To the Daddy's out there. Your little wants nothing more than to follow your leadership and be a good girl for you. So many times there's this assumption that you're both on the same page when expectations have not been set properly. I've found that this can lead to confusion, frustration, pain, and a very upset little. MY little baby, Pigeon, loves to get her way. And part of this in the past was arguing that I hadn't explicitly stated a rule. To me, those "rules" were clearly implied, but upon reflection they actually weren't. And here's the thing, there are differing degrees of rules. So if I make a rule to "eat better", to me that means a strict diet and lots of asking permission for snacks. But to a little it may mean having healthier meals and fewer snacks. Both things fall under the "eat better" rule. So when there is a disagreement it's amplified by a misunderstanding. This is where communication is most certainly key. That statement is made in most D/s posts I've seen and it's for good reason. Time has to be made to sit down and discuss these rules in depth. What all the rules entail, what possible scenarios need to be accounted for, what the punishment is if the rule is not followed, and what you expect from your little. This initial conversation is crucial, but it is also necessary to continuously have check-ins and discussions about your rules and expectations. Life can move fast and what was needed one month may not be needed the next. Or maybe it's a rule that is needed or wanted for a lifetime. Even still, check in with your baby. Tell her how good she's doing, ask her if she's noticed the change in her life with you guiding her, talk to her if things need tweaking, but above all make sure she knows how important she is to you and that you notice her behavior, good and bad. As a Daddy you know how much you care for your little and how you notice even the smallest details of her, but she doesn't always have that in mind. Remind her every now and then, give her reassurance, give her correction if needed, and give her praise when she's earned it. If your expectations are clear and communicated then your little has a goal to work towards and she will try her hardest to follow your commands. Never lose sight of how hard she's trying, no matter how stressful it gets, no matter how many times she may fall, you treat her as your little girl and take care of her heart, mind, and body. She is striving to be perfect in your eyes, don't take that for granted.
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