Blessing or Blesser?
In these days of social media, people tend to highlight pictures from their wedding day. Their profile pictures are of the happy couple, smiling as they got married and they all seem so happy. Sometimes in my mind, I ask; why did you even get married? Or rather, did you want a marriage or a wedding? It’s more rare to see a person uploading and sharing the person. Rather it’s of the day, the glory, the sparkles... The fame...
Weddings are nice, but they exist for marriage, not the other way around. You got married for the person, not for the wedding itself. It’s like saying, I want to have a baby instead of saying “I want children”. You just want a baby? What happens when the baby grows? Yes, then they get another. Cause you mind was just focused on the baby, not so much on the person. Babies are cute and all that, but it’s only for a time. Just like the wedding or the honeymoon - it’s for a short time. Very short. And if we have our full emphasis on the wedding instead of the marriage, would we have chosen the way we did? If you have a lifelong marriage in mind, you get a little bit more picky than if your aim is simply a nice wedding with a person you have feelings for.
It makes me wonder sometimes why people leave Christ. Is there something wrong with Christ? No, there’s nothing wrong about Christ. Then there has to be something wrong with us or our idea of Christ. Many look at God as the source of blessing, when we easily forget that He Himself is the biggest blessing.
Are you just after what He can give you or who He is? It makes me wonder, if people knew what living with Christ really means, if they would even call themselves Christians.












