I'm a mess

35. Bi. She/Her. Brazilian. This is a place for fangrling about fictional characters and random stuff.

[thisfeebleheart]

smiling and kissing

[thisautistic]

[madrasaur]

hard launch

[claredevee]

Smut dictionary bank (NSFW, 18+)

I’ve been compiling a smutwordlist and other handy tools, so I thought I’d share them in case they’re useful for other smutwriters💜

Tumblr resources:

The Smut Writer’s Dictionary by @maybeeatspaghetti

Smut Thesaurus [18+/NSFW] by @prurientpuddlejumper

smut guide by @iguessweallcrazyithinktho

A list of terms for smut by @thebleedtheory

Writing Smut 101: Overcoming Smut Shame by @slightlyrebelliouswriter23

🌈Is it okay for a straight writer to write smut for lgbtqia characters? Anonymous question answered by @thatspookyagent 🌈

🌈Gender Identity Resource List by @pocunion 🌈

🟡🟤⚫️Praising Beauty Without Fetishizing PoC Anonymous question answered by @writingwithcolor 🟡🟤⚫️

🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 1 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️

🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 2 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️

AO3 guides:

The Ultimate Guide to Writing Smut Fic by QuinnAnderson

The Fic Writer's Guide to Formatting by AnisaAnisa

The Fic Writer's Guide to Writing by AnisaAnisa

External articles/glossaries:

The Sexy Thesaurus 1

The Sexy Thesaurus 2

The Sexy Thesaurus 3

BDSM glossary

Dictionary of Sexual Terms

How to Write Smut

Here’s Your Everything-to-Know Guide on Erogenous Zones

🌈Gay Foreplay 101🌈

🌈Bottoming 101 🌈

🌈Gay Sex 101: A Comprehensive List of Queer Erotic Terms and Their Definitions🌈

🌈How to Write LGBT+ Characters🌈

TW->Thoughts on the Depiction of Rape in Fiction<-TW

Funny/Lighthearted:

70 Weird and Wacky Words for Vagina

A Definitive Ranking of 30 weird (And Funny) Words for Penis

If you have any recommendations please comment so I can include them!💜🤭

Also, please let me know if any of the sources I use are outdated, not working or problematic in any way so I can remove them or replace them💜

Last updated: October 2025

My masterlist

[gimmekees]

I think the reason that Heated Rivalry has sent everyone into mass obsession is because they managed to capture, distill and bottle the feeling of falling in love. I have never in my decades long life had a tv show give me butterflies at watching people fall in love until this show. And that’s saying a lot because I’m not putting myself in the story, I’m sitting in the cuck chair for this but damn, the perfect storm created this and I fear nothing has or will come close.

Edited : changed psychosis to obsession

[sobadbad]

[firstprinced]

shane throwing his head back (●'◡'●)

[holllanov]

ilya is shane's baby

[hrgifs]

Does it fucking kill you too? Not anymore.

[record-guy59]

[ilya-rozanova]

HEATED RIVALRY | ROSE (1.04)

[mskingbeann]

every time a country is invaded by the US under the excuse of “rescuing” its people, what’s left behind is either a cemetery or an open air asylum.

there isn’t a single case in history where the US actually saved a country from anything, what they did leave behind, consistently, were stolen resources, exploited land, and futures permanently scarred by military dictatorships.

what the US does in the middle east is widely known, what many people still don’t fully grasp is what they’ve done and continue to do in latin america.

they funded, trained, and supported military dictatorships across most of the region, and they infiltrated our cultures in a calculated, orchestrated way that still shapes us today.

to my LATAM stay strong cuz we’re going to need it in the years ahead.

[jesterlesbian]

FELLOW TRAVELERS (2023)│1.01 You're Wonderful

[ilivebyshipping]

Me starting yet another piece of media about depressed homosexuals:

[zanephillips]

Fellow Travelers 1.03 "Hit Me"

[hasuyawwn]

Hi Hasu! Concerning the Kiss art challenge, a Duo x Heero with #7 on the lips (passionate) would make my day :3 <3 Have a nice one! ^^

[operationmeteor]

By ゆうちゃ（プロフ参照）