It is not an unsubstantiated claim. What you did was deny that any mod by the initials MJ was a mod at d-m, which was patently false and proven to be false. You never acknowledged that the mod harassment occurred nor did you apologize for it, but literally everyone knows it happens and knows it was one of you.
lol “but they chose not to” no, they replied in a rude, dismissive and degrading manner which is completely outside of any “polite” or appropriate response to my post. They did reply, but they did it in a horrible way and while positioning themselves as an authority on lesbian sexuality and oppression despite not being a lesbian. This was never acknowledged as wrong, rude, improper, or appropriative, all of which it was, and I never received an apology for this behavior. That is discrimination, by the way.
You “concede your response was flawed”? Really? How about a damn apology for your disgusting lesbophobia? It wasn’t “flawed” it was HOMOPHOBIC. Trying to dodge that by saying it was “flawed” or, as is your usual stance, ignoring it altogether doesn’t change that.
And by the way, you don’t get to “only respond to what you personally had to do with”. As a mod of dear-monosexuals you represent all of dear-monosexuals. If dear-monosexuals posts homophobic and lesbophobic content, by standing by and doing nothing about it YOU ARE COMPLICIT IN AND A PARTICIPANT IN THAT HOMOPHOBIA AND LESBOPHOBIA and as such ARE a homophobe, even if you said nothing. In other words, the homophobic and lesbophobic content allowed and encouraged on dear-monosexuals makes every mod on dear-monosexuals a homophobe and a lesbophobe, even if they did not directly say the homophobic and lesbophobic things, because they allow and encourage them, let them stand, do nothing to stop it, and do not apologize for it. Period.
You are a homophobe because you enable, endorse and encourage homophobes. There’s no dodging that just because they weren’t your direct words.
As to the latter half of this post: Your blog (dear-monosexuals, which belongs to you and again, you are representative of that blog and that blog is representative of you as you are a mod with the ability to respond to, block, delete and apologize for posts that are bigoted and discriminatory) has posted endlessly about how “monosexuals” and specifically gays and lesbians “oppress” and discriminate against bisexuals, always stating or heavily implying that the discrimination only goes one way.
It’s not that you don’t “discuss” the discrimination gays and lesbians face from bisexuals, it’s that you deny its existence altogether. It’s that dear-monosexuals as a blog endorses, supports and perpetuates that discrimination. It’s that dear-monosexuals is actively a homophobic and lesbophobic blog that is unapologetic in its homophobia and deliberately gaslights, alienates and insults gay and lesbian people constantly, and refuses to listen when gay and lesbian people tell the mods that their words are homophobic.
Let me state again for the record that gay and lesbian people ARE the authorities on the oppression of gay and lesbian people, and when you fail to listen to us when we talk about our oppression, you are being homophobic and lesbophobic.
Dear-monosexuals as a blog has repeatedly talked over, degraded and flat-out ignored gay and lesbian people telling them when they are being homophobic and lesbophobic. That, in and of itself, makes dear-monosexuals a homophobic, lesbophobic blog, even without the countless incidents where they have been directly homophobic and lesbophobic in words and actions.
And just, to say it again, no one mod at dear-monosexuals gets to stand by and claim a “pass” on the blog’s homophobia and lesbophobia because “but I didn’t say it!!”. By being a mod at dear-monosexuals you are responsible for ALL of the blog’s content. By standing by and approving of homophobic and lesbophobic content, not saying anything, not deleting the posts and not apologizing to the people hurt by the blog’s homophobia and lesbophobia, you become complicit in it and are, thus, also a homophobe and lesbophobe, just like all the rest of the mods.
I will try to be civil for as much as I can. But I’m tired of this bullshit.
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