OK Why are there all of a sudden SALT BABIES
Right so I’ve been out of the game for a little over a year, so maybe this is a new thing, but why on earth are there girls classing themselves as sugar babies, but are anything but?
Now, I’m not one to bitch about how any girl runs her hustle. We’re all in this together at the end of the day, and sure as shit there’s enough sugar daddies to go around. Hell, some of us probably even share SD’s without knowing and he STILL provides for us.
What I’m confused about is why a girl is saying she’s a sugar baby, but makes $150-200 a week IF that, but sees her ‘SD’ 2-3 times a week and is intimate with him.
Firstly, hunny you’re being played SO HARD. If you’re getting $200 a week, and seeing your SD even ONCE a week, for intimacy and dates or nights in, you’re making $100 a night. Prostitutes and escorts make way more than that. If that is ALL YOU’RE MAKING and you’re not getting gifts or travel or anything else out of it, maybe you should re-evaluate your choice of sex work.
I know that $200 a week is enough for some girls, and if you genuinely like your SD and you’re happy with getting $100 a night, ok! Good for you! But as a favour, please do a few things.
1) Make sure you’re not undervaluing yourself. You are worth as much as you think you are. I regularly get men offering me £100 for 12+ hours, and I turn them down. Hell, for 12+ hours (INCLUDING SLEEPING) I wouldn’t accept less than £1000 ($1300). My monthly allowance MINIMUM is £2800 plus gifts and travel for 2-4 times per month. If he can’t provide what I NEED, I walk away.
2) Don’t advertise your blog as what girls should be realistically aspiring towards. Firstly, this undermines all the hard work that SB put in to getting their SD, and makes potential daddies believe that they don’t need to pay higher amounts for high quality women - we are all of high quality and DESERVE the best, but if you’re telling potential SB’s that they should be aspiring towards making $300 a week, you need to take a step back and re-evaluate your own hustle.
3) Don’t call yourself successful. $200 a week is $800 a month. I can’t even pay half my damn rent with that. If I’m seeing a guy 6-8 times a month for $800, i’m not a successful Sugar Baby. I wouldn’t even call myself a Splenda Baby. I’m a Salt Baby. You’re allowing men to dictate how much money they want to give you. Being an SB is about power, it’s about the hustle and the game. Care for these men. Like these men. Let them THINK they have the power, but NEVER EVER give it up to them. You are in control.
You should always be in control.
