Real is only real to those who believe

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Some roads are better experienced with friends.

#sharethelove #getoutside

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I spent too many of my years on the planet attempting to make other people happy only to realize that happiness is an inside job and that no amount of your energy will ever be enough to convince an unhappy person to be happy.

So, if I were you, I'd focus on you, it's far more satisfying. 💕

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I remember wanting to be so perfect, in fact, better than perfect so that I would receive the love and attention that I felt I deserved from the people who I thought were supposed to love me unconditionally but, that didn't work.

Instead all my attempts to be "perfect" lead me down a path to overthinking, over loving, a closed off heart and an internal belief system that I was somehow flawed and "unlovable".

My existence was to serve and assists others for their betterment but not my own.

And for a long while I did that, which may even possibly be the reason that I became a teacher.

Children think the craziest shit when they don't have a reasonable and objective adult in their lives.

So, I went on giving what I thought was love, but never expecting it in return.

I later came to question how I could give something that I was not fully invested in or ever felt from my perspective?

I was giving "things" that although looked like love, they were things that could be easily discarded, forgotten or lost.

My heart center was guarded and that had kept me emotionally distant. I didn't even realize this until my children were at an age to verbalize this.

Privately I cried a lot, because I couldn't imagine how I could do that to the 2 people that I loved the most, but I did.

Unintentionally, but who cares, it still happened.

Since then I have tirelessly unraveled, adapted and learned how to open up my heart center to allow and receive.

My receiving has made me a much more present giver of my heart, and love not just of things.

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Give yourself the gift of unconditional love so that you may heal those wounded parts of your heart that you left bleeding and unattended.

You deserve this, be gentle.. 💕

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There's something magical about God's love and for me it's the only kind of love.

Good morning world🌞❤️

#thejoyisinthejourney

#RealLove

#iwantitall

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The secrets been out, so why do we continue to create madness and discomfort for ourselves?

Answer:

Because we consistently allow what we see and hear to imprison us in doubt, fear and the lack of faith in our limitless abilities.

I've been actively practicing mindfulness for a few years now and I know the challenges that we face when we have to unlearn the bad habits of our thoughts.

But the good news is that it is very doable!

Today, listen to your internal dialogue.

How do you talk to yourself?

Are you encouraging, harsh, inspiring, or other?

Once you do this small but extremely important task, you will have a better understanding of why your life is as it is, good or not so good.

Hit me up, let's talk.

Much love ❤️

#thinking

#itsallinyourhead

#ibuildme

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Taking it one day at a time.

#gowitheflow

#livealifeonpurpse

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Parts of my life were always supposed to happen, like loving to read at an early age, devouring every book that I picked up or my intense love for movie magic.

Sometimes we work so hard looking for our niches, the thing or things that make us stand out from the rest. We forget that little boy or girl inside of us who was naturally good at this or had very specific interests.

Where did those people go?

Well for most of us, the world steps in and redirects our focus and desires.

We get so caught up in making the world outside of us happy that we unintentionally ignore our own little voices.

We sometimes abandon ourselves and our dreams.

The world redirects our focus and attention and tells us that it "knows" what is better for us and innocently we believe them.

But as i surveil my life, I now know the world never knew what was better for me. It was making choices that were better for it.

My Spiritual Awakening has brought me back to what existed long before the world.

In this life I was always going to be a writer, always going to bump into you and always going to find my way home.

Much Love🥰😘

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Love isn't always obvious, and can look like an undesirable manifestation, but should you find yourself growing stronger, more confident, and more empowered in your personage after or during the experience, know that love was at the core of your transformation.

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Just to be ultra clear though, loving someone with God's Love which is unconditional love does not mean that you MUST stay in a relationship that is unhealthy, unsafe, emotionally taxing, physically abusive or described with the single word of "Toxic"!

No no and no! You must love yourself too, and keeping yourself in an unsafe place is a clear sign that you are not doing that very well.

Protecting yourself is of the utmost importance. Your life and everything about it matters and removing yourself from an unsafe space can provide a mirror for the other person to see themselves more clearly.

But you are not in charge of their choices.

God has granted us all free-will without judgment (contrary to what we often hear people say.) We get to choose our life experiences. We are not stuck in any choice that we make, because we can always choose another.

Unconditionally loving someone should never bind you to unhappiness. Set yourself FREE and Love them from afar as you love yourself up close.

Much love 💕

Melanie Sypherd

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Untether thyself from conformity and live an extraordinary life.

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My take away from our dynamic symposium yesterday was something Shondra Rhimes had said about how she always says "Yes."

It wasn't the first time that I had someone say this, in fact my literary agent Michelle Murray has also said these words.

So for me, it was more of a reminder to stop playing my life so small. Say yes to opportunities and possibilities and watch your life take on a whole new way to exist.

We are all infinite beings with infinite possibilities and the only boundaries that exist in our lives, are the ones that we embrace, get comfortable with and impose on our own lives.

There is a whole other world outside of your current life circumstances with riches and joys unlike any you have ever known.

And yes, I know it can be scary at times, but Imagine the fear that the early explorers had to confront when they set sail in an ocean that was believed to end at the horizon, or the early pioneers who chose to go out into the mountains with picks and hammers to seek for gold not knowing if their actions would cost them their lives.

This whole world and everything that has been created in it has been about expansion and pushing past boundaries.

Don't let your fears and unreasonable boundaries hold you back and only give you a small and unfulfilled life. You can have anything that you allow yourself to have but first, you will have to untether the ropes that you have placed around your mind and body.

Much love 💕

Melanie Sypherd

#GodsPlan

#boundaries

#freeyourmind

#walkbyfaith

#fearisaliar

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