[therhodestohappiness]

[emptiness-statue]

[berkeleygirl3]

[black-white-and-leather]

[d-activ8dvalles]

Yep! For these type of people “thinking hard” that’s how I say it. Thinking is to hard is the accurate way of saying it. These “fake news people”won’t ever or will never acquire the mental acuity to have the insight into their bias, it has created an ever growing black hole. These individuals waist their cognition on blaming and never reflecting on what was their part. So creating a dialogue about you not complying with the pathalogical control issues they keep, attempting too shoehorn you into a shoe that is extremely uncomfortable and has become repulsive. That’s a mouth full.

They end up tying a string to everything they deem as a gift from them.

“But a true gift needs nothing in return”

If someone wants something in return it’s a barter. Would you agree if they gave full disclosure. Probably not! This is lying through omission. And is so very disingenuous that it is hard to believe we keep volunteering to be used as target practice. Yet only when we look back we have been groomed as a child to play this roll. Or face the character assassination what has been construed as being “Ungrateful”

Yet we keep walking into it again and again. It’s been said that crazy is doing the same thing over n over again expecting different outcomes. Yet we are being scientific about it studying the subtle nuances of this dynamic.

The boundary needs to for us. As we somehow believe we or they will change. It’s funny that our delusion is they will get better. And that may only work through personal, group and family therapy. It’s like a filter that keeps the water and air clean.

Removing yourself from playing this character is where your power is.

Not all of us can do it

It takes a lot of self will. And enduring the labels fired at us, like “your selfish” “ ungrateful”

Love D

Spelled this out for my friend

ACA recovery built this

[luna---z]

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[coffeenuts]

[sweetmelody39]

[blackandwhitelover1962-part-1]

[important-animal-images]

[the-enchanted-little-star]

[arcusxx]

[ll-kool-rai]

[sleepingsirian]

[einsliga]

[universeofchaos]

[peachtwigs-deactivated20230912]

“intuition is the treasure of a woman’s psyche. it is like a divining instrument and like a crystal through which one can see with uncanny interior vision. it is like a wise old woman who is with you always, who tells you exactly what the matter is, tells you exactly whether you need to go left or right. it is a form of the one who knows, old la que sabe, the wild woman.”

— excerpt from women who run with the wolves by clarissa pinkola estés, ph.d.