iamShine

🏳️‍🌈👭🇵🇭Demi&Stevie are MY LIFE.

[stevieboebi]

New Video coming in a few hours!

cuz that’s how I like it.

[demetriasshine]

Yasssssss! It feels like a lifetime ago when you last posted. But I’m sure it’s not that long ago. 😂

[stevieboebi]

I’m about to be traveling for A MONTH! To those of you near Missoula, Brighton, or London…see you soon! To everyone else, I’ve got a few videos coming out that I think you’re gonna loveeeee. Now someone come over and help me pack plz 💋

[lou-stat]

me talking to my cat: who’s the prettiest little princess in the universe? you are fluffy and full of love and i love so much! No one loves you more than me. i love you i love you i love you!!

my cat: 

[stevieboebi]

Hello : ) I’m an exhausted & happy post-vidcon bean

[demetriasshine]

Happy is the important part :) 😘 cutie lil bean indeed!

[lochsides]

Heal If you are broken, you don’t have to stay broken. 

In honour of mental health month, I’ve published a playlist of songs that get me through the rough days. [listen]

[buzzingroyalty]

[siegfriedandroy]

im crying

[hmsindecision]

Do you know how many dogs I’ve met that get scared or anxious around men because in their previous home men hit them? A lot, and they are very protective of the women who have adopted them now.

Men who are violent towards women are often violent towards animals as well. They think we’re all chattel. If a man wants you to choose between your dog or cat or him, dump the guy. Those animals will love you for the rest of your life, loyal and true.

[corpsefluid]

Actually, I have something to add.

The other day I saw a story where a woman was asking why her dogs had suddenly started growling at her boyfriend whenever he was in the same room as her son.

And my immediate thought was ‘that boyfriend has hurt the kid somehow.’

Spoilers: that was exactly the case.

Trust ur dogs when they say something is off.

[cocksmasher69]

Dogs and other animals are more valuable and worthy than males

[stevieboebi]

I can honestly say that Dan is hands-down the most influential person in my life. When we first became friends 3 years ago, she helped me through a breakup, then we started writing my video scripts together, then eventually became my manager.

Danielle is my cheerleader, my yes man, but they also will drag me down the road by my actual weave if I’m being a dick. He makes jokes that help ground me when I’m feeling traumatized, and she 100% understands what I need and when I need it when dealing with triggers about growing up in poverty or my abusive mother. She lifts me up, believes in me, and forgives me when I can’t do anything at all.

I would think they were an actual angel sent to me if I believed in any of that shit. They make me want to be a better person, constantly teaches me who I am and helps me become who I want to be. He believes in making the world a better place, and uses his privilege to do so. Ugh I just love her so much

Ps: she started an ~actually~ gender neutral clothing brand featuring models and designers that are queer and/or PoC so you should follow @radimola

[demetriasshine]

#fashionshow #radimola #LALesbians #youtubers #queerfashionshow 

[stevieboebi]

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I am so lucky to have such a wonderful lady in my life. ☺️

Genuinely having so much fun in Orlando for @playlistlive If you’re here, see y'all tomorrow at my panel and/or meet&greet. 🎉 (at Walt Disney World Resort)

[theambassadorposts]

This is a beautiful thing to spread.

[yellow-a3sthetic]

[stevieboebi]

Do lesbians do butt stuff? How?

https://youtu.be/kFygvlgK5zY

[stevieboebi]

I am a professional represser of memories. I started to post them in my captions so I don’t forget, and I’m happy ya’ll like them. So. Not too long ago I remembered why I used to hate music. Since I was 5 years old I asked for a guitar for Christmas. every birthday. my baptism. first communion. my confirmation. I even tried asking for one when I started my period. For ten years I got several harmonicas, a keyboard, a flute, a recorder, and a boom box. Instead of being happy about those things that church friends or my godparents or grandparents would gift me, it just made me sad. Even though these things were technically musical… they weren’t guitars (so why the fuck were they even bothering??? *queue internal tantrum*) When I was 19 I finally saved enough money to buy a used guitar at a pawn shop and I had never been happier in my entire life. I learned a Tegan and Sarah song and polished it every day and slept with it next to me in bed. I was in love. A week after I bought it I came home one day and my window was broken and front door was wide open. I ran inside and up the stairs to see if my guitar was still in my bed. I was crushed. Absolutely heart broken. Maybe they only stole my guitar or maybe I didn’t care about any of my other possessions or maybe I didn’t really have any. I don’t remember. But I remember how bitter I grew that week. I mourned the loss of that guitar like it was a family member, because to me it was. And I grew more and more resentful of music and decided to give up trying. Then. I repressed that memory and was absolutely convinced I just…hated music. When this memory came back to me I was shocked and went out and bought a guitar. Maybe I won’t learn how to play. Maybe I’ll always hate music a little bit. But now when I look at that guitar, it will remind me that it’s okay. It’s okay to keep going. It’s definitely okay if you hate things just because you were let down or hurt by them, but you don’t have to. You can invite them in again to remind you of when your eyes were bright and you buzzed with excitement. Please don’t forget what it felt like. You were naive, but you were so alive.

[sskeptical]

[stevieboebi]

New video! How to have sex after sexual assault or rape, and how to be a good ally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BwTEM-9yQE&feature=youtu.be

[demetriasshine]

Watch this light hearted video created by the amazing Stevie to help survivors dealing w/ sex and informative guidelines for those who wants to be a better ally to sexual assault survivors.

[stevieboebi]

New video! How to have sex after sexual assault or rape, and how to be a good ally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BwTEM-9yQE&feature=youtu.be

[demetriasshine]

Watch this and share share share!

[stevieboebi]

What character traits do you find most attractive in people?

Emotional integrity