Daddy | 34 | NorCal

Have questions? Need advice? I'm here to help.

[thegoodvybe]

[phenomenal-vibrations]

Reblog if you're a cuddler.

[daddyy-duke]

Hi! I'm nearly 20 and still a virgin. I'm talking to a guy/Daddy and we are long distance, I really like him & I hope to meet him someday soon. But lately I crave the feeling of being touched by a man in a sexual way. There is also a guy that doesnt live far from me we have talk for awhile now, he wants to be FWB but I don't think I could do that emotionally, I would get too attached. This may be confusing & I'm sorry but I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt anyone. Any advice for me?

Hey there. Sounds like quite the pickle. I recommend being honest with yourself about your needs and emotions. If you don't think a fwb situation is right for you, then don't do it. There's nothing wrong with wanting a deeper connection, especially for your first experience. If he's not willing to give you what you need, he's not worth your time. I know carnal desires can be a hard thing to ignore, but you should do what's right for your happiness and mental health.

As for the long distance guy, again you should think deeply on what would make you happiest. If he's a great guy and you're willing to wait, then hold your course, but if you don't think a ldr is right for you(it's hard for everyone) then you might consider moving on so you can find someone more local who can give you the attention you crave.

Please let me know if you have any further questions.

[daddyy-duke]

Hey all, sorry for being so inactive! Went back to school this semester and working ft as well as other life shit, so I'm a bit busy. Im going to try to get back to everyone who's dmed and asked though, promise.

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Daddy needs care too.....~

[daddyy-duke]

Don't worry little one, Daddy will talk to the stranger for you.

[silver-bunny-backupaccount-blog]

He doesn’t need to hear anything else to drop everything and rush over....~

[daddyy-duke]

I'll always come running.

[naturaekos]

[ruinedchildhood]

[daddyy-duke]

Princesses be like...

[fluffygif]

[shyfox402-deactivated20200504]

Aww <3 XD

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[daddyy-duke]

First thing that pops in my head when I see this...

[daddyy-duke]

Hi! I'm just now discovering that I would at least try the little life, but neither me nor my daddy have any experience. What can I do to ease myself into this and help him as well? Thx 💖💖💖

First off, welcome to my page and the world of kink! Things can be very overwhelming when you first get here. There are so many kinks, each with their own idiosyncrasies. The first thing you and your partner should do is read. Read as many articles you can on the aspects that interest you. There are resources here on tumblr, such as "the library for kinksters"(https://vexthemonsterfucker.tumblr.com/post/188062707794/updated-library-for-kinksters) as well as a plethora of resources on the internet in general.

Again, read, read, read! Reading is fun-demental! You can never learn everything and anyone who claims have all the knowledge to is trying to sell you something.

And don't be afraid to reach out to your fellow kinksters! Most of us are pretty friendly if you come with respect.

I hope you have fun on your new journey to discover yourselves. Just remember to stay safe and communicate!

The Terrible Kinkster of Tal'Dorei

Updated Library For Kinksters dominantlife: “ I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update… Aftercare • A

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[availableforuseforfree-deactiva]

Dom Drop

A common conversation in BDSM circles is sub drop but rarely, if ever, is Dom dr0p discussed. It is a real thing and does happen! We focus so much on making sure the submissive is cared for that the Dominant is often left to their own devices.

First, before we talk about how to care for a Dom that is suffering from drop we should discuss what Dom drop is. Dom drop is very much the same as sub drop – but they can can have more emotional turmoil than submissives might. After all, they just spent a good afternoon beating your ass red, black and blue… and enjoyed it! Society teaches us that it is wrong to do that. We grow up being told not to hit anyone and that if you enjoy it you must be messed up! So during Dom drop, there is often a period of insecurity, fear and disgust in what they just did.

Another form of Dom drop is if play stopped suddenly or unexpectedly. If the endorphins and adrenaline are really rushing around they can have a sudden feeling of fatigue, irritability and depression because of the plummeting good mood natural drugs dissipating. Either way, the Dominant is dropping.

Along with the muscle aches and pains that are signs of a good time had by all – these moments can freeze a Dominant in their tracks and drive them to depression, reclusiveness and closed off behavior. It’s completely normal to go through this.

So how does a submissive help support a Dominant that is suffering from drop?

The best thing you can do is be there, remind them that if they want to talk you will and provide physical support. KM needs sexual release, others I know want a back rub, a nap or a sweet pastry of some kind. If you reassure them that their feelings are valid and normal it will help them recover. Ask them if they need something to drink or eat – resume your submission to them as soon as you feel able to after coming down from your high.

Talk to your Dominant before you play about what they’d like you to do if they drop. They may not even realize that they need something after play. The best thing for them is that you remember to take care of them too and ask them how you can help them relax after playing.

After play, talk about what you liked and enjoyed. Boost their confidence and assurance that they just did something good and positive and worthwhile. Let them feel the connection you got from play by telling them about it. It’s always a good idea to share your experiences. 

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[daddyy-duke]

Daddies need love too!

[bakwaaas]

i love.... calm men. like some men just have this really soothing, gentle, calm aura. as a girl who is highly strung and often suffers from anxiety and paranoia, I love a man who’s good at comforting you, who’s relaxed vibe rubs off on you, talking to him eases your anxiety and you just feel calm and safe

[devilsprodigy-deactivated202004]

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[daddyy-duke]

Yep.

[daddyy-duke]

Are you looking for a sub??

As I am currently sans little, I suppose I am, yes. If you're interested in applying for the position, I'd prefer you to be somewhat local(northern California) but you're welcome to chat either way.

[philosophybits]

“He who establishes his argument by noise and command, shows that his reason is weak.”

— Michel de Montaigne, Essais

[daddyy-duke]

Daddy af.