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[dansexualityrant]

you don’t have to define it. there’s lots of words and words can be good. you know? there’s a million words for genders, a million words for sexuality. and what they can be good for, these labels, are for helping you to understand your feelings ‘cause if you see a description or something written down you can think, “that’s how i feel,” and maybe if you want to convey your personality to somebody, then you can look that up and go, “yeah.” i know that some people argue that sexuality and all these labels and definitions are different things but we don’t even know what sexuality means so... on one hand, you don’t have to label yourself. a lot of tumblr, they... you know... make you feel like you have to “label myself with these complicated labels to be cool.” you don’t have to. if you just want to be a formless blob, a mess that struggles to define themself from moment to moment, that’s also okay. you can use labels if you wish, if it helps you to define yourself. and you can change!