âA Reminder For Littlesâ
We often talk about Bigs and CGs who impose themselves on littles, and fake CGs but we never talk about it when its the other way around. Well im here to talk about them. Free to add on if I miss something.
đ¸Do not call a person Daddy or Mommy or literally any other title until you are given expressed permission to.
đşDo not be rude to CGs who are not interested in being your caregiver. You just look like a dick.
đ¸You being a âbratâ is not a reason to be abusive. All littles get a bit grumpy and bratty, but if you donât work to change the behavior, youâre just an abuser in a onesie.
đşDo not harass a caregiver for them to be yours. If they say no respect their decision and back away.
đ¸Do not get mad when your CGs need space. They are human too, and being a caregiver is a lot of work. Sometimes they need to be taken care of to.
đşDo not push your CGs limits. If they say no. Then thatâs it, itâs no.
đ¸Do not demean a CG who does not fit what you want.
đşDo not attempt having multiple CGs at the same time without approval; if you do this youâre simply cheating. Donât be a cheater.
đ¸Do not manipulate your CG! This includes saying things like âIf you loved meâŚâ or âIf you donât IâllâŚâ or even saying âIf you were a good CG youâdâŚâ thatâs all manipulative behavior!
đşIn general do not be a dick. CGs and Bigs are precious and they deserved to be loved and cherished. We need to protect the CGs of the community because they get attacked just as often by fake littles!
