F*%# Yeah, CupCake!

I am BACK, B*tches🧁 Just reactivated my acct after a decade💓 Some things have changed... Let me reintroduce myself🤩 I am CupCake➕♀️ Advocate✊🏼 Cannacian®️ Esthetician/MUA/Creative🎨 AIDS Thriver(d.2018)💪🏻 Stigma Slayer⚔️ Generational Trauma Breaker🙌🏼 **i do not claim the rights to photos, unless OBVIOUSLY, OR otherwise stated**

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The house already smells like heaven!! Started the corned beef this morning 💚 Hope everyone has a safe and Happy St Patty's 🌈🍀🇮🇪 (at Tulsa, Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp5q3kBOYTr/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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It is a crude reality and some days it feels more harsh than others. But it's one that cannot be unseen. 👀 #Quotes #QOTD #FYP https://www.instagram.com/p/Cmzc8ccuzQF/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Be gentle. @gaialects #fyp https://www.instagram.com/p/Cmy1drlu_yB/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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#growthmindset #growthquotes #change #stopholdingyourselfback #fyp https://www.instagram.com/p/CmvNXTFsRxz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Nice and easy. Keep your hands at your sides. Easy does it. https://www.instagram.com/p/CmuLrYZuexS/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Committed. #PositivelyMedicated #LiveLifeIrie #CupCake https://www.instagram.com/p/CmuK_eSuBOT/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Really excited to see @punchextractsofficial in Oklahoma 🙌🏼 When I was in California earlier this year visiting my Dad just before he passed away I made my way over to the closest dispensary to his house when I left - @velvetcannabis which was a WHOLE experience in itself 🥰 this awesome young lady, whose name I can't remember (altho I know I posted about it and her back then) BUT she was ALSO born on Guam 😎 leading to a whole in the moment bonding experience, turned me on to #PunchExtracts #Rosin 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻 It instantly made my heart smile seeing it at @reupdispensary I was MORE excited it was half the $$$ 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 #Zealousy #FlavorChasers ***Nothing for sale, ever. Medicinal purposes ONLY. #PositivelyMedicated #LiveLifeIrie #CupCake (at Tulsa, Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmCjO8MvMiy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Your inability to trust or accept support from others is a trauma response. Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning, is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, rejection, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you. From the parent who was absent and abandoned you. From the lovers who offered sexual intimacy but never offered a safe haven that honored your heart. From the friendships and family who took more and never gave. From all the situations where someone told you “we’re in this together” or “I got you”, just to then abandon you. From all the lies and all the betrayals. You conditioned yourself along the way, to go without easily trust people. Total independence is not conducive to a healthy social acceptance of others’ want to be in your life. There’s nothing wrong with being self-reliant, alas you cannot live like an island. We all need support at some time in life. We need healthy interactions with others or you’ll become a recluse and lose your grasp on reality. To trust is to be vulnerable and people will always disappoint us, but only if we trust with expectation. Don’t accept You from others, nobody has your heart. Just learn to trust your gut snd instinct. Keep healthy boundaries but allow others to see who you are. You are worthy of having support. You are worthy of having true partnership. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of having your heart healed. You are worthy to be adored. You are worthy to be cherished. You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise. You are worthy to receive. You are worthy to receive. You are worthy. You don’t have to earn it. You don’t have to prove it. You don’t have to bargain for it. You don’t have to beg for it. Allow the good in and reject what is disrupting your peace. Credit: the counselor https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl3zYZmLQ_i/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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🥳 Bae won the Re-Up/Releaf raffle 🙌🏼 Thank you @reupdispensary @releaflaboratories @purplereign_cannabis @altrdcannabis (at Tulsa, Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl2OXZZsQzs/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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@worldaidsday - "Recent research found 63% of the public do not remember seeing or hearing about HIV in the past six months. Only a third said they have sympathy for people living with HIV regardless of how they acquired it. Our survey also found 1 in 5 think people think you can acquire HIV through kissing. Only 16% knew if someone is on effective treatment, they can’t pass HIV on and can expect to live a long and healthy life. World AIDS Day is the perfect time for us to raise much needed awareness about HIV. We have a once in a lifetime opportunity to end the HIV epidemic for good, but we must also continue fighting the stigma still experienced by people living with HIV. Your support can help us realise our vision of a future where HIV is no barrier to health or equality." @nationalaidstrust #NationalAidsTrust @ejaf @hivisnotacrime @theaidsmemorial @aidsunited @aidswalkokc @okaidscarefund @aids_conference @thtorguk #PositivelyMedicated #LiveLifeIrie #CupCake #HIV #AIDS #WorldAidsDay #Advocate #AdvocateLikeAMFer #Awareness #EducateDontHate #UEqualsU #KnowYourStatus #ART #Prep #SilenceEqualsDeath #SilenceIsDeadly #EndStigma #EndAids2030 #RockTheRibbon #SeeRed (at Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/CloozynO4z3/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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@reupdispensary and @mellogold.co killin' it with this 🔥🍯 #Abomination #Rosin #BallerJar 7 Indica & 7 Sativa strains - All.In.One 🙌🏼 ⛽ Helping me keep my sanity during these difficult times. 👏🏼🙏🏼 #NFSOT EVER #EducationONLY #PositivelyMedicated #LiveLifeIrie #CupCake (at Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClmdmlCuFVP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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I ask, if you would, that everyone lift My Mom up in in prayers and healing energy at this time. She is tentatively scheduled for Monday to have her foot amputated. Thank you for all the love and support everyone has offered us through this extremely hard time. 🙏🏼🤍🕊️ O Lord, build a wave that towers with strength That splashes with truth And breaks in love. O Lord, bring a wave that sings out in praise That carries your grace And lets healing rise up. O Lord, may this wave of strength, power and love Wash over my dear mom to heal. O Lord, may this wave sweep away the disease, Heal the wounds and the pain she feels. O Lord, lead my prayers, So I dwell near to you, May I soak in your redeeming power. O Lord, take my hands and help me to be, More of you to my mom in this hour. Amen. 🙏🏼 (at Tulsa, Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClbxCxeOn0-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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🥂It's OFFICIAL: I am negative for MAC!!!!!!!!! I got choked up talking to the Dr about my results 😊 I think they were just as equally 🤯 It's been one helluva a journey to get here! 🥲🙌🏼 Do you know what this means?????????????????? The 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 of #plantmedicines is REAL!!!! What antibiotics couldn't do - 🌿&🍄 knocked it out the ballpark!!!! #HomeRun baby!!! More details to come!!!!!? As my Daddy would say right now, "Hallelujah!!!"!!!! #MycobacteriumAviumComplex #MACDisease #HIV #AIDS #Advocate #PlantMedicine #AlternativeHealing #PositivelyMedicated #LiveLifeIrie #CupCake https://www.instagram.com/p/ClSdddqM296/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Fall and "Soup Season" is my favorite time of year to be in the kitchen. I never have an actual recipe that I follow for any of my favorites nor do I measure anything. I've always been that "eye it and try it as you go" kind of chef 😜 I switched a few things up on this batch of 🐔🥟 soup. Kicked up the herbs and turmeric a notch for the added immunity boost. I also created a cheese and herb drop biscuit similar to @redlobster cheddar biscuit this time around and ERMAHGERD 🤤 What are some of your fall favorites? Drop 👇🏼 a recipe or a link to one in the comments. I'm always looking for new yummy things to try to make. #recipeshare (at Oklahoma) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck8kmB4s4Hd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=