When Talking About Former Submissives to a Current Submissive
TALK WITH RESPECT, AND NOT IN COMPARISON
Talking about a former submissive in a comparative way is damaging to your new submissive. Don’t tell her she’s better than your last submissive. Don’t tell her she’s not as good as your last submissive. Don’t talk about things your last submissive did that is a hard limit for your current one. Don’t talk excessively about your former submissives. Comparing submissives to each other puts them in competition. Comparing submissives makes them feel inadequate. Comparing submissives makes them feel insecure. Comparing submissives makes them feel like you are going to find what you feel is a better submissive, and that you will leave them any day now. Don’t compare your current submissive to past ones.
Talking occasionally about a former submissive in an appreciative and respectful way, sends quite a different message. It shows your new sub that you have respect for what has been offered to you in the past. It shows your new sub that your appreciation for their submission will live on past your relationship with them. It shows your new submissive that you have pride about your relationships, and what you achieve in them.
Please mind the context in which you talk about former submissives with your current one. You can do both harm, or good, depending on how you are expressing yourself.
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