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ohhotdamn-whatahomo

“Fall in love with someone who already loves the parts of you, that you’re still struggling to love.”

— thetypewriterdaily (via wnq-writers)

wordsnquotes

“I love you. I am going to wait for you. Come back. Come back to me.”

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Atonement (2007) dir. Joe Wright

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yourbigsisnissi

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

unique-ones-enlightened

thesylverlining

I wish more people got this because some ‘low-empathy’ people are the most compassionate and sympathetic in the universe, and I hate it when that’s taken to mean ‘unfeeling and probably hostile’ when nothing could be further from the truth

quantum-jump

Or, as my dad put it,

Sympathy: I know how you feel Empathy: I feel how you feel Compassion: is there anything I can do to help?

paramourblessings

Sympathy: that sucks bro empathy: I feel that compassion: want me to send you some puppy and kitten pictures to make you feel better?

officialaudreykitching-deactiva

‪You don’t have to master your whole life right now. Just focus on the moment, focus on mastering today. Tomorrow you can focus on mastering tomorrow. You can’t cross a bridge that hasn’t even been built yet.‬