Date A Genderflux Person

Date one, just do it. Mods

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Date a genderflux person who plays the Persona series

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Hello! Your local trans boy flux here, and i am very happy to report that as of today I have my first girlfriend!! :D I am 14, and so she’s the first person I’ve ever dated! We’ve been best friends for two years, and she told me about her feelings yesterday! I have a question tho. How do I tell her I’m boyflux (she already knows I’m trans)?

first - so great! i’m so happy for the two of you, i hope you both are happy!

i think you could just sit down and ask what she knows about genders outside of the “traditional” male/female binary, and then lead into saying that your gender identity is not what most people would consider “traditional” (this is in quotes because obviously we know there are more genders than 2 or 3, but some people stick with it). Explain what boyflux is and what that means for how you should be addressed or treated, and that it doesn’t change your relationship or your feelings! i think she should understand. just educate her thoroughly and all should be ok!

-mod pickle

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Is there a term for switching fluidly between boy, non-binary, and agender? Like gender fluid without the girl? This describes me and I was wondering if there’s a term!

hey! you could say you’re trigender, so you are 3 genders - and then specify which! when doing a quick search, i couldn’t find much else, but if you don’t think this works i recommend searching that exactly as you asked - “gender for boy nonbinary and agender” and some lists will pop up for you.

hope this helped! :) - mod pickle

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Date a genderflux person who makes MMDs

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Pride cacti!!!! I originally just made the ace (cactace) and aro ones, but…..then I got carried away…. They’re all gonna be stickers eventually, and the older (slightly less detailed) versions of the ace and aro ones are available already,  here!

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I've been unsure about my gender for the past couple of years. I'm not content with myself as a born male but don't want to transition. I enjoy some of each side, but I genuinely don't know what I prefer. I read up a bit and found genderflux or genderfluid best fits, but would like an opinion from someone who knows more than me, and could shed light on what I feel. Any help is appreciated, thank you. Until I understand better, I'm sticking with male pronouns, my issue is mostly physical.

hi!

from my perspective at least, it def seems like that! im the exact opposite. im born female, do not want to transition, but oftentimes am not content with being born the way i am. if there are days where you feel more feminine, and then some days where you feel more masculine, or some where you feel agender or anything else (i MIGHT be explaining this wrong? im very tired) then it’s just something you have to trust yourself on? like, maybe some days you incorporate something that would make you feel more content. lets say you didnt feel like a male that day. maybe wear something that doesnt look the way you traditionally would. accessorize or have some things in your closet that let you be who you want to be those times. thats what i do at least. i have my clothes for when i have to present myself as i was born, or i feel unbothered by being afab. and then i have very…androgynous i think is the word, clothes (or just stuff to make me feel better), and then things that i buy from the men’s section that help me look like i have a flatter chest without having a binder. stuff like that! it’s all up to you. maybe you dont have to change your wardrobe, maybe you just have to let yourself feel the way you feel. maybe you want to wear makeup or maybe you just want to be different looking than you are because you feel like it’s too much of one thing. i cant really tell you much because the way everyone feels is very different but you just have to know that you dont HAVE to have a preference. i dont have one! there’s no pressure to be anything. just feel how you feel and look how you want to look. it’ll make you feel so much better.

-mod pickle

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Have some wholesome news, I’m a girlflux afaab who came out to my grandma- I’m not sure if she fully understands it but she says she loves me anyway, SO IM SPREADING THE POSITIVITY IM FEELING NOW WITH EVERBODY!!! HAVE A FANTASTIC WEEK/YEAR/LIFE YALL

OMG im so proud of you thats so great!!!! yay!!

-mod pickle

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date a genderflux person who just came out because ,wow, that life event is a rollercoaster of emotions.

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date a girlflux person who really wants a girlfriend but is also very tired of life

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Mod Pickle and I have noticed….a lot of nsfw blogs following us recently, and most of them don’t seem to be porn bots.

All the mods are minors (with the exception of Mod Mom, I’m turning 19 soon) and I can guarantee that none of us feel comfortable about this. Please stop following us, or we will block you

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^^^ even after all mods are not minors. i will be 18 soon but regardless it makes us and others uncomfortable and we want this to be a safe space for everyone. -mod pickle

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Mod Pickle and I have noticed....a lot of nsfw blogs following us recently, and most of them don't seem to be porn bots.

All the mods are minors (with the exception of Mod Mom, I'm turning 19 soon) and I can guarantee that none of us feel comfortable about this. Please stop following us, or we will block you

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Date a genderflux person that needs emotional support, especially for anxiety and depression

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Hey! I have a question! So I’m afab, And recently wondered if I’m genderflux. If I feel non binary at times and female at others but never male, that’s flux right?

Yup!!

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Hey I got a question :00 what does boyflux mean? Is it like genderfluid/flux but with specificly male aligned genders? -ur local confused trans boy

Yup, but for genderflux!-Mod Mom

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so,,, for clarification,,,, genderflux means you mostly lean to one side of the gender spectrum, but your gender changes intensity? cause I think that’s me!!!

Basically, think of it as a dimmer switch!

I'm glad you found what you were looking for!!

-Mod Mom

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Date a confused as hell asexual genderflux because they need comfort... Oops, I think I meant "date me"

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hey! i'm an afab person who just came to terms with the fact that i'm genderflux and i just wanted a place to yell about how happy it makes me to finally have a label that sums up my identity so well! for the longest time internalized transphobia and cisnormativity had me believing that not feeling female all the time was something all cis women experienced, but now i know that's not true. i love my sometimes-agender-sometimes-female-self, and nothing will ever change that 💕💕💕

heyo buddyo!thats so great!!! im so happy to hear that you like the blog & feel comfy in your own identity. that feeling is the BEST and everyone deserves it ❤️mod pickle