darra-b

IG: darra.b A simple woman with complex views.

[takashiyasui]

Everyday life in Tokyo

[kushandwizdom]

““Patience is, when you’re supposed to be mad, but you choose to understand.””

— Hailey Baldwin

[darra-b]

Never believing, never trusting again when someone says they’ll ride for you till the end, got you like you got them, go through thick and thin with you.. It’s all talk cause when it really comes down to it, they easily give up because they’re tired or find every excuse that it can’t be fixed.

I’m not perfect, I make mistakes, I do shit that you might not like sometimes but I would’ve never given up on you no matter how many times my heart has tried to remove me from the situation. I couldn’t do you like that, I couldn’t make myself find ways to say that I can’t stand it anymore, I’m tired, etc. No matter how old or how bad it gets, I don’t give up on the people I love the most.. I guess that’s just me.

Every person I’ve ever given my all to, always leaves.. the moment I make a “mistake” or do something “wrong”, I mean shit that’s not worth fighting about. Little problems that’s not worth it ending the relationship. I could have been worst, I could have treated you like a game, I could have cheated.. like the bigger problems that actually HAVE a reason for ‘em to leave me but NAH, it’s always over little things. But that’s okay, I can’t make someone stay, I can’t make someone fight for me the same way I do for them. I can’t make 'em understand how I hold them down the way I do. None of it especially if they don’t wanna make themselves see it in my way..

[6lacksoul]

[tuervibes]

““and sometimes, love just isn’t enough.””

— DY, a six word story (via wnq-writers)

[0gz]

The Rose That Grew From Concrete 🌹.

[darra-b]

The saddest part is knowing you were once everything to someone and it’s crazy how shit changes because people get tired of trying, people forget to love their person and truly just take things for granted.

[darra-b]

Just because we’re not together, doesn’t mean I don’t love you with all my heart. That’s when I understand that just because two people might want to be with each other, doesn’t mean things will work out. Because wanting to be together is not enough when the timing is all wrong.

So promise me we’ll meet again someday; in a couple of years or another life. Whichever. And promise me we will try again. And maybe this time we’ll be able to surpass everything that’s gone wrong and love each other for all the previous times that we weren’t able to..

[darra-b]

It’s just one of those days and I’m missing you more than anything. When I stare at your face whether it’s through pictures or videos or just hearing your voice through your music, makes my heart ache. I know I’m supposed to be strong and not make things hard for you but I really can’t help it. Till this day I still can’t believe you’re gone, gone way too soon. Nothing hurts me more than knowing you’re not here and won’t be here physically for me, my future plans and accomplishments, my kids, and just growing old together. Since you left I have no one to run to. You were the only one who gets me and supports me no matter what kind of decisions I make in life and still accept me when I’m wrong. You were my backbone. We did everything together. I lost my best friend and it hurts so much.. I pray to God every night that he’ll let you visit me in my dreams soon enough. Baby brother, I know you’re in a better place and I should continue reminding myself that you’re always watching over me. Please give me the strength and guide me through life as I don’t know what challenges I may face. I need you more than ever. I love you and I miss you beyond infinity. Rest easy my beautiful angel. 😔👼🙏❤️

[yourbigsisnissi]

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

[melindacarolinee]

I’ve let myself get walked on. I’ve let myself be ridiculed. I’ve let myself be treated poorly. All because I was scared to lose those people. I was scared to lose the people that didn’t care that they hurt my feelings and put me down. Isn’t is sad what we put ourselves through for people that wouldn’t do the same for us?

Chapters from my life (via melindacarolinee)

[stratfordboy]

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[bitchycode]

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[trapxskywalker]

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[gayisthewaybish]

Part of a relationship is saying the wrong thing at the worst time. Fighting over a small thing that won’t matter in a week. Watching them turn cold for a few hours because of family issues. Offending each other with comebacks that can sometimes be too much. And making each other cry… But if the relationship is true, they won’t leave when things get hard. People focus too much on finding someone who would never fight with them, but those people lose the part of the relationship where they work together to make things work. Don’t just focus on finding someone who won’t fight with you; the small fights and arguments will only make you stronger. Seek someone who will always fight for you at the end of the day because they can’t stand the thought of you leaving.

[scorpiofeels-deactivated2025042]

Realest shit I’ve read in a min.

[darra-b]

Going through a break up is not easy. Sometimes you try to justify things and try to get the answers you want, maybe be in denial when you already know.. but it's hard when you love someone so much. I always try to see the good in everything and still knowing all the bad things too but at the end, I loved you through it all. I don't think I will ever get over it, let alone get over you.. No matter how much we fought, no matter how much we couldn't stand each other, I still love you and I would have gone to the ends of the earth for you. Even when I know you've hurt me intentionally or not because I had my wrong ways with you too and I apologize if I ever made u feel like u weren't enough.. We had everything other couples fiend, we were a team but I think sometimes we forget what we have in front of us. We take each other for granted.. And maybe right now we're tryna do everything to avoid the situation.. go out, drink, maybe even try to "see other people".. that's what people do to fill the void. But no matter what it is, I will and can never try to find someone else to fill the empty spot. It will never feel right to me. And I hope u feel the same and I pray that what we have won't ever fade. I hope as the days goes by, we can find that time and actually talk without feeling like it's impossible to communicate ever again. But I'm hoping for the best, and I hope you still love me just as much through it all. I hope one day we both can figure ourselves out and maybe one day come back together and love each other more than the last time. But thank you for letting me love you and thank you for loving me to the best of your ability. We weren't perfect being apart but we were perfect when we're together. I don't regret anything with you because you did make me feel on top of the world too.. You will always be a big part of my life and I hope you continue to, despite all the bullshit.. TTN. 060715 💔

[heelsandclutches]

Every single relationship will get “boring” after you’ve been together for ages. Love isn’t a feeling, it’s a commitment; to love every day, physically and emotionally. It’s hard afff, it’s not always laughs and smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being cute. “Oh the spark is gone.” No, that’s not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally? Do the same. This isn’t Hollywood, this isn’t romantic happy ever after bs. Love someone when you don’t want to, when they are being a fricken asshole. When they’re being hard to love. That’s thats the realist shit there is.