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About Me & My Blog

Hi! I’m Pixel - generally go by Pix, though - and I’m transmasc. He/they/it pronouns are preferred but, really, anything besides feminine pronouns/descriptors are fine by me.

I was on here before a while ago but life got hectic (had a baby, got engaged, also finished my master’s degree - in that order and all extremely close together) and tumblr was stressing me tf out so I deleted it lmao.

And y’know you can’t just escape Hell that easily I guess idk - Really, where the fuck else am I gonna be able to ramble about trans feral catboy!Dabi (and, occasionally, Shigaraki)??? Twitter? Nah, fuck that place.

Oh, and before we get started with blog specifics: MINORS DNI

Anywho... I mentioned the potential of problematic content so here is a list of what might pop up on my blog that could be considered ~problematique~ to some (or all...) people:

Catboys (really should have figured out that’s gonna be on my blog by now tho lmao)

Canonical minors being AGED UP and written about in sexual situations

Sometimes shipped with canonical adults in those situations - though, like I said, everyone will be aged up and portrayed as being past 18 if they are not canonically an adult yet - which means marked changes in appearance and some changes in personality to fit their maturity

Omegaverse (again, not gonna be that common but it might show up)

Talk of illegal drug use among the characters of BNHA (...mostly Dabi and mostly painkillers & weed)

Unhealthy relationships depicted as being... well... unhealthy

Some dubcon/noncon elements might pop up occasionally due to under-negotiated kink and/or heat cycles and/or drug or alcohol usage

And here’s some stuff that, while I don’t think is (or... should be) considered problematic, could potentially trigger someone (and if you have a trigger that’s not on this list please feel free to send a DM or ask and I’ll make sure to tag it for you!):

Kinky shit like BDSM, CNC (consensual non-consent), knife play, blood play, perhaps some Omorashi stuff (that’ll be pretty rare tho), breeding kink, Daddy kink, degradation, praise kink, and/or petplay.

Talk of self-harm, suicide attempts, and past rape/sexual assault

Pregnancy and any pregnancy or postpartum-related stuffs - including trans men being pregnant (I mean I, myself, am transmasc and have had two kiddos that I carried and there’s not enough content out there depicting realistic pregnancy and/or postpartum experiences especially involving trans guys so it is a good chunk of what I write)

I can’t think of anything else currently but if I do I’ll add it or if anyone asks me to I will also add it

Tag System

Any potentially problematic content posted or reblogged will be tagged as problematique and, if I post it myself, the problematic part will be under a cut after a warning about the contents

Additionally, all of that stuff will also come with a trigger tag which...

My system for trigger tags is triggername tw so, for instance, pregnancy tw

Any NSFW stuff will be tagged caution: spicy with a warning preceding any NSFW content

Of course I’ll tag with ship names & character names, also

Again, can’t think of anything else but as I do stuff and come up with more tags that’ll be commonplace on my blog I’ll add them

That’s it for now 💖

#about me & my blog #important #dont rb

I am struggling with how to fit Hawks in to Light at the End of the Night lmao. Like Dabi is stressed AF and idk if he's be visiting much but I really want more Hawks in now that he's gonna be at the League and everything.... Ugh, transitions like this are so difficult. I'm working on it, though, I swear

#pregnancy tw #the light at the end of the night #potential spoilers and next chapter ideas #been trying to figure out how to get Dabi to find out why Hanako is fussing so much #he doesnt really have time or energy to visit hawks much.#and i have so many different potential starts for the enxt chapter its ridiculous

gay marriage is at risk again.

My fucking marriage is at risk. Again.

My only hope is I live in a state that had it legalized before it was nationally so if it goes back to the states to decide I'm hoping it will stay.

My heart goes out to everyone in more conservative states, though. Stay safe everyone ❤️

Lollipop anon here! I'm glad the little sweet arrived safely and you're all doing ok! Hopefully y'all are safe and happy and resting well!!!

Aww thank you! And we are <3 finally starting to find a new routine and settle into it a bit more and everything, too

#🍭 anon #pregnancy tw

Haven't posted anything for a while mostly cus kiddo #3 showed up a little bit ago and the lead up to her arrival was also just fucking awful for me but ah, everyone's okay, just wanted to give a small update

#pregnancy tw #forreal tho have yall heard of prodromal labor?? cus i hadnt till i fucking experienced it #ive already got a fic in the works where i make dabi suffer through it though as a way to process and cope #rip to dabi lmao #legit felt like i was going to go outright insane and just have a mental breakdown #i was having steady relatively intense contractions that would last for hours every fucking day for like over a week #before she actually decided to show #now that shes here like sure im sore and tired but not nearly as miserable as before #like yall when my water finally broke i was sobbing in relief knowing things were actually fucking happening finally #and then promptly called my midwife and husband only for my husband to barely make it home and my midwife to be like 5 minutes out #when baby arrived officially

Well... I'm writing again.

Except it's an OC/Dabi thing that I'm not sure anyone will want to read so... Heh, oops.

Like I'm still gonna post it but my hopes aren't too high for interaction with it lmao

#dabi #oc x dabi #trans oc #because of course he's trans he's being written by me after all #and i have plans for this also so uh apologies #if all i post for a minute is self indulgent oc lore based stuff #gonna be a series of oneshots piecing together the character's origin and true identity with a moderate focus on his relationship w dabi

🍭 here: yesss, and he's just, totally not thinking of dabi under the table, fly open and instead of the lollipop that dabi's tongue is wrapping around, it's the head of his cock, just, all the way to the hilt, but he can't at the meeting, which he's paid only half attention to, all attention to the way his lips wrap around the sweet, bobbing in and out slowly, sometimes accidentally pushed way deeper into his mouth then normal so only part of the stick is left out cause he needs both his hands to make quick typed notes for something, hawks doesn't know what cause all he can think about is yanking that lollipop out and shoving his cock in its place

They're probably both late for their next patrol after that meeting

Sorry for taking so long to answer this but YES to all of it omg. Hawks is struggling not to just get up, grab Touya, and drag him into the nearest closet or bathroom so he can replace that lollipop w something else.

Hawks is asked a question and he's like '??? ummm... What were we talking about about again?' cus he completely missed the context for it and that's when Dabi notices how flustered Hawks looks and quickly figured out why and bc he's a bratty lil shit he'd start doing stuff on purpose that he knows will work Hawks up but still be subtle enough for no one else to notice. Makes direct eye contact w Hawks and licks the sucker, makes sure Hawks can see his tongue piercing bc he knows how wild that particular piercing can drive Hawks.

#i need to actually write this lmao #we're almost all the way through november jfc #ive been depressed af after the election and i am sorry for the lack of content again #anywayyy #caution: spicy #answers for anons #🍭 anon

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Okay, writers block has been fucking real but I'm feeling some sparks of inspiration about writing some backstory stuff for Light at the End of the Night to show what Dabi's dynamic with Hawks and Shigaraki was before y'know, Hanako happens lol.

Would y'all wanna see that?

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Also maybe some stuff that happens during Dabi's pregnancy. Like a prequel series I guess? I've been wanting to write him finding out he's pregnant and like where his mental state is at when he tries to get an abortion (which we all know did not actually work but dude tried lmao). Maybe some moments when he notices pregnancy symptoms and has to talk himself down and essentially gaslights himself into believing the abortion worked until, y'know...

Like Hawks enjoys the bit of weight Dabi gains during pregnancy but every time he mentions it Dabi internally panics cus 'oh God what if?' and Hawks quickly stops commenting on it bc he thinks Dabi is self conscious, has no fucking clue that Dabi is actually weird about it bc hes worried he's still pregnant.

#pregnancy tw #abortion mention tw

Would y'all wanna see that?

#pregnancy tw #cus like dabi has been exhausted #and just trying to figure out how to be a parent #his like main focus has been on Hanako #and while there are moments of like romance w hawks and shigaraki #dabi doesnt really ... care right now lmao #and also hes like a month out from giving birth so his body is still healing and he wants nothing to do w anything that could lead to sex #im specifically thinking of writing just like a lil oneshot thats a normal day at the league hideout #after dabi and shiggy get together #and then a casual meet up w hawks after that relationship develops as well #just to showcase their usual dynamics as partners #also wanna write the first time shiggy and dabi hookup but that would he separate #what do y'all think?

Saw a post reminding me of Shoto & Touya's birthday and realized my due date is like smack dab in the middle of their birthdays.

This lil parasite (affectionate) may share Dabi's birthday.

I do not know how to feel about this.

#pregnancy tw #this kid could easily be born on either of those days really #or sometime in between #kinda ridiculous it took me this long to make the connection but whatever #idc i will let yall know if the munchkin is born on dabis bday lmaoooo #just cus thats not really something i could casually just share w my family #or my friends that arent quite as crazy as i am lmao #and i would need to scream about it a bit even if its just into the void #just gonna post on jan 18 'guess fucking what yall'#no other context

Pro Hero Touya really would be asolutely feral. Just shitting on Endeavor publicly every chance he gets, if he has to fight alongside a Hero that supports Endeavor he'll "accidentally" get in the way, bump against them, shoot fire their way if they're in close contact with the villain they're up against and claim he didn't see them, essentially do anything to make their job harder the whole time he's there.

Especially when it's Hawks.

#dabihawks #kinda #the start of a rivals/enemies to lovers thing if you will #also feral pro hero touya lmao #i love him #touyahawks #touya todoroki #Dabi

Hey, send me an ask with a ship and a lyric from a Taylor Swift song or the title of one and I will (try to) write something based on it.