safe place

height:5'3/63inches hw:212 cw:205 gw:115-130

[makingperfection]

🎁10 SHEIN freebies and a $50 allowance for the lucky.

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Just click and claim—so easy! 🙌

🎁10 SHEIN freebies and a $50 allowance for the lucky.

Just click and claim—so easy! 🙌

[applxjack]

"what do you want for christmas ?"

I.FUCKING.WANNA.LOSE.WEIGHT.

[stay-close]

“a guy once told me “a man is only insecure about a woman when he knows she deserves better” and that really hit me”

— lieinlove

[theambitiouswoman]

All your life you’ve been taught to tolerate:

Disrespect disguised as love. Making you accept behaviors that don’t align with your actual worth.

Settling for less than what you really desire or deserve.

Letting others dictate your time, energy, or emotions & losing control of your life and individuality.

Conforming to norms that suppress your individuality and don’t really make you feel good inside.

But at some point, you realize tolerance isn’t always virtuous—it’s a sign of neglecting your own needs and values. At one point, it got you to settle with the things you actually wanted. You let life pass you by.

You convinced yourself that—

Less was enough because you feared asking for more.

Compromises were necessary to avoid conflict or rejection.

Gratitude meant silence, even when you desired more.

But now, you understand that wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful—it makes you aware of your worth. The things you truly want require courage, not just tolerance. Now you’ve decided that you want to be happy—that tolerating hasn’t gotten you anywhere, and there must be a better way.

You realize—

Happiness isn’t about enduring; it’s about aligning your life with your values and desires.

Boundaries are not selfish, but necessary to protect your peace.

Growth comes from letting go of what no longer serves you, even if it’s familiar.

A better way exists—one rooted in self-respect, intentionality, and courage.

You’re no longer settling for survival; you’re choosing a life of joy, purpose, and fulfillment.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[thepowerwithin]

Imagine waking up, looking in the mirror, and falling in love with the person you see every single morning.

Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[konoko]

[proedmemes]

[posted by u/balienated]

[betteroffbunnie]

:,)

[thewetblankie]

Recovery Record is the smart companion for managing your journey to recovery from eating disorders including anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, obsessive eating disorder, binge eating disorder and compulsive eating disorder.

With Recovery Record you can: - Keep a record of meals, thoughts and feelings  - Access beautiful reflection images and affirmations - Customize log questions, meal plans, coping tactics and recovery goals - View charts that highlight insights, trends and progress - Collect jigsaw pieces to earn hidden rewards - Set personalized reminder schedules and alarm tones - Complete questionnaires to track your progress - Link with your treatment team  - Receive in-the-moment feedback and messages from your treatment team - Receive and send encouragement messages and virtual gifts to/from other users

Android

iTunes

[kritical-velociraptor]

Boosting this for followers or stumblers onto my blog.

I can’t help with 99% of eating disorder stuff because just thinking about it triggers crazytownbananapants for me, but this could really help some people.

[lady-freak-beast]

Signal boost for all the girls and boys working with recovery.

[and-none-for-gretchen-weinersbye]

I used this when I was recovering from my binge eating disorder and it saved me. This app works wonders and the best part is its indiscreet (it just says RR and has a picture of a bird so no one who looks through your phone will know what it is) and it is passcode locked so no one can get in. I highly recommend it!

[paintingmyselfnew]

I really recommend this even as a first step in getting some help. The sooner you start recovery the easier it will be to get healthy again. Eating disorders are hell.

[imhungrytolive]

Passing along 🌻

[small-casket8]

Recovery can start anytime. Even if you’ve tried before. You just need the right time.

[makingperfection]

Start now save yourself please

[originallandlockedmariner]

“Own your shit. Own your poor decisions. Own your mistakes. It’s ok; we all make them, every day, and there’s like 7 billion of us. That’s a fuckload of mistakes. Every single day.”

daily-esprit-descalier

[feministism]

[strengthins0lidarity]

Fun things they don’t teach you in sex ed.

[teaboot]

Talcum powder has asbestos in it. Has for years. Leave it be

[the-alethiometer]

Reblogging for my followers who didn’t get sex education in high school.

[joli--coeur]

never underestimate the power of:

• eating fruits and veggies

• going outside

• opening your windows and letting the fresh air in

• cuddling with your pet

• catching up with your sibling or parent

• complimenting someone you don’t know

• exercising

• journaling

• cleaning out your fridge and cabinets

• listening to happy music

• putting yourself first

• making and eating a home cooked meal

• washing the dishes/putting the dishes away

• washing/brushing your hair

[pluviioo]

beautiful disorder

Bulimia isn’t a pretty girl, hanging over the toilet bowl with her hair nicely tied back. It is a swollen face with vomit dripping down the chin and permanent nosebleeds.

Anorexia isn't  a skinny, shy girl that refuses some Food. It is disguisting hair appearing on deadly cold skin. It is the extreme pain from an empty stomach.

Depression isn’t a model with some smudged Mascara, which sadly looks out a window at a sunset. It is lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, because there is no motivation left to close the eyes. It is bitter lonliness.

Selfharm isn’t a beautiful boy, kissing your scars and telling you, you are beautiful anyway. It is the pain when the water in the shower hits the wounds. It is scars that will never disappear.

Mental disorders aren’t any kind of aesthetic. They are dying little by little, everyday.

[makingperfection]

If ANYONE THINKS AN ED IS BEAUTIFUL AND IT WONT HURT YOU, MESSAGE ME FOR A REALITY CHECK. I'M FUCKING DIEING FROM MINE.

[andithev4mpie]

[gaypopped-deactivated20210410]

Me: I don't have a bad relationship with food

Me 5 seconds later: *googles how to never eat again*

[makingperfection]

He eats away at the last little bit of confidence i had left, giving it to every other being he meets on his way. The love he once had for me is gone, the respect somewhere in the wind.

[makingperfection]

Abusive relationships suck.

Mentally. Emotionally. Physically.

It all sucks .