Metanoia

Black Women Unapologetically Ask For More Money.

[onikaahonee]

He Pays for What He Wants!

It’s just that simple...yet you give him options so that his fragile male ego doesn’t think you are backing him into a corner or being greedy. “Oh Honee, what do you mean? What the hell are you talking about today?” I’m so glad you asked ! Lol

Him: I like my women shaved, airstrip, etc down there.

You: Awesome! European Wax Center offers a great package where you buy 9 and get 3 free or you can pay monthly which is more expensive of course. Pretty much takes care of that for the entire year. They even offer ones for students! 

Would you like to add that to our monthly allowance or should I give you the number so that you can call and take care of the cost?

Him: I love a woman that can go from t-shirts and jeans to a nice sexy dress/evening gown and heels, etc.

You: I can definitely do that! I have plenty of jeans and tshirts in my wardrobe, however, I’d love a few new dresses/evening gowns that you’d love to see me in.

 Would you like to  set aside a shopping date to take care of that, add a shopping allowance, or buy directly from my wishlist?

Him: I love lingerie with a garter belt and stockings. Do you have any you can send me pictures in?

You: I’m so glad you asked! I was just looking at a few sets on the Agent Provocateur/ La Perla website that I really liked. Here’s the links to them, Check them out and let me know what you think (...checks out links tells you how much he’d love see you in them) I love that you and I have the same taste. 

Would you like to purchase them directly for me or purchase the gift-card so that I can purchase them myself?

Specific things that he wants should not come out of your agreed upon allowance. Find his most prized possession and compare the two if he ever tries you.

Example:

Him: Babe, doesn’t your allowance cover that?

You: Babe :( you know my allowance covers my necessities first. I love how you’re so manly about your desires that require a little more extra work on my part which is certainly not problem. It makes me feel great to make you happy. Kind of like when you bought your Porsche last week. You could have brought the regular manufactured one, but you also added the premium package, tinted windows, and better tires which cost a little more then you intended to spend.

 I’ve seen the happiness in your face when we ride in it.

 I’m not one to compare myself to cars because I can do things for you that your Porsche can’t :), but that wax is my premium package, tinted windows is that dress/shoes, and those new tires is my lingerie. 

Don’t you want to experience the happiness of all that too?

You’ll thank me for this long ass post later,

Honee

[ethiopianbarbieglowup]

[bloggin-by-zama]

[loveletters2myself]

i am too highly favored to be taken advantage of. everything i do is so pure and authentic, my karma will always be good. if you ever do anything to me with ill intentions, you’re only harming yourself.

[1gmoney]

Most of the time it’s just me and my music

[barbienefertiti]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Not everyone deserves to know the real you. Walk away and leave them to criticize who they think you are.”

— Unknown

[hoodbrat]

never apologizing for my high standards. actually i deserve to have more.

[tarynel]

A lot of women lower their standards to seem like the cool girl. They don’t wanna come off as a bitch or a gold digger when in reality all they want is effort. That may work for you in the first stages of the relationship but I guarantee you will be pissed a few years in. When he puts 0 effort into doing nice things or actually leaving the house. Don’t set yourself up for failure like that. Be firm in what you want.

[theambitiouswoman]

Not naturally putting in effort is all you need to know. You shouldn’t have to ask for effort and you shouldn’t have to tell men the kind of man you think he should be. How he treats you is how he feels about you. Period.

[theoceanchoseyou]

adding on—if a person is truly ready for a loving, committed relationship, they will show it in their effort. people like this are rare because it takes a lot of maturity and self awareness to be a loving partner. being selective isn’t stuck up; it is necessary, in any relationship you build. be clear on what you want and stand by it. you won’t need to lower your standards for the right person.

[theambitiouswoman]

Beautifully said ^

[bakwaaas]

I’m not delusional I just have a rich inner world

[netflixandnudez]

[babyphat05-deactivated20250613]

Who are some faces in Hollywood that you find them be unique?

[thepeacefulgarden]

[barbienefertiti]

Travel and cultural capital is a form of wealth. Lounging in an infinity pool in a thong bikini is just as precious as any thing else!

[belovedantonia]

How to exchange this type of capital ? How can I use it properly and take advantage of it ?

[barbienefertiti]

Do you follow really good travel bloggers? They take care of their selves, have had amazing experiences they can bond with, understand diff cuisines and cultural contexts, music and art. They would make perfect dinner companions and new friends because of the soft skills they have. This culture of being passionless and caring about nothing but “looking good” is played. Build and cultivate yourself always

[belovedantonia]

Soft skills at networking will really transform your network in your net worth, won’t it ?

[hathor77]

Be rare. Be the vixen with a cunning love of intellectualism. Be the barbie doll who speaks multiple languages. Be the sex fanatic that reads Shakespeare..Be the science nerd that parties frantically.

Your ability to draw someone in is dependent on how addicted you make them. How unique you are. When we reminisce on some of the most seductive people in our lives, the exes we never forget. One of our key fascinations with them is that they were so multifaceted. Muscular yet gentle. Funny yet politically conscious….  it’s the same principle with a lot of areas in life including job interviews.

A seductive person is never predictable or one dimensional. Find your alluring traits and own it.

[pradame]

[spiritual-vibrations]