this blog because was literally seeing ZERO positivity for csa survivors and felt that they deserved some love! I'm so happy that more and more of you guys are finding this blog and I hope that I can help each and every one of you find peace. If you have any questions or ever need advice just drop in an ask! Have a wonderful day hun! ( ˘ ³˘)❤ -mod jade

[novice-heartbreaker-deactivated]

You are not the lies you tell yourself, you are worth so much more.

[magicalboye]

If you, or someone you know, is being abused please call the police. Ily stay strong <3

[klefable]