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If you’re going to be a Daddy to a little, you better be ready to commit.

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You ever just look at your little and think...how the fuck did I get someone so perfect?

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Gentleman Daddy

As a Daddy, you need to protect your little at all times, and make her feel like the princess they are. Here are some basics in order to make your little feel special and taken care of:

Hold the door open for your little. This one is quite obvious, but easy to forget. Make sure you open the door, and let your little walk through first. Don’t be lazy...this also includes the car door.

Walk on the side closest to the road when on the sidewalk. When you are walking down the street with your little, position yourself in between the road and your little. This shows that you want to protect your little, and stand in the way of danger to make sure they are safe.

Pull out the chair and seat your little. This shows your little that you are attentive to them, and how special they are. On top of this, you are taking control and guiding your little where they are going to sit.

Keep your hand on the small of their back. Whether walking or standing still, placing your hand gently on your little’s lower back will show them your protection and love is always there.

These might seem like small, inconsequential things. But you are a Daddy, and you need to always protect, love, and show how special your little is to you.

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Daddy Love

Most of my posts are about how Daddy’s take care of the little. This is probably expected, as that’s the primary dynamic of the Daddy/Little relationship.

Never forget, however, that sometimes Daddy’s need the extra love and support of their little. There are days when Daddy will feel insecure, unworthy, etc. On those days, pay extra special attention to Daddy, and give him all the love and affection he deserves.

Tell your Daddy how wonderful he is, and how much you appreciate everything he does for you.

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Little Logic

Daddy : *Spends all day with his Little: watching movies, brushing the Little’s hair, making small foods, and everything in between*

Little: Why don’t you love me?

Daddy: Of course I love you! Why would you say that?

Little: You never spend time with me.

Daddy: I spent every moment of today focused on you! What do you mean!?

Little: MORE!!! I WANT MORE!!!!

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Daddy Lesson

There are times when your little is feeling big, and just can’t get into little space. They might be feeling sad, overwhelmed, anxious, etc.

As a Daddy, learn a go-to word/phrase that puts them in little space immediately. It might take some exploring, but that special phrase will always do the trick.

Don’t overuse it. Save this for special times, for when your little really needs. This ensures that if your little really needs help, Daddy will always be there to the rescue.

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Daddy Thoughts

There are times when the dd/lg aspect of the relationship may subside for a time. Anything can trigger this, whether it be increased reposibilities, money problems, life problems, or any number of things. My relationship is currently going through this, it happens at times. However, all the Littles should know:

You are still our baby.

We still think you are the most innocent thing in the world.

Cradling you is the greatest.

We are always looking out for you.

Our world still revolves around you.

We will never let anything happen to you and will still protect you.

Doing Daddy/Little activities still give us great joy.

We will always love, appreciate, and respect you. We will never stop being your Daddy

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Little Space doesn’t mean…

You shouldn’t treat them seriously.

They aren’t smart.

They really aren’t hurt.

You can’t have serious conversations.

You can do whatever you want.

They can do whatever they want with you.

You can make fun of them.

You are better than them.

They don’t know right from wrong.

They don’t mean it any less when they cuddle, latch on, and tell you they need you more than anything in the world.

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The Greatest Moment

When you are in public with your little, and you say “I love you princess.” She looks up at you with the most amazing smile, and replies, “I love you too Daddy.”

Then panic sets into her face and she looks around frantically to see if anyone heard. My little one, it’s just hard not to call me Daddy all the time.

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Cranky Princess Checklist

Is the baby hungry?

Does little one need a nap?

Princess in need of cuddles?

Did the baby lose something?

Are the stuffies fighting again?

Did princess get a boo-boo?

Did little one get scared?

Is the little one cold?

Solution to all of the above: Daddy’s here. Everything is going to be alright. Let me make it better for you little one.

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A Love Letter to my Little

Selfishness has always come easy for me. Looking out for myself was priority number one, and I never really looked outside of me for the majority of my life. It's so incredibly easy to get lost in your own wants, desires, and goals in life. That all changed when I met you. You have broken me, in the best possible way.

I felt your effect on me almost immediately. I reached out to you, I didn't hold barriers between myself and you getting closer. I told you that I loved you first, fully meaning it for the first time. I knew it instantly, you were different, unique, and truly special. I was engrossed in your intoxicating aura, the feelings you caused to stir inside my very soul. You were everything I could have ever hoped for. I knew that you, this relationship, was going to be the foundation of my future.

You have changed me as a man more than I could have ever realized. You have given me what it's like to experience love in the purest sense. I am completely and irrevocably committed to you for the rest of my life. There is a need inside me to prove that I deserve you, even though there is nothing I could do to earn this love that you have given me. I want to be better for you, I will be better for us.

I will love you till the day I die. I will be faithful to you until I draw me last breath. I will cherish and appreciate everything you do for me as we grow old together. Thank you, my little love, for showing me what life is what living for. You are everything to me, now and forever.

Love,

Your Daddy

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