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semi-selective, independent, sideblog

valleyboymorty

Yo, do u have any other muses / rp blogs? Just curious

Too many, tbh. Alright, I guess I might as well make a masterpost since I am multi-blog trash

(now tell me if you sense a pattern here…)

Stray Cat Morty (active)

Miami Morty (active)

Charles and Mambo Duckman (active)

Darcey Henderson/Duckman (fairly active)

Lil’ Rummy (totally inactive. my first ever rp blog)

Dabney Hooper and Lloyd Jenson (totally inactive)

Gene Belcher (inactive)

And my personal if awesomegirlystuff if anyone cares

+ draco-fuckingmalfoy

"Why are you so pale?"

#dracofuckingmalfoy

dabnxy

+ lucixswagner

"Yoooo!"

lucixswagner-deactivated2015031

"Uh,

.. Hi?”

dabnxy

"What's up? I'm trying out some hip new slang. Is it working?"

#lucixswagner

+ lucixswagner

"Yoooo!"

#lucixswagner #c:lloyd

dabnxy

"Heyah. How'd your Halloween go?"

"It was okay I guess. Well I mean, until I got my candy stolen."

dabnxy

"Well sure, I guess. If you have em’."

umbra-est-magus

"You’re smart enough to figure a few of these out on your own… First, you’re pretty much asking your dad to change what he’s doing, and that’s always hard for people. It’s not impossible."

"Things, don’t do it either. It’s great to get stuff and give stuff, but experiences build relationships. So, you might try asking your dad to watch a movie with him or something simple like that. You’d trade off, where you watch one he likes and one you like."

"I don’t think that you’re hobbies are the same, but showing interest in your dad’s hobbies might help. Asking him questions about why he likes them, and just learning about them so you can listen to him with understanding. It’s a lot like having to listen to a boring lecture at times, when it’s not something you’re into."

"But, learning just a little lets you connect easier. Besides, you can use the same info your dad gives you about his hobbies to relate to others with the same hobbies. You can’t expect your dad to mimic your behavior and do the same, where he’s listening to your hobbies. He’d have to be paying attention to realize what you’re doing, and I’m not sure he’s paying attention to you right now, other than handing you gifts."

"You can try asking him for help once in awhile to get him involved. Pick simple problems, and you might even ask him for help when you have a solution in mind already. Maybe he thinks the same way you do, or at least he feels like he has some input. Also, instead of asking him how to solve something, ask him what he would actually avoid doing. He’s had a over a decade more of mistakes he’s made that you can learn about so you can avoid them too."

"There is a crux, if you ask him for help and you do something other than what he says and it doesn’t work out, he might get hurt you didn’t follow his instructions. He might get a little angry or think you’re being stupid, but you’re not. Mistakes that won’t hurt someone, physically or cause a person’s life to be in jeopardy, aren’t that as bad as people make them out to be. You just have to acknowledge to your dad or whomever that you understand what he feels or at least that your listening."

"Sorry if I’m a little ambiguous, I don’t know specifics, so I have to start with generalities. I can offer more suggestions, but what do you think so far?"

dabnxy

"I think those are good suggestions. One of the big problems is that my dad is always very busy. Whenever I get to see him, he usually gets important business calls, or he gets called away to a meeting, and then we don’t get to talk or hang out."

umbra-est-magus

Caspar nodded in understanding, “That’s a tough one. You might think he’s substituting buying things for his time…” There was a pause as Caspar tried to think of something. He shrugged, “Other than offering to help with his work and trying to tag along on the trips I can’t think of much. It’d help if what he does would benefit you in the future … then you can use that as an excuse, but if you say you want to learn to do his job as in do the same work… then you’re setting both of you up for stress and disappointment.”

Shaking his head and chuckling he said, “You could always do something crazy like putting up post-it notes on his bathroom mirror or on his phone quoting some lines from your favorite works that are pertinent to his work, or expressing exacerbation over the business or frustrating nature of work. Though, I’m sure that’ll be more like negative attention than positive attention.”

"I’m still think of how you could tag along with him to his work meetings, and waiting outside so perhaps you two can have a lunch or dinner date together. This is assuming you can bring your homework along or an ipad or ereader to keep busy."

"Whatever you do, don’t put yourself or him into harms way. Negative attention isn’t worth it in the end, and you’re perfect justified in feeling hurt or angry that he’s ignoring you. Parents can fail at good parenting, but it doesn’t mean that you’re not allowed to be upset about it."

dabnxy

"That's an interesting perspective. Maybe I'll ask him if I can come along." Although, in reality Dabney was just being polite. He really had no interest in waiting outside a meeting room for hours on end. "I just think he should clear his schedule. I mean, he only see's me one weekend a month."

#the length is no problem really #aww thats so nice to say :)#casparmeehan

dabnxy

"Cool clothes. Where’d u get em’ hot toppik?"

hxtopic666

"yus I did amg HAWT TAPIC id da bust store!!!!11111 :D

dabnxy

"Ok, but have u been to Tom Rid's store in Hogsmeade. He only has cloves for da real goffs."

#hxtopic666 #crack rp #c:lloyd

hxtopic666

" I’MMA NAAAAWT A MARY SUEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!" -cries tears of blood- D,:

dabnxy

"Cool clothes. Where'd u get em' hot toppik?"

#hxtopic666 #crack rp #c:lloyd

dabnxy

"Heyah. How'd your Halloween go?"

"It was okay I guess. Well I mean, until I got my candy stolen."

dabnxy

"What do you mean you weren’t a good dad? Did you hit them?"

umbra-est-magus

"No. No real hitting, unless you include the handful of times I had to spank them when they were only a year or two old. I just feel like I was yelled a little too much and was selfish and immature. Their mother and I separated and I left to do my own thing. They deserved better and I wish I had been there for them. It’s a regret I’m going to live with for the rest of my life. Hopefully your dad treats you better."

dabnxy

"Well, I only see my dad on weekends. I feel like I don’t really connect well with my dad, but still, he’s nicer to me then my mom. And he buys me whatever I want." He shrugged.

umbra-est-magus

"If money or things made a bond, marriages would last longer. I never connected as well with my younger son. You’re supposed to treat your kids equally, but it’s harder than it seems. Did you want any suggestions for your relationship with your dad?"

dabnxy

"Well sure, I guess. If you have em’."

umbra-est-magus

"You’re smart enough to figure a few of these out on your own… First, you’re pretty much asking your dad to change what he’s doing, and that’s always hard for people. It’s not impossible."

"Things, don’t do it either. It’s great to get stuff and give stuff, but experiences build relationships. So, you might try asking your dad to watch a movie with him or something simple like that. You’d trade off, where you watch one he likes and one you like."

"I don’t think that you’re hobbies are the same, but showing interest in your dad’s hobbies might help. Asking him questions about why he likes them, and just learning about them so you can listen to him with understanding. It’s a lot like having to listen to a boring lecture at times, when it’s not something you’re into."

"But, learning just a little lets you connect easier. Besides, you can use the same info your dad gives you about his hobbies to relate to others with the same hobbies. You can’t expect your dad to mimic your behavior and do the same, where he’s listening to your hobbies. He’d have to be paying attention to realize what you’re doing, and I’m not sure he’s paying attention to you right now, other than handing you gifts."

"You can try asking him for help once in awhile to get him involved. Pick simple problems, and you might even ask him for help when you have a solution in mind already. Maybe he thinks the same way you do, or at least he feels like he has some input. Also, instead of asking him how to solve something, ask him what he would actually avoid doing. He’s had a over a decade more of mistakes he’s made that you can learn about so you can avoid them too."

"There is a crux, if you ask him for help and you do something other than what he says and it doesn’t work out, he might get hurt you didn’t follow his instructions. He might get a little angry or think you’re being stupid, but you’re not. Mistakes that won’t hurt someone, physically or cause a person’s life to be in jeopardy, aren’t that as bad as people make them out to be. You just have to acknowledge to your dad or whomever that you understand what he feels or at least that your listening."

"Sorry if I’m a little ambiguous, I don’t know specifics, so I have to start with generalities. I can offer more suggestions, but what do you think so far?"

dabnxy

"I think those are good suggestions. One of the big problems is that my dad is always very busy. Whenever I get to see him, he usually gets important business calls, or he gets called away to a meeting, and then we don't get to talk or hang out."

#casparmeehan