Relationship between you and your spouse
This post describes how the relationship is when it’s just you guys. The dynamic. What it will be like..🌺
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Check sign/Planets in 8th house of sidereal/vedic and sign of 8th ruler.
The relationship is going to be fun and playful for you both. There’s going to be a lot of teasing and playful banters involved too. May fight often or have conflicting opinions too. Both of you maybe be particularly fussy of your own opinions and hence arguments are very likely. However this can lead to make up sex later on. Either of you may even just do or say the exact opposite of what other is saying just to instigate them or tease them. I see a lot of running around after each other, sarcastic comments, in playful hitting, tickle fights, pranks, taking many adventures together, playing video games, ego clashes when both of you are not speaking to each other and would expect the other to come to them, (sun is exalted in Aries). Funny thing is directness is appreciated but won’t bow first. Protective over each other, supportive, possessive, gets confidence from each other. Aggressive kissing, unexpected kisses. Tugging one hand around other’s arm in public or pull them closer. Sexual tension will be high, bunnies. laughing between the s🔥x. Wrapping around each other, legs over legs. Difficult to keep hands off each other. Acting sexy when other is working to entice. Shoving against the wall. Neck kisses. Shower sex. Water fights. Standing on the balcony in duvets looking over the sunset. Clingy, always touching each other, mocking each other, making weird faces at each other. There maybe power struggle, finding a balance for both is important. Physical touch is very significant here. Butt grabbing, picking other up and getting it on on the kitchen counter. Playful dynamic overall.
Relationship is likely to be calm and consistent. Silence doesn’t feel awkward kind. I see a lot of chilling happening at home, wine bottles, slow dancing, playing games. Cooking together, indulging in own work at home without any hard feelings of not getting attention from other, calm and indie music playing in the background. Cigarettes on the balcony. Often dine out at favorite restaurants in sweats. Dresses up to eat at fancy places too. Confidant of each other. Giving each other advices or helping them out. Though stubborn, conflicts from both sides, won’t be too loud but will stick to own ground. Meeting in the kitchen, after a day or two of fighting and not talking, cuz you guys were hungry and end up eating the Nutella jar together later or ordering something in. Bringing in sweets, chocolates and pastries or any food item to make up after one is upset. Enthusiastic foodies. Kind to tell other to make the morning coffee, or to open the door. Junk food eating together is going to be a thing. Acts of service, receiving and giving gifts. Strong trust between two. Talking about work stress and finding solutions together, looking at house furnitures guides and catalogues often between work and sending each other images when not together even though you don’t really need it. Use of food in sex. Unexpected sexual urges. Suprising each other with enticing gifts. Satin dresses, handcuffs. Chocolate syrup, strawberries. One second you be cooking and next something else is cooking. Back hugs. Can get too vanilla at times, mundane lives as well, so try to keep fire alive. Chill dynamic overall.
Again very childlike and fun. Though major emphasis is on communication, you guys will talk a lot, figure out solutions together, communicate and bounce off ideas of each other. Make each other laugh a lot. I see literally lying on bed whole day and laughing and just talking about literally anything. Sarcasm and inside jokes. Best friend turned lovers. Experimental with sex, although either one may have a nervous energy surrounding it. Discussing conspiracy theories late at night and finding truths. And random rush of need to watch documentaries late at night. Waking up the other cuz your mind be buzzing and other one doesn’t mind but actually indulge with you. Drinking coffee together late at night. Reading books, silent rooms. A lot of hand holding and two crazy people playing with shopping carts in the store. Banters, laughter and at random things, and wit, conflicts can be childlike with sarcasm and mocking tones. Can be irritated with each other, and not talk for a day and then curl up in the blanket together at night cuz you missed them. Conflicts can be something which can also bring ego and pride for both and hurt emotions caused by each other’s words, that’s something to be worked upon. Words of affirmation, physical touch. Helping each other learn the value of communication and clarity. Best friends dynamic.
Nurturing towards each other. Either one stresses out other one would immediately start thinking of ways to make them less stressed. Cooking for the other. Sometimes together. Covers the other with a blanket. Carrying to the bed when one fall asleep on the couch. Watching romcoms together. Talking to each other about each other’s families, helping each other with family stuff, visiting each other’s home town, offering to take each other families to doctor’s appointment or any other kind, organizing family dinners often. Slow dancing with one’s head on other’s chest. Soft kisses leading to intense eye stares and then shifting it to the bedroom 🔥. Starting off slow and sensual then it gets real passionate. Fireplaces. Cuddles later, playing with each other’s hair. Forehead kisses. Scolding each other for slightest of dangerous stunt other might pull. Words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/recieving. Needy and clingy with each other, tugging on each other’s sweaters. Conflicts can get emotional too soon, easy crying, both can actually end up crying, hurt emotions, that’s something to be balanced. Feeling lack of affection. Healing own childhood trauma with partner. Caressing, feeling comfort and safe and secure and finally at home with partner. Feeling most happy in each other’s company, smiling at other at end of long day. Long hugs. Each other’s home feeling/dynamic.
This is going to involve romantic gestures, date nights. Protective over each other, supporting each other. Taking stands for the other even at slightest of offensive comment from external source. Controlling at times. Date nights even after 50 years of marriage. Telling each other cheesy jokes to make other laugh. Reminiscing initial days of relationship while watching old photos/videos. Casual impromptu couple dance in rain. Painting house together, getting possessive over each other. Jealousy is gonna be real here, even with friends. Want all the attention and love and care of other, not sharing each other one bit. Childlike, hopeless romantics. Suprising the other by setting the mood for spicy deeds when other comes back from work, loose tie. Candles, chocolates, sweaty, satin robe, white duvets, Cuddle sessions later, no fixed big or small spoon here btw. Inside jokes, sarcasm, playful banters. Possessive ness and jealousy comes from insecurity or wanting all of other, lacks practicality and groundedness sometimes. Clingy often. Feeling of belonging ness. Quality time, grand gestures, physical touch, words of affirmation. Making each other Spotify playlist when away from each other. Matching outfits. Serenading each other. Both will help each other be open to learning to love and accept love and help in creativity. Teenage love vibe.
I think both of you will try to be there for each other as much as possible, acts of service is going to be so important. Cooking together, listening and bonding over music, just sitting sharing headphones is going to be your thing. Can be muses to each other. Maybe adopting/getting a pet would a thing with you guys. Walking, comfortable silences, holding hands. Park dates, picnics, nature walks. Hand involvement in sex too.(Use your mind, I know you will get what I mean). Laying and watching stars together, silent hand grabbing, discussing family, insecurities, victories, joys, burdens, friends, theories, politics. Doing chores together, sticking awfully close to each other in public(it doesn’t even seem weird to you and cute to others) like protecting or shielding the other or just for security, complaints and nagging. Nitpicking habits has to be controlled, relationship insecurities can arise. Has to be checked as well. Writing love notes. Acts of service, physical touch. Sharing music, discover about each other pasts late at night, lying on your stomach facing each other and just talking, cat or dog at the foot of the bed curled up, gym buddies, couples’ yoga, nervousness around sex sometimes, using sex to release stress, bunnies, flexible, weird postions. Running in the rain and dancing, might cry when stared at for too long cuz supressed emotions/insecurities come up, might shy away when one is looking or staring. Watching random environmental documentaries late at night and deciding to visit the vegan store next morning. Acting goofy out of the blue to release other’s stress and giggling together. Both will help each other with routine, stability and insecurities. Searching each other in the crowd and make eye contact feeling/dynamic.
Romance is just flowing here, maybe sometimes too much. Striving for balance and equality. Running home or thinking of the spouse first thing when you get a good news, or can’t wait to tell your partner the gossip about the co worker both dislikes. Getting affected by other person’s mood, internalizing each other’s stress, helping and providing solutions to over come them. Date nights, gentle romantic gestures, soft kissing on the lips, slow random dancing. Gift giving/receiving, quality time. Taking out time out of busy schedules to spend time together. Jealousy, waist grabbing in public, kind to shove the other against the wall when things are heating up, and look at the lips and bam. 🔥. Serious foreplay effort, booking hotel reservations to spice things up, role-playing, meeting at bars as strangers. Kissing on forehead when other is sleeping, putting blanket over the other, watching other sleep, fondly looking when one isn’t looking. Staring at the other and shies away at eye contact. Baking together, shopping together, matching outfits, gifting each other perfumes that makes you think of them. Planning romantic getaways often. Both will learn to balance each other’s personalities and behaviour together. Two peas in a pod. Similiar yet different.
Relationship is going to be full of emotion and love. Having a sense of possessive ness and belonging ness with each other. Thinking about each other when one is not around. Lots of cuddle, staring at each other, comfortable silences, impromptu slow dancing at 2 in the morning. Can get clingy with each other, sitting on each other laps especially anytime is working or even during video games too, sleeping off on the couch. Waist grabbing, pinning up against the wall or down on bed. Controlling can be an issue here, where either one can get a little to attached. A lot of insecurity and past hurt sharing is gonna come up often and other would be empathizing ,hugging and rubbing back when one is crying. Be in for long hugs. Relationship where you ll be just want to provide the other with whatever they want or crave, random food cravings, done, random long drives done, spontaneous trips done. Booking places for graves together in cemetery. Waking up together late if either is stressed or anxious, kind to fulfill partners every desire even if it’s mint choco chip ice cream at 4 in the morning, shoving the other in the inside of footpath/sideroad and away from road cuz even the slight of danger is horror. Hating on each other exes, staring the fck out of someone just for looking at your partner. Finding new things about each other every time you talk, and be amazed how less you know of each other. Continue to surprise each other. Helping each other be more open and be open to be vulnerable, help each other with trust and commitment issues. Physical touch and quality time. Just want to protect the other kind of love.
A very calm and heavy on discussions and ideas to be bouncing of off each other. Planning random getaways at 3 in the morning. Best friends. Confidants. Maturely handles conflicts, both will have strong opinions or not back off easy, but being a mutable adjusts easily. Travelling is a really go to activity. Reading together, silences. Giving each other looks when someone else says anything dumb or inappropriate. At home date nights, amusement parks, movie nights, Netflix rituals. I see a lot of learning for both of you, from each other and as a couple. You may take part religious activities together or learn the significance or indulge together. May take up meditation or yoga as well. Surprising with spontaneous trips. Banters, jokes, witty remarks. Role-playing, meeting at bars. Planning to check off bucket list goals at 3 in the morning and adding new to as couple bucket list. Piggy back rides, bicycle race, Bike travelling, skinny dipping in the middle of the lake with security just few metres away. Baking each other with make up as well, or self care routines. Having a own personal party of two dancing to edm or club music ofc at a reasonable hour. Also the kind to put headphones on separately and just dance together to own music. Acting goofy anytime anywhere and other laughing. Looking fondly at the other, and when the other person also makes eye contact both end up making a wierd face and end up laughing. Quality time, words of affirmation, gift giving and receiving. Unexpectedly wearing matching outfits. Aggressive cheek kisses. Butt grabbing. Things heated on the Kitchen counter. “Where were you all my life” love.
The relationship will be stable and comfortable for both, very self oriented and yet together. Nurturing and caring towards each other, may or may not be as open with the love like to the point it’s obvious but mostly through actions. So gift giving and acts of service is going to be major here. Both of you are comfortable with each other even in awkwardness and handle conflicts maturely. Either or both will have a lot of say in each other doings so micromanaging has to be something you should be concerned for. Yet I see both of you some very loving and kind gestures for each other or caring for the other and other has no clue of it. Sacrificing little things just for the other out of love and other not knowing. Keeping tracks of each other favorite things and suprising them with it. Type of love that’s sensual and accepting. Hand holding, back rubs. Long hugs as a way of comforting when either is stressed. Either may feel shy and awkward at first or sometimes feel other is more experienced than the other and can cause some insecurities, which has to be talked about. Sharing family inflicted trauma or family history late at night out of the blue and other empathazing, making eye contacts together and keeping the stare intact without awkwardness. Scolding the other for doing something harmful or dangerous to self even unintentionally. Fancy vacations, expensive gifts. Each one doing its own thing yet other doesn’t feel insecure or lack of attention. Independent yet in union. 🔥 Sex, experimental, slow initially maybe vanilla cuz of not wanting to force on other but as they adjust and adapt things get heated too fast too often, may even have to run out of social obligations/events cuz other one was literally too sexy to handle. Trying to entice other while other is working. Learn stability, being in union and responsibility with each other, how to let go of control and be vulnerable. “ In it for the good and the bad or none at all”
Build on some common ground and interest. Taking up many activities together or adapting to each other’s hobbies and actively participating in them or atleast try to. Although both will have their unique and separate hobbies which they ll be enjoying on their own without other feeling lack of attention. Tbh I see both of the tech human sitting and coding all day and weekend, occasionally either one gets up to make coffee or what not. At times may even skip a meal and later only realises when sun has set, and then make ramen or order in something. Very chill and free dynamic, no as such sense of control and and possessiveness yet also comes with lack of apparent affection one might crave, at times I think communication can create misunderstandings for both creating awkwardness, which shall be address and faced head on than shied away from. There may be feeling of not being understood at times but also like it’s your best friend whom you dearly love, lil awkward but yours. In between work glancing each other lovingly and smiling and then getting back to work. Video games, late night talks, late night walks, stubborn opinionated people arguing. Skinny dipping in the lake when it’s prohibited and security at few distance away. Spray painting graffiti on wall, and running away and hiding in an alley, laughing. Playful hitting, running after each other. Long drives, eating drive thu in parking lots jamming to their songs. Learn responsibility and independence from each other, being in union yet having own goals to be achieved, having a sense of self. Communication is going to important, cuz misunderstandings can arise. Either may feel detachment or feel other is detached or lack of affection maybe an issue, yet neither should be coerced into doing something. Any matter must be resolved patiently. Ego clashes and loud arguments cuz opinionated. Might help each other see things in broader perspective and influence social views. Can take social causes together and work with charities. Adopting a pet together. Partners in crime.
Emotionally dominant. In tune with each other or just know what other wants or is feeling. Intuitively connected. Imagine the scene when one is thinking of the other and in that moment your phone beeps with a call or message from the other. Pursue a lot of creative endeavours together, act as muse to each other if either does something artistic. Exchanging new music and waiting to get home to tell the other about the new album they discovered in the bus on their way to work. Sending cute animal pictures to each other when not together. Actively trying to partake interest in each other hobbies and passions, watching movies and shows like a ritual, or following up episodes together, park dates, picnics, flowers, candles. Midnight movie marathons, cafe dates, long drives, discussing long trips, many travel plans, looking up hotels in a totally different continent at 3 in the morning because other saw a travel post on instagram, only to realise it’s not feasible and sleep cuddled up. Blanket forts. Bonfires, fireplace. 🔥. Make up sex, crying in sex. Taking each other’s random photos without other knowing. Wrapping self around the other, cuddles, white duvets, mood set for foreplay. Sacrificing little things for the other and other getting mad for doing this for them. Back massages, quality time, physical touch. Shower sex. Baking together, flour fight. Taking spiritual practices together, may influence religious or spiritual beliefs of each other, talking about childhood, insecurities, dark secrets, comfort hugs and back rubs. Back hugs, nose kisses. Giving or leaving each other flowers. Soulmates dynamic.
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