Deeliteful Simmer

Dee - They/Them - 44 -  Sims 4 Custom Content Creator - On hiatus until I’m not

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For the first time in my life EVER, I feel comfortable in my own skin and I’m really starting to understand and grasp who I am. I have never felt connected to my body in general. It felt off, like I didn’t want it or it wasn’t mine. It was a strange feeling my whole life to not know who/what I am. Like, for real, I could pinpoint 1 thing since I was a kid: I was broken. That’s all I could identify with up until a few months ago. Now I’m pretty sure it was because I’m a man stuck in this body and I just didn’t get it until recently. 

What a fuckin’ ride this is. Never thought I’d be questioning my gender at this point in my life.

P.S. I know this is a sims place, but I don’t really have anywhere else to post this and feel supported. So thanks for letting me get it out here!

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PSA

This is a reminder that you are worthy of taking up space. I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but hear it. You are very much needed here. Don’t forget that.

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My baby girl graduated from college today. She worked so hard, especially during the lockdowns and stuff, but also had to work 30 hours a week to survive. as her parent, the amount of pride I feel for her is immeasurable. As a fellow neurodivergent, I am inspired!

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Never thought I’d be grateful for PCOS, but I can grow a full ass beard without having to go on testosterone. Feeling a little blessed at the moment.

[jadedaceofspades]

US SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE IS CHANGING ITS NUMBER

Taking effect July 2022, the US Suicide Prevention Hotline will change from 800-273-8255 to the three digit code of 988. Especially with families and communities reeling from back to back tragedies, it is super important to share this information!

Repeat: Starting July 2022, the US Suicide Prevention Hotline will be 988

[gardenvarietydespair]

Important add-ons, though, as someone who’s done policy work on this: 

It’s July 16, not just the start of July.

988 can not only be used as the suicide hotline, but for any sort of mental health or substance use crisis situation. As opposed to 911, the goal of 988 is that when dispatch is necessary, you’ll be met with a trained crisis response team rather than the police. The police will only be involved if there is an immediate threat to safety, which has almost never occurred in pilot programs - in one of the most well-known, Denver STAR, (which a lot of y’all seem to be familiar with) the police has actually never been called for backup. We’re hoping that this is going to get more individuals directed towards help rather than a prison cell. 

Uhm yeah I’ll add more stuff if I can think of anything.

[jadedaceofspades]

Thank you for the added information. Reblog this version as well, folkz.

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This is super important. REBLOG!

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Happy Pride Month

Coming out today as nonbinary! Love you all!!!

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So...anyone remember that nurse practitioner that didn’t want to prescribe me a medication that I’ve become dependent on because it is literally almost identical to SSRI medications and I’ve been on FOR YEARS. It is a muscle relaxant and it is called Flexeril. I had a back injury that my doctor at the time prescribed me the medication but never took me off of it, and I haven’t had any doctors ask if I wanted to go off it. It does help me sleep because of the pain I have, but I don’t like being on it anymore because I think it’s fucking with my other psych meds.

Fast forward to the other day. I see her because for some reason my partner doesn’t care that she’s incompetent and has no idea what she’s doing. He asked me to go with him, and I told him I would go but I wasn’t sure I could hold my tongue if she was going to be shitty.

So we go in there, she’s cordial, whatever. My partner is having severe upper back pain. He has had horrible pain for years but no one wanted to help him because apparently he’s a drug addict for smoking weed in a legal state to help him with his pain because no one else would. Anyway, she decides to prescribe him a different muscle relaxant that isn’t super addictive. She then proceeds to tell him, not me, that Flexeril is highly addictive (note: NOT a class A drug), and the one time she saw someone using it they had a “mental breakdown” because she went off it. I asked her if she tapered it down for the woman and she didn’t respond. I told her the reason that poor woman went crazy is because you took her off a medication that ACTS AS AN SSRI and you can’t just go off it. She told me SHE DIDN’T CARE and that she would never prescribe it. She kept calling me an addict for continuing to take it.

Look, I have been on a LOT of SSRIs in my life, and I know when I just stop taking this med, I have severe withdrawal symptoms. The least thing she could have done was taper me off. Fortunately I have a different doctor now, who is helping me get off it because I don’t want to be on it anymore. 

So this nurse practitioner thinks she knows everything about psych meds, which she obviously has no clue about. I’m reporting her again to the board. I really don’t think this woman should be practicing medicine if she actively hates people with mental health issues and people who are addicted to substances (also a mental illness just fyi).

Thanks for listening if you got this far. Had to get it out somewhere.

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Can we PLEASE normalize mental illness and how it makes you behave in different situations???

I’m so sick of having to explain that I’m a fucking freak because I am burning with raging anger because of systematic oppression of everyone but white men.

Oh, and I’m Autistic, ADHD, BPD, and Bipolar Disorder.

FUCK OPPRESSION! FUCK THIS COUNTRY! EAT THE RICH!

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Remember follower’s gifts? Miss being a part of that for people.

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AllyssUndone - Twitch

AllyssUndone - Twitch

Playing some Call of Duty if anyone is interested:)

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Being neurodivergent is hard.

[yukika-archive-deactivated20240]

wow okay so depp's psychologist or whatever said that "bpd is a common factor in women who physically abuse their partners" and none of y'all are blinking an eye at that...... LMFAO

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i hope every depp supporter gets their teeth knocked out

[yukika-archive-deactivated20240]

wait so lemme get this straight... this bitch was hired BY DEPP to evaluate amber. after TWELVE HOURS she came to the conclusion that amber has borderline personality disorder. and then of course goes on to say that in her professional experience or whatever, women with bpd are basically known to be abusers.

are y'all seeing this shit???

[yukika-archive-deactivated20240]

on top of that she also diagnosed her with histrionic personality disorder. so this psychologist (HIRED BY DEPP WHO HAS HAD DINNER AT HIS HOUSE) talks with amber for TWELVE HOURS across TWO DAYS, diagnoses her with bpd (making her an "abuser") and hpd (making her "attention-seeking") and no one thinks this is a little weird. a little odd. a little bit of a setup?

[yukika-archive-deactivated20240]

but amber's psychologist who worked with her all the way back in 2019 is a sham apparently. amber is faking ptsd as a bisexual victim of abuse from MULTIPLE different people in her life but this clown hired by her abuser can diagnose her with bpd and hpd in less than a day. i fucking hate y'all.

[deelitefulsimmer]

If this shocks you, it shouldn’t. This goes on every single day to women everywhere. We are seen as the issue, but this has been going on since the beginning of time. Men always win over women, and when they lose, its all the fault of a woman/women. This will never change, I’m afraid.

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I’ll have had this simblr for 7 years in August. Crazy how time flies when you’re not looking.

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There is so much cute alpha cc, but I have been so steadfast on only using mm cc for so long that if I wanted to switch it would take me a year just to replace it all with alpha cc. 

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As alpha as I get

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do you know who the creator was that said that late stage capitalism is caused by neoliberalism? i want to make sure i'm not supporting them

bisexual-flareon but really anyone who says shit like this has no idea what they're talking about.