How to land a strictly platonic Sugar Daddy (or mostly non sexual!)
Okay a few have asked me about how I met a platonic SD and how it works.
I met him on SA and he messaged me first, I checked out his profile and this is what I thought: slightly awkward, not completely gorgeous, not totally ugly, rich enough to afford me, not rich enough to be super cocky. I was intrigued.
The first time we met I immediately could tell he was nervous and awkward around girls. This is what you want!
I know when we are looking for POT’s online, a lot of times we want a POT to be really good looking because hello if we are going to sleep with them, it would be nice if they were hot too.
My advice: don’t automatically throw out the awkward looking POT or the guy who could lose a few pounds. These guys could be your PLATONIC SD’s, so why do you care how they look if you don’t have to sleep with them?
Take advantage of this guys inadequacy as a chance for YOU to run the show. If he’s not a perfect 10 (or 8, or 5…) chances are he is somewhat insecure. This gives you power over them. Meet with them for a first date, and at dinner say something like “I really enjoy the company/mentorship of those older than me. It’s refreshing to go out with intellectuals than guys my age. Guys my age just want sex right away, and I’m not into that.” This helps set the idea you are not an easy lay. Then, talk up how fascinating he is and how amazed you are by his success. This gives you the chance to kind of knock down their hopes and dreams of sleeping with you, but still keeps them liking you because you shower his inadequate ass with compliments.
I almost prefer the guys online who are not as good looking because rich, hot, good body, confident = cocky. Those are the guys who expect sex right away. If a POT isn’t as good looking, he probably gets less messages from girls, letting him focus on you more.
How to find a platonic SD with a few reminders:
1. If a guy messages you right away and says something like, “hey baby I’m rich, have 3 homes, a plane…..I could offer you $5,000 a month, all the shopping you could want, and pay your bills….” Etc. THIS IS NOT YOUR PLATONIC SD. This guy is cocky, over confident, and do you really think you will get 5k for NO SEX? Get real.
2. Which brings me to #2. If you are in a platonic arrangement, you probably won’t get paid as much for an allowance. BUT you can still work this awkward SD out of extra gifts, expenses, and shopping trips later. A charming sweet girl can charm the pants off and under confident guy.
3. Make sure your online profiles show off YOU. Whether you’re looking for a platonic SD or not, show good pictures of yourself. Not skanky, not slutty, but sexy and hot! If you like your bikini photos from Hawaii last year, don’t be afraid to show them!
4. Always respond even if they’re ugly! This process takes time, and you should be kind enough to respond. This could be your future platonic SD. Feel them out, if they aren’t overly suggestive or mention sex, if they aren’t all charming or lead with an allowance offering, respond. These are the awkward, under confident guys that makes AMAZING platonic’s.
5. Once you think you have a POT platonic or land a platonic SD, you must do things to keep them interested since you aren’t giving up sex. Be the girl you think they want. This is where sugar babies are really actresses. Do they want teasing vixen with high heels and a smokey eye? Or do you think they want cute, sweet, laid back virgin type?
6. Spark their interests other ways. Offer a back massage. Bring him a bottle of wine. Suggest shopping for a new suit for HIM. Don’t always ask for shopping trips for you, if you ask to go shopping say, “didn’t you say you needed to get some new clothes? I could help you!” Chances are, once you are out shopping he will buy YOU THINGS, but make it seem like it is about HIM. Keeping things platonic means offering him things in place of sex to fill the void.
For example, does he love desserts? Make him cookies and bring them over next time you see him. Hell, if you can’t bake, BUY dessert from a bakery, put it on a plate and say you made it. I can’t stress this enough, do small things for him! At the end of the day, who gets paid? We do. If you aren’t giving him sex, you MUST give something else. Do things HE wants in order to get what YOU want: $$$$
At the end of the day, you tease, play, and hustle him. If he says he is okay with no sex, and then pressures you for sex, he is not the SD for you. DON’T let money get too much into your head you lose your standards or forget what some of you are really looking for: a platonic SD.
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