I'm just a local bitch, and a former victim who wanted to stand up and finally have their own voice. The rpc is full of awful people who have done awful things. But because people refuse to stand up for each other, nothing is done about it. I wanted to be the voice I wish I had.
As of 4/9/24, this blog will still accept receipts and questions, and I will still archive things. But this blog will now mainly be a place for victims to come and speak anonymously, a place for them to feel safe.
To the awful degenerates of tumblr, do better.
Idiots on my shitlist (aka I've talked about them):
I noticed this blog still gets notifs in my email so i'm stating this for the record.
I am retired from this blog, have been since march, and I have zero intent on coming back.
My last situation opened my eyes to the fact that continuing this blog has been toxic for my mental health, had in turn made me a toxic person, and I have been far better off since leaving.
The only reason this blog remains up is for my actual valid callouts (ie on people like phoenix). I also fully disavow my behavior from before I left.
I will not be answering any asks. Nor will I be documenting new people. I am done. I am retired.
Okay, I know for people just now looking in, it can get confusing. What it seems like is a kind of witch-hunt by a few of us against one specific person, and that person is more than willing to play up to that and cry victim.
Seriously, they're not. What they are is someone who has serially stalked and harassed multiple (and by that I mean a LOT) of RPers in different fandoms going all the way back to at least 2016/17. They have driven four people completely out of the RPC that I personally know about, and there have almost certainly been more.
They never change. They just keep coming back and doing the same thing over and over again. They have knowingly harmed people, triggered them (I know someone who has a panic attack whenever they think they might encounter this person again). And they Just. Keep. Doing it.
They've been doing this shit for 8+ years, and this is why they're not welcome in the RPC anymore.
Here is the latest (2023/4/5) callout doc with plenty of evidence, and I can get more.
They've been through a lot of fandoms over the years, but their targets are almost always male muses with some sort of 'dark' or 'dangerous' leaning, and/or military characters.
What they do:
tl;dr
Send dozens of unsolicited asks looking for RP, often with unwelcome or downright creepy overtones, and ignore any and all boundaries.
Get aggressive, accusatory and guilt-trippy when rejected and will not take no for an answer.
Block evade, either by making a new blog or whining to people's partners about being blocked. They repeatedly refollow people who have already blocked them at least once.
Outright attack and harass their target's ship partners (or anyone who even makes a joke about shipping, or gets the attention they want). Meanwhile, they'll be pushing the male muse to ship themselves.
Flirts with an adult male muse using a 'child-appearing' muse (possibly not an actual child but has the appearance of one) or gets touchy-feely on anon toward other 'child' muses (and continues when told to stop).
Pretend to be someone else. Either returning on another blog/on anon and pretending they're a different person, or making another blog and claiming to be the 'best friend' of the one who did all of the above and defending them.
Change URLs repeatedly when called out or confronted in order to hide and keep doing what they're doing. Then eventually delete and come back 'as someone else' (see above) and do the same things again, often block-evading in the process.
Longer version below (I'm aware that some of my screencaps don't prove it's them, but the pattern of behavior will be very familiar).
1. Send continual asks both anon and not (I'm talking dozens a day), trying to push for interaction. This is usually with either some massively over-powered Mary-Sue or a cutesy child-appearing muse (child vampire, anime-style fox or cat-girl). Many of these asks go into sensual or sexual aspects (unwanted touching etc) even when asked IC and OOC to stop.
The Mary-Sues arrive throwing their weight around and being invincibly powerful. The mun gets angry when the target doesn't just accept this, and starts lashing out OOC. The 'child' muses start off cutesy but then begin flirting with adult-appearing males.
(They also send anons as animals or young children, which isn't bad on its own but is another way they get under people's guard.)
If the target doesn't answer all their (many) asks, or tells them they're not interested/are not RPing at the moment/are busy/didn't receive the asks, they make not-veiled-in-the-least accusations that the target is lying. They absolutely refuse to respect boundaries or take no for an answer. If you refuse to interact they will demand to know why and then not accept the explanation. If you block them, they will come back with another blog.
2. Attack and harass the target's writing partners, especially those receiving the IC attention (mostly romantic) they want for themselves. This runs from oblique 'you shouldn't talk to [name] that way' to 'do you want to date [name]?' through to OOC 'how do you know [blog name]', accusations of 'forcing a ship' and demands that the shipping partner back off. If this doesn't work out they become outright aggressive toward the shipping partner muns, sometimes having their 'muse' act violently toward the other.
Meanwhile, they're busy trying to (guess what?) force a ship on the target muse, often with the 'child-like' muses as mentioned above.
3. Pretend to be someone else. I became aware of this person somewhere around 2018-ish, when they had Shinobu Oshino blog called VampireDonuts. They were pestering at least three people in the historical RP fandoms with unsolicited asks. Another regular alt of theirs is an 'elven princess' going by 'thepureststar', 'ofpurestarlight' or variations on that theme (Emilia Clarke as an FC, usually opens with offering a drink). They brushed past a ship-partner of mine and we didn't think much of it at the time. We were apparently luckier than others had been (callout at the time here, began with the URL 'Coffeeisms', then started with one of the 'starlight' ones). Almost every single thing that's gone down from this person in the last couple of years, they were doing back then. Including block-evasion.
At a point where they were using 'ofpureststarlight' and someone started pointing out harassment from them. Another blog appeared, 'ofcelestialfire', lashing out at the accusers and talking up 'ofpureststarlight' as a wonderful friend. However the behavior, language and certain spelling/grammar errors were exactly the same. I wasn't privy to whatever finally proved they were the same, but they were called out and promptly deactivated both.
In late 2022/early 2023 they hit the Avatar (blue people) fandom and attached themselves to the main antagonist, first with the URL 'lotusreigned' (see the last part of point 1 above!).
After being blocked, they showed up with another Shinobu Oshino account 'loverofdonuts', then after being called out for their harassment again, ran through 'ofbloodissims', 'ofbatissims' and a few others in between. And then ...
As 'ofpureststarlight' they went completely off their tree at someone who was joking with the mun, dropping flirty crack asks that no-one else was taking seriously. That person has since deactivated so most the evidence is lost, but here are a few examples.
Around this same time they were hitting the DBZ fandom, and mid-2023 Spiderverse. Again, whenever blocked they would come back with a new blog and follow the same people who had just blocked them. Some of this is in the callout linked above.
Fast forward to last year, when they were being called out on this URL ...
Ironically they only arrived on this URL because they'd been called out for harassment on the original ('lotusreigned', followed by 'purplelightningwaves' and a few others).
It's also around this point that the callout linked at the top of this post comes in.
So, yeah ... I kinda lost my point of what I was going for here, but when warnings go out about this person we are not just being bitches to some poor soul. This person is bad news, has been for years, and continues to be.
The “Wallace situation” was resolved peacefully and the issues were settled. No one is or was racist, no one was intentionally or trying to erase culture, and both parties directly involved are happy with the conclusion.
That’s it. Nothing more shall be said or done on this matter and leave everyone alone.
Lol I wish you'd leave everybody else alone, but we don't always get what we want, now do we?
You're not a fucking victim so put away your sad music. You'll just make another shitass blog to bother and block evade everyone with because you never fucking learn. You're a delusional stalker and a creep and if you're not gonna care about anyone's boundaries, you don't get to cry croccodile tears at me for warning everyone about your shit.
You make this so fucking easy.
As for those reading, just be very aware of what anons you answer.
This is gonna be the only thing I say before I check out of this blog for a bit.
First and foremost, because this is something I believe needs to be said:
I am sorry. Deeply and genuinely. I do not word myself the best at times and it is something I am doing my best to work on correcting, both now and going forward. 90% of the time I use this blog via mobile, which is why my posts tend to be short and brief. Going forward, unless I'm firmly at a computer so I can sit down and fully convey my thoughts properly, I will not be making heavy posts via mobile anymore.
Secondly, I did fuck up with my wording, and will apologize for it a second time here. I mistakenly used POC as a general term, and I will not being doing so again in the future, as I did not intend to imply the mun wasn't POC and I deeply apologize that my improper wording portrayed it that way, that I am truly sorry for.
I will do my best to improve going forward. However my initial point remains. Regardless of the direction, racebending isn't okay under the circumstances that it can be considered erasure of the original artist's vision. And I am more than willing to accept that not everyone will agree, everyone has a valid opinion on the matter.
Finally, I will say it here and now. Regardless of my tone in posts (as tone indication is a struggle of mine), I do NOT nor will I ever condone or encourage the harassment of others. And I do not welcome people who do.
If any has been sent, I do not approve of it and I do not want those kinds of people in my space.
That is all. Once again, I deeply apologize and will do better from here on.
STOP being creepy on main in regards to the VHD fandom and adjacent fandoms or OCs. You've already been warned against stalking and sending harassing anons to anyone who's interacted with that mun, and your ass has been caught doing it AGAIN.
Do the RPC a solid and install the Touch Grass app on your phone ASAP.
Given that they're far more well versed on the matter than I, given that they're the ones who brought the information to my attention to begin with, please direct any further questions regarding the wallace post to @notjustaclown.
They know far more than me and I might just become a loop of small answers otherwise.
Please direct all inquiries/concerns about the Wallace darkwashing situation (and the mun) to me and me ONLY. I'll teach you things that will make your head spin, and will make you question why the Pokemon RPC has been allowing that bullshit for so damn long...
Given that they're far more well versed on the matter than I, given that they're the ones who brought the information to my attention to begin with, please direct any further questions regarding the wallace post to @notjustaclown.
They know far more than me and I might just become a loop of small answers otherwise.
So I'm gonna be that guy and share what one of my friends said over call since the other one had to hold their tongue after they saw the Wallace profile. At least, what I can remember.
There are several things you need to keep in mind if you want to switch a nationality of a character, and yes, this does include the color of one's skin.
Also to the person going "Blackwashing isn't real!" and sharing links to personal opinions, the POC I'm speaking to that is my friend, says It is real. Just because You don't believe it's not doesn't mean that others don't think differently. That aside, lets get into why this is offensive.
Screenshot borrowed from @daisyreports { I hope you don't mind. }
First off, Mikuri Misushima is a Japanese name. Not a Hawaiian name. If Wallace was Native Alolan, he would have a name that's closer to American or Native American rather than a Japanese name. ( I say Native American because said friend said that Hawaiians are closer to Native American in bloodline )
Even then, Hawaiians are of Polynesian descent, not African. Something that could be found out if the person took the time to research information.
Anyone who is in the Pokemon fandom usually know that Alola is based off of Hawaii while Hoenn is based off of Japan, which means you'd have to do a whole BUNCH of research, not just for nationality reasons but different beliefs, etc etc.
Note; Sootopolitan is not an "Ethnicity" either, Sootopolis is a city in Hoenn. If anything, that would be more of a residency but I digress.
TDLR; Do your fucking research and stop trying to give other people shit just because you're ignorant about things.
So yes, I do agree with daisyreports in this being Blackwashing, but not just that, straight up disrespect in general as the person in question made no effort to do research clearly.
So I'm gonna be that guy and share what one of my friends said over call since the other one had to hold their tongue after they saw the Wallace profile. At least, what I can remember.
There are several things you need to keep in mind if you want to switch a nationality of a character, and yes, this does include the color of one's skin.
Also to the person going "Blackwashing isn't real!" and sharing links to personal opinions, the POC I'm speaking to that is my friend, says It is real. Just because You don't believe it's not doesn't mean that others don't think differently. That aside, lets get into why this is offensive.
Screenshot borrowed from @daisyreports { I hope you don't mind. }
First off, Mikuri Misushima is a Japanese name. Not a Hawaiian name. If Wallace was Native Alolan, he would have a name that's closer to American or Native American rather than a Japanese name. ( I say Native American because said friend said that Hawaiians are closer to Native American in bloodline )
Even then, Hawaiians are of Polynesian descent, not African. Something that could be found out if the person took the time to research information.
Anyone who is in the Pokemon fandom usually know that Alola is based off of Hawaii while Hoenn is based off of Japan, which means you'd have to do a whole BUNCH of research, not just for nationality reasons but different beliefs, etc etc.
Note; Sootopolitan is not an "Ethnicity" either, Sootopolis is a city in Hoenn. If anything, that would be more of a residency but I digress.
TDLR; Do your fucking research and stop trying to give other people shit just because you're ignorant about things.
So yes, I do agree with daisyreports in this being Blackwashing, but not just that, straight up disrespect in general as the person in question made no effort to do research clearly.
Nonnie, there ain't a person in the Pokemon RPC who doesn't know who the fuck that is. They've been around the RPC for as long as anyone can remember. That person isn't white, but they sure as shit ain't black, either. Darkwashing a light-skinned character is just as bad as whitewashing a dark-skinned character. Darkwashing a light-skinned character is the RPC equivalent of blackface. It's extremely racist, no matter how you try to claim otherwise.
Also, Nonnie? I'm the one who got the information about that person in the Pokemon RPC who got called out for darkwashing. There's a lot more I know about them, including things that might get your friend to reconsider being friends with that person - assuming it's not who I think it is.
Hey I felt like I had to say something about this. I personally don't think "blackwashing" is an issue. People are allowed to intrepid different characters how they want. It's not erasing the original version of the character. Also the person you pointed out who was doing it is still poc themselves. They're Chinese and Taiwanese. These interpretations are done in good fun, not to erase the original. With all due respect, I don't this this as issue that needs to be called out.
while you make a valid point, i can't really wholeheartedly agree
yes i agree that things can be interpreted differently and in good fun, but i cannot agree when it comes to that characters identity. You're better off making an oc at that point.
I know some people who are a bit closer to the situation than i who will be making posts on the matter shortly
I get you're mad at the ai stuff but your most recent post is going too far. You probably meant POC as a stand-in for black— even with that, its still racist to accuse a writer of color to be white. The AI stuff of the other "blackwasher" is bad, but that most recent one you're going after is not appropriate at all. I am friends with someone who's friends with the mun you're screenshotting, even if you cut out their username people will figure out who this is since you also capped their muse information.
This could potentially lead to harassment towards someone unsuspecting, whether you mean it or not. It's fine to have a personal dislike, but this behavior is indeed very out of hand and uncalled for.
You're correct, my wording was wrong and I will apologize for that. I was using POC as a wider term when I really should have just clarified what I meant. I did not intend to call the person white, just that they are not the ethnicity they are portraying him.
Minus my error, the rest of my post still stands. I will even go in and edit my error to clarify what I meant.
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