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[free-parking-blog]

Peter Alexander - Cloud Box, 1966, Cast Polyester Resin

[psikonauti]

Bernhard Martin Au Dessus et en Dessous de L ́Avant, 2020 Oil on primed raw canvas

[icried4you]

edits by @vcoolgirl00 on instagram

[driflloon]

bingbing, anji, kieu-ahn, and valentine for pop magazine mar. 2020

[unearthedviews]

MEXICO. Tijuana. 1991.

[phfantasists]

Barak Shamir by Christian Oita – Man About Town (Winter 2018)

[myfairynuffstuff]

Mikhail Golubev (b.1981) - Adam and Eve. Temptation.

[tapireye-deactivated20220708]

Vintage Shower-Themed Dress and Necklace from Chloé - Spring 1983

[distantvoices]

Assa Baradji By Txema Yeste For Numéro France November 2020

[distantvoices]

Min Hyunwoo visits Korean villages to photograph the wit and wisdom of grandmothers For Vogue Korea, 2020.

[jovialtorchlight-deactivated202]

divine things, jonny bolduc

[redlipstickresurrected]

Alexander Shandor aka Шандор Александр (Ukrainian, b. 1981, Vinogradov, Transcarpathia, Ukraine) - 1: Hot Day in the Sun, 2017  2: The Last Warm Days, 2013  3: Sunset, 2017  4: Zatysyanskyy Museum of Regional Studies, 2017, Paintings: Oil on Canvas

[erunion2]

- Cinema Paradiso (1988)

[driflloon]

elizabeth ayodele @ laquan smith

[sheabutterbitch]

I really love confrontation, I love addressing issues I have with people… I hate letting things fester inside me, I refuse to sacrifice any sleep due to unresolved conflicts!

[banditsheath-deactivated2020121]

Translation: I’m used to getting what I want out of confrontation.

[vagaybond]

whenever I confront people it’s about trying to get to the root of the problem and solve things and figure out what we both can do together to work on what’s between us

it involves vulnerability and humility on everyone’s part

if you think confrontation is something you’re supposed to dread more than avoidance that is sad and untrue, and I am sorry that you have dealt with so many horrible interactions that have lead you to feel this way.

but if you are projecting this onto others, because of your own ignorance about what confrontation is supposed to be and how communication goes in healthy relationships

that is not okay

[banditsheath-deactivated2020121]

It’s like we’re different people and my experiences with confrontation are different than yours and have led me to interpret this post the way I did.

GTFO

[vagaybond]

ok cool but you were going out of your way to be an ass to someone for liking having healthy relationships? like I don’t know why you’re taking it so personally that anyone is drawing attention to how like, you saying shitty things to other people has consequences. that you don’t even face

[banditsheath-deactivated2020121]

I’m not taking anything personally. I’m just not interested in being psychoanalyzed by a Tumblr random.

[currytrees]

“Psycho analyzed by tumblr random” So that’s why you hopped on someone’s personal post about their personal feelings about confrontation witcho stupid ass and started crying about YOUR insecurities with confrontation. lmao y’all are hilarious

[sheabutterbitch]

I really love confrontation, I love addressing issues I have with people… I hate letting things fester inside me, I refuse to sacrifice any sleep due to unresolved conflicts!

[banditsheath-deactivated2020121]

Translation: I’m used to getting what I want out of confrontation.

[sheabutterbitch]

Absolutely

[ramdaughter]

everyone in the notes BIG mad

[megamindmutual-deactivated20191]

person: i like resolving conflicts instead of letting them fester into resentment.

y’all freaks: this is manipulative and also suspiciously ableist somehow?

[toastheaven]

mAN it’s like Mass Tumblr Culture doesn’t have any interest in actually healthy coping mechanisms or communication skills and just wants to feel entitled to demanding people deal with their harmful behavior without ever being critical or seeking actual routes to recovery or something!!!!

[tempest-in-the-storm]

?????? but this post doesn’t actually say how though??? Just telling you to deal with your shit??

[currytrees]

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO THIS SPECIFIC PERSONAL POST ON SOMEONES PERSONAL BLOG ON TUMBLR DOT COM DOESNT TELL ME HOW TO HAVE HEALTHY COMMUNICATION SKILLS y’all can’t make this shit up. LOG OFFFFFFFF

[sheabutterbitch]

I really love confrontation, I love addressing issues I have with people… I hate letting things fester inside me, I refuse to sacrifice any sleep due to unresolved conflicts!

[banditsheath-deactivated2020121]

Translation: I’m used to getting what I want out of confrontation.

[sheabutterbitch]

Absolutely

[ramdaughter]

everyone in the notes BIG mad

[megamindmutual-deactivated20191]

person: i like resolving conflicts instead of letting them fester into resentment.

y’all freaks: this is manipulative and also suspiciously ableist somehow?

[beeorchids-moved-deactivated201]

y’all know people on this site are just used to vagueblogs, screenshotting and making bad assumptions without evidence. Actually confronting people/dealing with confrontational people is a literal nightmare for them.

[generallygentle-archive-deactiv]

Can we literally just stop calling people who hate confrontation terrible? That’s literally all that most people are asking, jesus fucking christ y'all.

The tumblr way of non-confrontation is toxic and wrong. But you literally do not need to spit on everyone who hates confrontation to express your hatred of a fucking website culture.

Because saying “they’re all just used to tumblr’s culture” as a catch all is just about as horrible.

[currytrees]

Y’all are such little bitches. Please log off it’s embarrassing