Deepest delulu

Online diary / Professional over thinker and romanticizer

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Masterlist

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♡ Daily life:

Little things I love from daily life

What to do after a long week

30 things to make life unforgettable

Evening routine ideas

Summer movie watch list

Lonely girl boredom cures

Weekly self-care checklist

30 things to fill your life with

Girlhood things that I love

More girlhood things that I love

December and Christmas essentials

My Christmas movie watch list

A cosy guide to a cosy December

Autumn bucket list

Girly comfort movies

The perfect November sunday

Little things to look forward this winter

Little things to upgrade your morning routine

Small things that changed my life

30 things to alone during Christmas

Winter bucket list

How to touch some grass

♡ Mindset:

Be the girl you dreamed of when you were young

Embrace your lonliness

Things to do before doing something stupid

How to brain dump like a pro

Energy givers Vs energy takers

Little things to be more charming

Little things to feel softer

Learning to love yourself

How to be more organised

10 tips for casual elegance

Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat

How to make someone feel loved

Morning affirmations

How I grow up my hair to hip length

8 rules for self-respect

A happier life in 2025

How to stop comparing yourself

Little things to feel more girly

How to be confident

Getting in touch with your feminine energy

Ins and outs for 2025

♡ Academics:

Start journaling with this simple questions

Romanticizing school

How to study like Rory Gilmore

How to study like Paris Geller

Essentials for a cosy study day

How to get out of a reading slump

5 classics for my girlies

dreamy quotes to live by

Becoming better student

Becoming more productive

How to master public speaking

♡ My girls:

How to compliment and be complimented

Love ya🪷

Be the girl you wanted to be

Winter stuff ❄️

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Love yaa

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Ins and outs for 2025 ♡*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛

Ins

Blocking people

Gossip (only confirmed)

Writing letters

3am bedroom dance parties

Dressing like a victorian child

Conscious consumption of media

Not having a drivers license

Messy journals

Sugar free

Being whimsical

Cannibalism as a metaphor for love

Alyosha Karamazov

Embracing your natural hair color

Fundraising events

Yearning

Breakfast in bed

Outs

Dating

Nihilism

Soda (diet soda included)

Shopping addictions

Trend forecasting

Sun exposure (Vampire era)

Cheap people

Artificial intelligence

Stem and business majors

Lipliners

Lamenting

Oatmeals (yoghurt is in)

Eyelash extensions

House champagne (always out)

PayPal

To-do lists

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Getting in touch with your Feminine-Energy

Today we will discuss how to get in touch with your feminine energy. Fully connecting to yourself might take a while, but it will be worth it. <3

Setting clear boundaries. You don't have to let people be all up in your business if you don't want to! "I'm sure you can respect that" is a great line to use.

Meditation and visualization. This kind of goes into manifesting; visualize the life and the person you want to be and have.

Keep your space clean. You can also decorate with things you love!

Slow down. You got time! Don't let society tell you that you must have it all figured out before even graduating from university.

Journaling, reading, writing. Keep your head clear, write down your thoughts and treat your brain to a good book. <3

Don't suppress your emotions. It's okay to feel. If you're sad? Cry. If you're happy? Smile. Don't push it away.

Pay attention. Keep an eye on the people surrounding you, and catch the little things most people miss.

Being thankful and expressing gratitude. It makes you happier. Trust me. :)

Investing in yourself. This could be anything, time, money, or materialistic things. You deserve it.

Showing up as who you want to be. Fake it until you make it. ;)

Surround yourself with people who respect you. You won't get far on this journey if the people around you drag you down. Cut out toxic people if you can. <3

Focus on your education. Whether you're in school or not, try learning as much as you can. Read, learn a new language, focus on your studies...

Nourish your body properly. Take care of yourself.

Stay out of unnecessary drama. Don't waste your energy if it doesn't involve you or your friends.

Don't overthink. If you can't fix it, you might as well stop thinking about it.

Let the past go. Focus on the present and future because that's what you have control over.

Explore your style. Stop following trends and start dressing the ways you really want to. Express yourself!

Don't compare yourself to others. You literally gain nothing from it.

Learn to say no! Self-respect!

Be kind. Being kind feels so much better.

Allow yourself to be confident. This is a big one; you need to see your potential. Don't hold yourself back! <3

As always, feel free to add something positive in the comments, but if you don’t have anything nice to say, please keep it to yourself. I hope you have a beautiful day! :)

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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I HATE OVER SHARING. Like wtf happens with you? I talk and I listen, BUT NO ONE LISTENS TO ME. I try to understand you, help you and everything but why when things turn and I am the one who has to be listened you are NEVER there as a support for me?

This is so upsetting, I'm going to stop talking, sending audios to my friends and sharing my opinion.

I'll only focus on my studies, Tumblr and me. And if there is a friend who wants to tell me something she better make new friends.

Es que ya no puedo mas, dios no las soporto.

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How to be confident part 2

Be proud of your achievements.

No more people pleasing. Something I had to learn is that you don't have to be everyone's darling.

Get out of your comfort zone. Get a coffee and chat with the barista, go to a concert alone, try a new hobby and so on :)

Talk politely and expand your vocabulary. Reading and writing can help a lot!

Start journaling. Vent when you need to, it doesn't have to be pretty or aesthetic; clean your mind.

Watch your body language. Stand up straight, don't slouch, walk with purpose, and don't hide your hands.

Don't be afraid to ask questions.

Stop chasing people. The ones meant to stay in your life will remain with you. Sometimes we need to distance ourselves from people so we can grow! :)

Moisturized. I get nervous when my lips and hands are dry!

Keep your standards high. This applies to friendships, dating, grades, pretty much anything. Self-respect!!

Don't let people interrupt you!!

Start each day with a positive mindset. Get up in the morning with purpose and try to make the best out of any day. <3

Be on time. Coming late to something important is always a bit awkward.

Use fewer filler words when speaking. Uhm, just, like, I think, etc. Don't be afraid to slow down and think about what you want to say. Take your time!

Don't chase anyone's validation. Instead, do things for yourself and make yourself proud.

Unfollow people on social media that make you feel bad about yourself.

Be kind. I see people on TikTok all the time being rude and mean to appear confident. Let's be honest, they look quite silly, lol.

Have a signature scent! I like something that gives me comfort and helps me stay calm. My fav is vanilla. <3

Don't look at your phone when entering a room or going somewhere. Instead, try being as present as possible, or at least look like you are, lol.

Take care of your appearance. Whatever feels good to you, maybe get a lash lift, find makeup that works for you, clean nails, wear something you like...

Don't tell everyone your insecurities. Putting yourself down is not a good conversation topic.

Make time for yourself. Relax, recharge and focus on yourself. <3

Confidence is a huge deal, so if you have any questions feel free to ask them in the comments or my 'ask me anything'. I will also make a post soon on how to improve your public speaking! <3

I also plan on going through my asks Tomorrow (Sunday), so if you have anything you would like to share or need advice on, just submit it to the link above (the ask on, haha) <33

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How to be confident

Confidence can get you incredibly far in life and make everything a lot easier; I consider myself a really confident person, so here are a few tips that might help you get there! <3

Eliminate toxic people. I don't care if it's your best friend, boyfriend, or mom; if they are stopping you from being the best version of yourself, it's time to say goodbye.

Fix your posture! Confident people have good fucking posture, and sweety, I just know your posture is not it rn, so please straighten that back.

Do what makes you happy. Who cares what people have to say about it? If it's good for you, do it.

Tell yourself you're that girl. Nobody will believe it if you don't do it, so hype yourself up!

Practice eye contact. I can just tell someone is confident if they can look me in the eyes while having a conversation. It seems much harder than it actually is; pick one of their eyes and just focus on it while you talk.

Speak with tone and expression. Talking in a quiet and monotone manner doesn't necessarily make you look insecure, but talking with expression just sounds more confident.

Make your hand visible. When you hide your hands, it makes you look insecure and uncomfortable.

Mind your own business. This one is really simple; I don't think I have to explain, lmao.

Don't tell people your insecurities because 99% of the time, they didn't notice them before you pointed them out.

Accept compliments. If someone says you look good, don't be like, "oh nooo, I look AWFUL" just say thank you and accept the compliment :)

Stop over-apologizing.  Only say it if you actually did something bad or feel sorry.

Visualize the person you want to be. It's pretty simple, think about who you want to be, then think about how that person acts, their routine, how they talk, etc., and slowly start adapting those habits.

Don't be nervous to ask for help. Instead, change your mindset; people want to help you!

Authenticity radiates, be true to yourself, and you will attract good people like a magnet.

No one is out of your league if you act like it. This entire 'league' thing is made up, so don't put yourself in a box.

Trust yourself. You have a bad feeling; you know it and act on it. If you feel like something is not right, it's probably not. Trust yourself.

Stay calm under pressure. It's crucial to not freak out under pressure; even if you do, try acting as if everything is under control.

When entering a room, don't be on your phone. Look around, introduce yourself, greet people, etc.

smile more :)

walk like you know where you're going, even if you don't lol.

Live for yourself. Constantly work on not caring what other people think. If you like it, you post it. If you want to go there, go. If you like that outfit, wear it. Make decisions for yourself, not for others to validate you. It's your world, and every decision you make is because you want to make it yourself!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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How to touch some grass

A guide for chronically online girlies who spend every second of their life scrolling through Tumblr. (no front, I love you <3)

Go on a walk. Fresh air, baby!

Lay in the sun. Or in the rain, since it's autumn.

Read a book. Only if you are able to with your goldfish TikTok attention span, lol. <3

Draw Something. I challenge you to draw a cat.

Try learning a new language. A date with the Duolingo bird.

Go to the theatre alone. Sit in one of those couple seats and stare at the cringy couples while eating popcorn; ignore the movie lmao.

Clean your room. Or reorganize it!

Climb a tree. At your own risk.

Make yourself some tea. Maybe host a tea party!

Try a new hairstyle. I've been trying those low space buns jk?

Bake a cake. Like a fancy and cool one!

Throw your phone into a lake and try to find it. :)

Workout or do yoga. Pilates can be fun too.

Try making friends in irl. This is a tough one, I'm sorry. <3

Paint your nails. Mine are black rn!

Start planning your birthday. Or write your Christmas wishlist.

Go get a coffee. Make your way to your local cafe and try something new! <3

Try learning how to crochet. I've been crocheting makeup bags, lmao.

Do your skincare routine. Do a face mask, and take time for yourself. <3

Make a smoothie. I'll give you a recipe... Banana, raspberries, strawberries, yoghurt for protein, your milk of choice and some coconut flakes as a topping!

Do your homework. So you can be lazy without feeling guilty.

Water your plants. They did nothing wrong... come on.. :(

Go to Ikea. Who doesn't love IKEA?? (not sponsored, lol)

Don't judge me, I wrote this at 3am, and I have the flu. It was fun tho haha.

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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Winter bucket list ❄️

Making a cute chocolate station. Look for inspo on Pinterest.

Try new coffee recipes. Like adding cinnamon or syrups.

Plan your holiday outfits. Plan ahead to reduce stress! :)

Go ice skating. Maybe go with some friends!

Bake some Christmas cookies. Come up with cute designs to decorate them! <3

Decorate your room. I'm going for a Pink, White, and Gold theme again.

Get a cute winter manicure. Maybe some snowflakes and glitter!

Buy a Christmas-scented candle. My favourites are Yankees!

Spend an evening reading poetry books. Cuddled up in a fluffy blanket in front of the fireplace...

Make a snow angel. And take a picture of it!

None stop listening to Christmas music. I do it every year...

Write letters to your loved ones. Maybe to your friends who live far away! <3

Go see the Nutcracker. One of my winter traditions! :)

Host a Hot Chocolate get-together. You can also play some card or board games. <3

Have a  Christmas movie marathon. No explanation needed. Essential.

Donate clothes, toys, and money to charity.

Visit a Christmas market. I love Christmas markets <3

Go gift shopping. Start early, so you don't get stressed.

Do some volunteer work. Maybe at a shelter! :)

Go for long walks in the snow. Cuddled up in a warm, large scarf...

Try knitting a chunky sweater. Take the challenge, haha.

Take a candlelight bubble bath. You can also read a book to relax even further.

Buy some adorable earmuffs. Totally in and super cute!

Practice making pretty and fancy bows. I see gift wrapping as competition; fancy bows Always get bonus points!

Host a gingerbread house competition. Fun and also a bit messy, haha.

Review your 2024 goals and make a 2025 vision board.

I hope everyone has been feeling well, and I wish all of you a beautiful Christmas time! Spread some love and positivity <33

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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How to master public speaking

Confidence can be learned. Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone starts somewhere; you just need to gain experience and get comfortable. <3

Prepare in time. To reduce stress and anxiety, start learning, researching, and practising early!

Note cards. Make yourself note cards to help you stay structured and focused. Use bullet points instead of full sentences to make your speech more fluent and natural.

Properly research your topic. Questions are only scary if you don't know the answers; try learning as much about it as possible!

Practice your speaking, present your subject to a friend or family member who knows nothing about the topic, and let them ask questions, so you know where to improve.

Have a friend sitting in the back of the room; focus on them when nervous and tell them to signal to you when you have to speak louder. Like a small hand sign!

Posture. Stand up straight, don't hide your hands.

Ask for advice. Look for someone who you can learn from, annoy them with your questions, ask them to proofread your work and ask for guidance.

Don't chew gum. Obviously.

Mindset. Everyone is feeling the same way, people want to listen to you, people want to help you, you can do this. Positive affirmations!! <3

Once you get in the flow, it will get easier. Going to the front and having everyone looking at you can be scary, but once you start speaking, it will immediately get better!

Calming down. Try not to overthink it.

Eye contact. look around while speaking, if you can't look people in the eyes, try looking at people's hair. Fake it until you make it.

Use your hands to be more engaging! Don't stiffen up, you can also walk around the room to seem more relaxed.

If it's a PowerPoint, add pictures to make people pay attention. It will also get the attention of you if that is something that makes you nervous!

Speak formally, don't use curse or slang words.

Prepare for potential questions. You can also plan questions with your friends that they can ask you! teamwork, haha.

It will be over before you know.

Getting used to presenting your work takes time, with every time you do it, it will get a little bit easier. I promise. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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Little things to feel more girly

Buy yourself some cute loungewear, so you feel pretty even when at home. <3

Have a light, signature scent that you can wear all the time!

Make a playlist of songs that make you feel confident, and play it in the background when doing things at home.

Genuine kindness and good thoughts will shine through your face, giving you a loving and welcoming aura.

Having fancy tea parties and overdressing with your friends for fun.

Try exercises that help improve your posture! Especially if you sit for many hours a day, try some yoga or pilates.

Have weekly self-care days, do extended skincare, face mask, take a long bubble bath, and do your hair.

Trim your hair regularly so it stays soft and silky. <3

Buy a big, fluffy scarf to keep you warm in winter!

Write letters to your friends and decorate them with hearts and doodles.

Dress to impress... Yourself!!

Buy clothes that make you feel pretty even if you're just going for a walk, to the grocery store or to sleep. You deserve to feel beautiful.

Make sure to eat balanced meals, so you glow from the inside. :)

Find a make-up routine that works for you and makes you feel beautiful. I'm really liking the heavy blush!!

Surround yourself with pretty things. Buy yourself some flowers, look for adorable decor, print out pictures you like and make your space comfy.

Find a proper morning/night routine that works for you! Little self-care rituals to make you feel better <3

Going for long dreamy walks to clear your head and reconnect with nature.

Look for pretty jewellery when going on trips or vacations, keep them as a reminder of your time there and collect truly meaningful pieces. <3

Find things you love doing in your free time instead of mindlessly scrolling online. Something engaging but also relaxing!

Cuddling up in a big fuzzy blanket, reading a book and listening to soft piano music.

Complement people if you notice something about them that you like, it might make their day!

Keep your lips and hands moisturized.

Don't speak badly of yourself.

Bake cute cookies and decorate them as a surprise for your friends and loved ones.

Say 'I love you' to the moon and stars before going to sleep. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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30 things to do alone during Christmas

Bake some adorable Christmas cookies.

Decorate your space and make everything cosy.

Buy some cute Christmas-scented candles.

Make yourself some delicious hot Chocolate.

Make a new Christmas playlist.

Have a Christmas movie marathon.

Try ice skating.

Make a Christmas-themed charcuterie board.

Go on long snowy walks.

Christmas shopping at lush for some snow fairy stuff.

Go to watch a ballet and dress up super fancy.

Make time for a cosy breakfast at home.

Walk around the city to see the Christmas lights.

Write a letter to your future self.

Buy an ugly Christmas sweater for yourself.

Get a cute Christmas manicure.

Clean your space so it's nice for the holidays.

Diy some Christmas Decor.

Make a Vision Board for 2025.

Have a whole day dedicated to self-care.

Decorate a gingerbread House.

Read some classical Christmas stories.

Visite Christmas market.

Watch all the Barbie Christmas movies.

Cook your favourite meal or go to your favourite restaurant.

Write down your goals for the new year.

Buy a Christmas tree and spend an evening decorating it.

Treat yourself to something that you've been wanting for a while.

Listen to cheesy Christmas music.

Buy some comfy fuzzy socks.

Christmas is coming and even when alone you should try to have a good time!! Take yourself on some cosy dates, treat yourself, and take it easy, don't feel awkward about enjoying things alone!! <3

As always please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!! Wishing everyone a beautiful Christmas time  <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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How to stop comparing yourself

Comparison kills self-esteem, Personality, happiness, and confidence. It wastes your potential and precious time. If you want 2025 to be your year of growth, you've got to stop comparing yourself to others and start fully focusing on yourself; let me show you how!! <3

Appreciate what you have, where you are in life and what you've accomplished. Focus on your own path and growth and acknowledge how far you've already come. <3

Growth isn't linear, be patient and enjoy the journey!

Aim to become a more appreciative person, remind yourself daily of the beautiful elements of your life and learn to appreciate the smaller things.

Other people's achievements don't undermine yours.

Be mindful of the content you consume online. Unfollow people who make you feel bad about yourself; instead, find people who uplift and motivate you to grow.

Start competing against yourself instead of others, and aspire to improve daily.

Remember that the content you see online is not the complete picture of someone's life. Content creators are perfectionists; we retake pictures, romanticise everything and create a perfect elusion!!

Turn comparison/jealousy into inspiration!! Learn from the people who have what you desire.

Stop depending your worth on other people's validation!!

Everyone has a unique path, starting point, and background. There really is no point in comparing oneself since we are all so different. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[deepestdelulu]

What are you looking for this month? any fun activities? recipes? habits? ❄️ ☕️

I already did a post about it, Little things to look forward this winter. Hope you like it as much as I did writing it.

However I planned to post a winter bucket list as well. Make sure to stay tuned for tomorrow's publications 😉

Love yaaa

[deepestdelulu]

A happier life in 2025

Health

Nourish your body properly, drink enough water, eat your greens, and take vitamins.

Don't punish yourself if you're having a bad day,  are upset, or had something negative happen in your life, dont take it out on your body by depriving yourself of your daily needs.

Aim to become the healthiest version of yourself. Exercise and eat to feel your best, focus on your education, read, and be social.

Try therapy. Talking to someone helps you organize your thoughts, especially if you struggle with overthinking or anxiety. It's 2025; there is no shame in asking for help!! <3

80/20 rule. Find balance in your diet and lifestyle.

Mindset

Treat yourself with care and love. You deserve to feel good; start by appreciating yourself more and aim to feel comfortable within yourself.

Stop comparing yourself, your life and your accomplishments to others. Everyone has a different back story, don't compare your beginning to someone else's middle.

Ignoring negativity. Maybe delusion truly is the key to happiness. Remember the brightest moments, write them down and keep them close to your heart. :)

Smile at people. If you start sending good vibes, they will eventually come back to you.

Be kind. Small acts of kindness can truly mean the world. <3

Lifestyle

Spent more time in the sun. Try reading, studying, or exercising outside when it's sunny!

Be organized. Buy a planner, try notion, start using your calendar more. Staying organized is a great way to reduce stress in your day-to-day life!

Small daily comforts, a nice perfume, your favourite tea or coffee... simple small things that you can look forward to every day <3

Establish routines. Getting up earlier, open your curtains, some simple stretches, having daily routines can be so relaxing and fun!

Save money not just for emergencies but also to treat yourself! Set yourself saving goals for things that you've been wishing for :)

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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8 Rules for Self-Respect

Keep your standards high. For yourself, your relationships, your career, and everything. Don't settle for less; know your worth. <3

Don't tolerate people who put you down, lie to you, or try to take advantage of you. The more you allow people to mistreat you, the less they will respect you. Stand up for yourself!!

Don't chase. What belongs to you will find you, and the people who care for you will stay by your side. So don't make a fool out of yourself by chasing something that's running away from you.

No more people pleasing. Learn to say "no". You don't have to apologise or explain yourself; saying no is completely fine.

Figure out which people in your circle make you feel good and who is draining your energy. Don't surround yourself with those who waste your energy.

Take care of yourself. How are you going to be confident and respect yourself if you don't care for yourself?? Invest time, energy, discipline, money and love into becoming the best version of yourself. <3

Be mindful and selective of who you trust. Don't take criticism from people who you wouldn't take advice from.

Your boundaries are non-negotiable. Boundaries are about how you respect yourself. If someone oversteps them, cut them off!

2025 is our year of self-growth, what better place to start than setting boundaries and learning to respect ourselves?

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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Small things that changed my life

Complimenting people. If you think someone looks good, tell them!!

Prioritising self-care!! I always do my nails, take care of my hair, skin-care. Non-negotiable.

Taking more pictures. Capturing all the little fun and lovely moments and being able to look back at them is one of my favourite things!! <33

Making time to call my friends/family. Catching up with my friends or my Mom, who travels for work, is a must!!

Finding hobbies that don't include my phone or computer. Reading, baking, working out, shopping, journaling, making collages, planning outfits <3

Stretching and working out regularly. Feeling good and looking good? Win-win.

Smiling more. Forced happiness. Kinda like manifesting, lol..

Listening to more music. I always listen to music. Life is a movie; obviously, you need a soundtrack??

Going on long walks. I started two years ago when the whole 'hot girl walk' thing was trendy, and now I can't live without it!! I look forward to my walk all day long lmao.

Hydrating >>> exfoliating. I used to exfoliate my face every day… big mistake… HYDRATION.

Annotating. I've always been an avid reader, but annotating my books has completely changed my reading experience. Love it!!

Self obsessing. In a good way. I'm so in love with myself and you should be too. <33

As always, please feel free to share your own little tips in the comments; I'd love to read them!! <3