#identity

[incognitopolls]

Where would you place your gender on a scale from 1 (man) to 9 (woman)?

1 – exclusively boy/man

2

3

4

5 – both equally, OR neither

6

7

8

9 – exclusively girl/woman

I can't place my gender on this scale

I don't know/still figuring things out

Voting ended onApr 1

Obviously gender is more complex than a one-dimensional scale, but answer as best you can. This is asking only about leaning, not intensity. Feel free to elaborate in the tags!

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[hobbbitor]

strange comic abt my face

[holdingcaulfields]

on identity

ojibwa / noah kahan / richard siken / unknown / elliott smith / oamisoa / cameron awkward-rich

[thatpollguy]

Would you consider yourself a boring person?

Yes

Not any more, but I used to be

No

Voting ended onNov 22, 2025

[moonprismpower456]

“Reminder that aspecs can still date and love their friends and family” and themselves. And their hobbies, and their passion in life, and the media they consume and their pets and places they like to go and food and drinks they like and in fact they don’t have to subscribe to the idea of “love” at all. You don’t have to date or have friends or family to be a person. You don’t have to fit into what society wants your life to be like to not be a robot. When I complain about aphobes implying that people who don’t date are machines, I’m not just complaining that they devalue platonic or familial love. They’re devaluing the idea of being your own person and thats a type of aphobia people don’t talk about enough. Aspecs can do whatever they want forever and that includes everything.

[miamaimania]

Jennifer Stenglein

[nonsensechemicals]

come with me into my world