✎Dakota Finely™

| Gender: An Illusion | Status: Takenx3; QPRx2 | Panromantic Ace | Gemini | Dorky Writer | No NSFW Here, Alright? Chill | Big Meme Energy |

[dakotafinely]

Master Post

Hi! I'm Dakota Finely, you can just call me Dakota. Link to my Carrd.co where all my socials are. Sideblogs are @reject-cast-dakotafinely & @the2purpleidiots (system blog: @rhythmicwavesys)

Top&Bottom Dividers; Spaced Out Divider Here's some immediate things you need to know about me and my blog: ➺ DNI ┊➺ Racists ┊➺ Abelists ┊➺ Queer-phobics ┊➺ TERFS ┊➺ Pedos ┊➺ Proshippers ┊➺ Zionists ┊➺ Transmeds

➺ About Me ┊➺ I am an Adult ┊➺ I love to hit this Daily Button ┊➺ I am Panromantic/Asexual ┊➺ I am actively in a Polyamorous relationship ┊➺ Current Request Status: Commissions ┊➺ Feel free to DM me ┊➺ Discord User: ya_homeboy ┊➺ Current Fandoms: Sander Sides; DuckTales[2017]; MHA/BNHA; ATLA; LMK; ROTTMNT; Demon Slayer; The Owl House; Dungeon Meshi; Milo Murphy's Law; Gravity Falls; Friday Night Funkin'; Kevin Can Fuck Himself; Mouthwashing; Dandandan; Kpop Demon Hunters

➺ Content For The Content Gods ╰─▸Rise of the TMNT: ┊➺ Milk Chocolate ┊➺ Milk And Cookies ┊➺ Orange Peels ┊➺ Aprils Job ┊➺ ROTTMNT X Reader: The X Files ┊➺ The Dread Potion ╰─▸Sanders Sides: ┊➺ What Side Are They? ╰─▸Creep Series (Tik Tok): ┊➺ Outside Observer ╰─▸Original Work: ┊➺ Reject Cast: Game Face

[moved-please-leave-me-alone]

Alright your Discord avatar and tumblr avatar are locked in a closet for 7 minutes ala 7 Minutes In Heaven. What happens

[bevsi]

I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with relating to characters, “they’re literally me” etc but if that’s the only way you engage with stories you’re kinda missing the whole point of Characters being vehicles through which we can see perspectives outside of our own. and also you’re going to get upset when the Character acts in a way that is not Personally Relatable to You

[shigure]

i'm sorry i never did your tag game. i love you

[snake-eggs]

“There aren’t enough hours in a day.” There are actually. The problem is that we think 40 hour work weeks are an unavoidable fact of life.

The problem is that everyone has to work 8 hours, pretty much no exceptions, and with getting ready time + (unpaid) lunch + commute, “8 hours” is actually anywhere between 9 and 12, every single day, with more work to do when you get home because our society and culture was built around having one member of the household home full time and nothing has changed now that almost everyone works.

No wonder Americans are reliant on DoorDash and fast food, there’s no time or energy to cook. No one wonder mental and physical health are in shambles, many just spent all day sitting in fluorescent lights with little to no stimulation. “Just wake up earlier” “Just meal prep”… these are ok short-term, individual solutions, but the broader, systemic issue is obvious. We aren’t built for this. There’s no work-life balance. Genuinely, I think if our culture could normalize a shorter work week, many individuals’ biggest problems would simply evaporate.

[broken-horn-of-equius]

[stuckinapril]

I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

[queerpeers]

yeah im “transitioning” *dissolves into tiny pieces as i click to the next slide*

[queerpeers]

[xuxii-bunny]

Is there a transfem version?!?

[queerpeers]

ask and ye shall receive

[roseycanvas]

Nonbinary version?

[queerpeers]

enjoy 💛🤍💜🖤

[queerpeers]

like status: sick 😎

[british-catgirl]

happy pride month I fucking love powerpoint slide transitions and gender transitions

[actualized-animal]

being anti-divorce is so fucking bonkers to me like yeah i think you're morally obligated to stay with some shithead who you hate forever. this is a normal and healthy thing to believe. let's have kids together and force them to grow up being raised by two people who hate each other. yeah this might fuck them up mentally during the most formative years of their life but it's the morally righteous thing to do. if there's one thing god loves it's traumatized children. i'm getting into heaven for sure

[dovesndecay]

I see a lot of folks defending their vitriolic repugnance towards toddlers with cries of "but my sensory needs!" as if children are not also in possession of sensory needs. As if you, an adult here on Tumblr.com, do not have the capability and resources to learn the skills or acquire aids for coping with competing access needs. Or, y'know, just the option to leave, the way children most often do not.

You're holding an actual child to higher standards than you hold yourself, but it's the child that should be removed from public and community spaces. For your comfort.

Go fuck yourselves.

[jenny-holzer]

[cheaphalloweencostume]

“be gay do crime! but sex is yucky and crime is wrong!” ass website

[cheaphalloweencostume]

literally 😭😭😭

[kroovv]

Please enjoy this snail measuring tape i got at a garadge sale today

[37x3]

im always trying to impersonate myself

[depsidase]

[tonysopranoproskater69420]

[apollo-cackling]

[transcript: #I fuck with this just because I lowkey have bad taste /end transcript]

[saxifraga-x-urbium]

re ehrc guidance. which is not legally binding.

[genderkoolaid]

the transandrophobia Wikipedia page is not being deleted (good work!) but I wanted to share the exchange that went to down.

I saw these screenshots in the notes ~2m after it was decided:

I just took these of the project page:

& looking in the edit history, I see this:

Nice to see this get defeated so quickly.

[fishtank-thinktank]

Also, I feel like it’s important to mention! That if the issue around the page is mainly the word transandrophobia, it should also be stated that the word is used two times in the entire article!



Twice, one in the intro alongside other words used to describe the oppression that trans men face in this way, the other one being a restatement of that fact: “is sometimes referred to as anti-transmasculinity,[1] transandrophobia,[2] or transmisandry” “The discrimination experienced by transgender men has been described using various words, but none have seen widespread use. Terms used include anti-transmasculinity and transandrophobia.”

The word transandrophobia is used twice in the article, both times referring to the different words that are used to describe trans men’s oppression.

[genderkoolaid]

the funniest thing about this is that transandrophobia deniers want to make anti-transmasculinity theory out to be some terminally online niche internet discourse thing soooo bad. they clearly want to present it as something completely outside the realm of legitimate theory, something no "reasonable adult" or "feminist" would ever buy into because its just so obviously wrong.

but then you have something like this. where it is just so painfully obvious they are on the same side of history as aphobes and biphobes. when you have people who 1) are not personally invested in transandrophobia not being a legitimate term, and 2) are actually looking at the academic and statistical sources given for transmasculine oppression, it becomes pretty obvious that this resistance is motivated by personal discomfort with the term.

notably, in my experience, people are super willing to come out swinging against transandrophobia, all confident in their rejection of the concept, until you respond with numerous cited sources on material transmasculine oppression and back it up with widely accepted feminist theory. then suddenly they ghost. so much anti-transmasculinity thrives as a direct result of people's refusal to acknowledge the reality of transmasc oppression, and when you can't do that because its a Wikipedia page with extensive sources, you have to fall back on petty defensive cruelty, because that was what was at the heart of this uproar all along.

keep talking about transandrophobia and/or anti-transmasculinity. use those terms. don't be embarrassed about it. if trans-rad-feminism gets to be slowly mainstreamed in queer spaces, why can't transunitism?