Fill My Voids

Amaya-Andrea// 20 Brave little with many adventures.

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‘beauty with pink veil’ - alphonsine de-challié (1858-1904)

alphonsine de-challié was one of the first female artists to work in a studio, and her series of paintings explored the beauty of women through the female gaze.

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Girl’s night out (of body experience)

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❀ Pink dresses in paintings by Edward Hughes, Václav Brožík & Paul de La Boulaye ❀

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How to make me small

Asking me to count something (“How many apples do we have left?” “How many cars are in line?”)

Handing me my sippy with a yummy drink (Strawberry milk, sweet tea, or even just water)

Telling me to say “Ah” before putting my paci in my mouth

Asking if I’m being a good girl

If I’m not being good tell me to behave

Kiss my forehead

Remind me how small I am (“That’s my good little kitten”)

Kissing my ouchies

Surprise trips to the park

Joining me in my tea party

Playing with my toys with me

Referring to my stuffies by name

“Did you go potty?”

“Did you take your medicine like a big girl?”

Feeding me foods

Blowing on food if it’s too hot before letting me eat

Holding my hand in public because I wonder

“Be careful baby”

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Hush, little baby, don’t say a word. Papa’s gonna buy you a mockingbird

And if that mockingbird won’t sing, Papa’s gonna buy you a diamond ring

And if that diamond ring turns brass, Papa’s gonna buy you a looking glass

And if that looking glass gets broke, Papa’s gonna buy you a billy goat

And if that billy goat won’t pull, Papa’s gonna buy you a cart and bull

And if that cart and bull turn over, Papa’s gonna buy you a dog named Rover

And if that dog named Rover won’t bark Papa’s gonna buy you a horse and cart

And if that horse and cart fall down, You’ll still be the sweetest little baby in town.

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Perfect Blue, 1997

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Chubby tummies are adorable

Reblog to spread some body postivity good vibes

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All tummies are adorable 💖

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NOT ALL LITTLES

Not all littles call their caregiver daddy Not all littles use diapers Not all littles have paci’s Not all littles play with toys

This does not make them any less important All littles matter 💕🎀

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"princess parts" is actually the most adorable thing to say

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This. Aftercare ideas. ♡

Cuddles Hair brushing Lotion on boo boos Soothing words Favorite Disney movie Warm bath with bubbles Small snacks Refreshing drink Favorite stuffie Soft blanket for warmth Kisses Letting them know they’re safe Talks Relaxing massage Warm socks.

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Aftercare & why it’s not only important but ESSENTIAL

What is aftercare:       Aftercare is a form of providing comfort for your significant other, usually one who takes on the role of a submissive. It causes them to feel safe, and secure. It is a way to reduce the chance of Subdrop. Aftercare is common in the BDSM scene due to the intensity of the scenes or actions that take place. BUT it is also extremely important in the CGL community as well. 

    Using Aftercare after a punishment has been done is really important. It shows that while you had to punish them, you still love them! You still care about them and their needs and how they are feeling.

    It is also important to know that aftercare is needed by dominants as well, this is not something that is for subs only. Be aware of how your partner is doing before and after a scene or relationship experience. It’s important to be aware of these things to avoid a potential relationship damaging experience. 

     If you ignore subdrop or the needs of your partner, it is possible for them to lose interest. They will become distant. They lose their trust in you. They will begin to find less enjoyment in entering a scene or aspects of the relationship dynamic with you. 

Examples of Aftercare: 

Snuggling

Drawing them a bubble bath

Cuddles and a movie

Gentle caressing 

Just holding your partner

Giving them a bath

A massage

Using soothing lotions on bruises/marks

A short nap with your partner

Petting/soothing with words. (i.e. good girl/good boy/ you did so well)

Giving a treat (warm milk/tea/some goldfish, etc)

Brushing their hair

Watching a movie of your partner’s choice

Reading a book to them

Kissing their marks/bruises/wounds

Letting them know they’re safe

Wrapping them in their favorite blanket with their favorite stuffed animal

Ensuring their comfort item is within reach

Treating any potential injuries/wounds

Having a deep conversation/heart to heart

Reading them a story

Preparing a meal for you and them, ensuring they eat and hydrate

Answering questions they ask -remaining calm during it.

Ask how they are feeling and checking often

Validate them

Be emotionally available and understanding

For more information about aftercare check out these following links:

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