Tbh i actually have a q***r measuring stick that i use on every lgbt person and then i report them to the q***r police if i determine they aren't q***r enough, pls don't erase my experiences :/
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Tbh i actually have a q***r measuring stick that i use on every lgbt person and then i report them to the q***r police if i determine they aren't q***r enough, pls don't erase my experiences :/
doxx me I'm sorry
do people really tell people theyre not "queer enough".... like that claim seems so unfounded to me
no because being gay isn't a context and no actual gay people want to be "enough" of a slur
Gee, you'd think that if ppl hated 'monosexism' theory only because of "biphobic backlash", you'd be seeing that biphobic backlash from straight people, gay men, and lesbians alike. But actual critiques of 'monosexism' theory are pretty much only coming from lesbians and bi women in relationships with women. Hmmmm, there must be something else going on... ~i know! Lesbians are the most evil biphobes ever, and bi women dating women all must have internalized biphobia! It's the only explanation.~
you've cracked the code
im convinced that guy mod is secretly a 5 year old with a keyboard
ageist :/
This shit plays into the male agenda so hard. When will lesbians stop supporting the male agenda??
lesmeans love men
yeah no, grouping straight and gay people together as oppressors is still homophobic as fuck sry
I wouldn’t call gay or lesbian persons multisexual oppressors. That’s a stretch. I just believe, as per depictied in that chart and supported by our /tagged/statistics, there is a level of discrimination experienced by multisexuals at the hands of Straight, Gay and Lesbian people.
- Omari
So, I take it we’re just going to ignore the disgusting, huge amounts of homophobic and lesbophobic discrimination that gay and lesbian people experience at the hands of “multisexuals”? Like, I don’t know, all of your mods?
Like, for example, that time you agreed with someone saying that lesbians are “petty and dramatic” and “cry homophobia about everything that hurts their feelings”?
Or your mods who ruthlessly harassed multiple mentally ill lesbian women over a period of months? For which there was never any apology or accountability held whatsoever?
Or when one of your mods literally stated that they “can’t be homophobic” because “[their] best friend is a lesbian,” which is a pretty classically bullshit homophobic move?
What about the time you literally stated that you find gay and lesbian sex to be uniquely oppressive and disgusting to you, but stated that lesbians who don’t have sex (are asexual) aren’t as oppressive?
(How about the time you, mod Omari, reblogged my post saying it “deserved a good and respectful answer” and then sicced mod MT on it to basically tell me to fuck off and ascertain that she knows my oppression better than I, an actual lesbian does, because she “identified as a lesbian once”?)
Or what about the time a lesbian told you not to compare lesbian women to straight men, and your response was, literally, “deal with it, we’re gonna do it anyway”?
Or what about the multiple young lesbians (as young as fifteen) who have messaged you expressing that you make them feel unsafe, to which your response is always always always “we don’t give a fuck, we’re more important than your safety”?
Here’s a compilation post of just some of your bullshit!
If that isn’t discrimination against gay and lesbian people and perpetuation of DIRECT HARM towards us, I don’t fucking know what is.
I come bearing receipts, assholes. You’ve got a lot of nerve whining about “discrimination” from gays and lesbians when you’ve got all this bigoted mileage piling up.
What I stroke out was an unsubstantiated claim that we have already address and that I’m done discussing.
I can only speak on the bit involving me, so I shall:
The time I wanted a proper answer, I did not ‘sicc’ MT on your post. I expected them to reply, but they chose not to because we have previously addressed this and getting involved with that particular post would have been one of those posts you wind up always responding to. I will back MT up on that fully.
About the other response, I concede my response was flawed.
Now, I want to say that there is some discrimination from Multisexuals at gays and lesbians but i have never denied that. What I will say is that, bringing that up while we’re pointing out the discrimination we experience is bad.
“Why is that bad Omari? I’m just trying to bring up a good point and have it addressed!“
It is bad because of your timing. We cannot simultaneously focus on the little discrimination multisexuals do and deal with the discrimination we experience. So one of us has to be put on the back burner. I would love to discuss it, but I don’t want to discuss it when it will result in us being silenced.
I’m in a bit of a rush, so if I missed anything pertaining to myself, kindly message me and I’ll come back and respond as soon as I can.
Once more, thanks for not being rude. I know that we aren’t in agreement about a lot of things and it’s easy to be rude to people who you’re disagreeing with so I appreciate you being cordial once again.
- Omari
It is not an unsubstantiated claim. What you did was deny that any mod by the initials MJ was a mod at d-m, which was patently false and proven to be false. You never acknowledged that the mod harassment occurred nor did you apologize for it, but literally everyone knows it happens and knows it was one of you.
lol “but they chose not to” no, they replied in a rude, dismissive and degrading manner which is completely outside of any “polite” or appropriate response to my post. They did reply, but they did it in a horrible way and while positioning themselves as an authority on lesbian sexuality and oppression despite not being a lesbian. This was never acknowledged as wrong, rude, improper, or appropriative, all of which it was, and I never received an apology for this behavior. That is discrimination, by the way.
You “concede your response was flawed”? Really? How about a damn apology for your disgusting lesbophobia? It wasn’t “flawed” it was HOMOPHOBIC. Trying to dodge that by saying it was “flawed” or, as is your usual stance, ignoring it altogether doesn’t change that.
And by the way, you don’t get to “only respond to what you personally had to do with”. As a mod of dear-monosexuals you represent all of dear-monosexuals. If dear-monosexuals posts homophobic and lesbophobic content, by standing by and doing nothing about it YOU ARE COMPLICIT IN AND A PARTICIPANT IN THAT HOMOPHOBIA AND LESBOPHOBIA and as such ARE a homophobe, even if you said nothing. In other words, the homophobic and lesbophobic content allowed and encouraged on dear-monosexuals makes every mod on dear-monosexuals a homophobe and a lesbophobe, even if they did not directly say the homophobic and lesbophobic things, because they allow and encourage them, let them stand, do nothing to stop it, and do not apologize for it. Period.
You are a homophobe because you enable, endorse and encourage homophobes. There’s no dodging that just because they weren’t your direct words.
As to the latter half of this post: Your blog (dear-monosexuals, which belongs to you and again, you are representative of that blog and that blog is representative of you as you are a mod with the ability to respond to, block, delete and apologize for posts that are bigoted and discriminatory) has posted endlessly about how “monosexuals” and specifically gays and lesbians “oppress” and discriminate against bisexuals, always stating or heavily implying that the discrimination only goes one way.
It’s not that you don’t “discuss” the discrimination gays and lesbians face from bisexuals, it’s that you deny its existence altogether. It’s that dear-monosexuals as a blog endorses, supports and perpetuates that discrimination. It’s that dear-monosexuals is actively a homophobic and lesbophobic blog that is unapologetic in its homophobia and deliberately gaslights, alienates and insults gay and lesbian people constantly, and refuses to listen when gay and lesbian people tell the mods that their words are homophobic.
Let me state again for the record that gay and lesbian people ARE the authorities on the oppression of gay and lesbian people, and when you fail to listen to us when we talk about our oppression, you are being homophobic and lesbophobic.
Dear-monosexuals as a blog has repeatedly talked over, degraded and flat-out ignored gay and lesbian people telling them when they are being homophobic and lesbophobic. That, in and of itself, makes dear-monosexuals a homophobic, lesbophobic blog, even without the countless incidents where they have been directly homophobic and lesbophobic in words and actions.
And just, to say it again, no one mod at dear-monosexuals gets to stand by and claim a “pass” on the blog’s homophobia and lesbophobia because “but I didn’t say it!!”. By being a mod at dear-monosexuals you are responsible for ALL of the blog’s content. By standing by and approving of homophobic and lesbophobic content, not saying anything, not deleting the posts and not apologizing to the people hurt by the blog’s homophobia and lesbophobia, you become complicit in it and are, thus, also a homophobe and lesbophobe, just like all the rest of the mods.
I will try to be civil for as much as I can. But I’m tired of this bullshit.
i made a chart to help explain
is it okay to say I hope a lesbian gets hate crimed if she was mean to me once? - Mod MT
I blame gay people for my bad personality and the fact that I have no friends - every mod on dear-monosexuals
*gets called out on lesbophobia* "i dont hate lesbians!!! i love fucking them"
"Sappho was bi!!!" "lesbians and the gays (tm) want to call everyone gay... :/"
everyone is a little bisexual hon
*picture of some girl who is supposed to represent all lesbians with a strawman argument* those privilege denying lesbians, they're all so biphobic and sapphophobic, lesbian privilege is real. #LittleMonosexualThings
we love lesbians though
Now that shiri, the one who popularized monosexual theory with her shitty book, has proven to be a transmisogynist, maybe dear-monosexuals and their fans will start criticizing shiri instead of just criticizing lesbians who are all apparently transmisogynists? Oh but wait, dear-monosexuals uncritically reblogged the transmisogynistic post so I guess transmisogyny is perfectly okay from bi people!
bi people can't be transmisogynist, only lesbians
I made a chart to help.
we can't do anything wrong, one of our mods is a
Heterosexual
Dear monosexuals: "Bihet" is biphobic AND misogynist. There is NO SUCH FUCKING THING as a heterosexual relationship, especially not if one or more of the people in it isn't straight.