[curedflowers]

About me

24 | she/they | 💉 3/15/24!!! | queer

MDNI | T*RFS and trnsmds fck off

nsfw sideblog: @arcgarden

current fav songs:

[curedflowers]

i will cling to the community ive joined and created with every ounce of strength i have, i will dig my claws into the dirt if i need to. im nothing without it, tgirls who look out for and protect each other with every piece of strength they have. a trans community that lifts each other up, a couch to crash on. lll be damned if i ever let the fascists win and take the people i love most dearly

[curedflowers]

lost access to this account for a while after abandoning it. But just updating to say I won't be coming back as it was bad for my mental health.

[curedflowers]

taking a break from tumblr (may not come back to the app? we'll see)

[rotvn]

no one appreciates that i could be a million times worse

[aaashelley]

to whom it may concern: that sword of damocles hangs

[fleshengine]

I've never really understood this post. I know what the sword of damocles is, I really like the story actually. I just don't get how/why it's connected to being a girl?

[numbersareimaginary]

I think it might be a couple of things:

a) the looming dread associated with being a trans girl. The fear of being outed, of being harassed, hurt, denied, etc. The constant drain that that all is. How you can feel all the threats grow greater with each passing day. How you have to live with that.

b) some similar but alternative interpretation, but for a cis girl instead. Misogyny is a very much real thing. Imo less compelling, but probably pretty good.

c) penis joke

[transmechanicus]

You should be allowed to claim maternity leave to raise your inner child.

[socialistexan]

Half the country was ready to burn the entire country down over a lie meant to demonize a tiny minority, and now the other half is strongly considering jumping in on the bandwagon.

When all of this is over and everyone pretends they were against it the whole time (or tries to pretend they just didn't know any better), those of us still remaining will have to keep these receipts and make sure anyone that played along with this is never allowed a position of power again.

[emmacandle]

tell a trans girl you love her today. please

[bunnygirlpaws]

reblog to tell prev you love her

[d3monl0ver]

“im not even bothered by the penis” do you want a fucking medal, bitch boy?

[hailraykin-deactivated20230814]

Reblog to give mutuals a break from whatever they're been going through

[phiblecessation-deactivated2025]

Everyone is coming to the exact same groundbreaking conclusions every day and then repeating the cycle. Do you at least take a little bit of the prior knowledge with you as armor. You probably should

[lillie-garden]

"terfs USE [blatant transmisogyny] to TARGET transmascs for their cause" wolves use meat to target wolf pups. more at 11.

[lillie-garden]

like maybe one day we can acknowledge that there is some sort of "historical precedent" for transmascs being into terf circles instead of positing that it's always an Outside Invitation Into transmisogyny where transmascs are like, the target instead of ever the perpetrator

[lillie-garden]

ultimately ig my frustration is with this rhetorical posturing that transmascs are somehow incapable of "actually" being "real" terfs, no see they're just misguided, never happily participating or benefiting in any way. Like there is a lot to be said about how transmascs r indoctrinated into transmisogyny but it's laughable to have that be THE main understanding rather than like, something y'all have to actually reckon with as, sometimes, coming from inside the house.

[lillie-garden]

It's the equivalent of treating blackpilled 4chan incels as Victims

[winged-void]

she is sick with an illness borne of sentimentality! Her burden is self imposed; invisible, yet obvious to those with eyes to see it! There is an emptiness inside from that which has been scooped and piled onto her back! Girls! Get her ass!!!! Now!!!!!

[winged-void]

she is sick with an illness borne of sentimentality! Her burden is self imposed; invisible, yet obvious to those with eyes to see it! There is an emptiness inside from that which has been scooped and piled onto her back! Girls! Get her ass!!!! Now!!!!!

[winged-void]

she is sick with an illness borne of sentimentality! Her burden is self imposed; invisible, yet obvious to those with eyes to see it! There is an emptiness inside from that which has been scooped and piled onto her back! Girls! Get her ass!!!! Now!!!!!

[radicalcatgirlanarchy]

if you really care about media warping people's perception of reality, how about we stop talking about porn and start talking about cop procedurals?

[toloveviceforitself]

Being propagandized into waiving your right to an attorney is a million times more harmful than getting conditioned to like facials.