Stardate Whenever

Lesbian. Feminist.

[mean-gemini-deactivated20240519]

Idk bring back over the top goddess worship female superiority feminism. Women are divine and men are worthless. Goodnight

[gokusclit]

Average alt girl

[flowerlygirls]

everyone needs to become less afraid of being alone NOW jesus christ you cannot genuinly prefer bad company to peaceful solitude

[hmsindecision]

I think there is a difference between “we can still be friends even if you aren’t boycotting Target because it’s the only grocery store you can access” or “I can’t currently afford to have a completely ethically made wardrobe on my salary” and “we can be friends even though you’re a racist and a liar who bullies people”. Trying to hold everyone to standards like the first is a recipe for lack of community. Not holding people to standards like the second is a recipe for a bad community that hurts people.

[genderisareligion]

Happy Pride Month here's your much needed reminder that same sex love is beautiful it's 1000% okay to reject dick havers for any reason and anyone who tells you otherwise is backwards and homophobic 🏳️‍🌈👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏾

[kiefbowl]

I saw on insta this morning a reel of a woman who's been hosting a dinner party for friends for the past two years show snap shots of the parties each month for the last year. and I'm interested in that in general, I'd like to start hosting more. so I go into the comments and there are just some rank ass ppl saying things like "oh so you're rich rich" and "some of us don't have money." Is it fun living so miserably?

[creatureofthecornfield]

maybe im too broke but if you can afford to host a dinner party every month thats fucking rich, unless you're hosting a potluck, dinner parties are fucking expensive

[kiefbowl]

okay so what?

[creatureofthecornfield]

so what? not everyone has the fucking means to throw fancy ass dinner parties constantly, some of us are fuckin suffering.

[kiefbowl]

yeah but like why is that relevant to someone posting their dinner party. it has nothing to do with you.

[creatureofthecornfield]

you're the one criticizing poor folks for being irritated that the rich can flaunt their wealth for everyone to see constantly. if you wanna have a nice thing with friends thats fine but its for a group chat, not the public internet. rich folks need to quit showing off.

[kiefbowl]

wow you really do think the world is about you. well good luck with that

[creatureofthecornfield]

maybe if you stopped to acknowledge that its not a politically neurotypical act to flaunt wealth youd understand the irritation towards people who make it impossible to exist as a impoverished person without being reminded of how privelaged people will always have more thsn you.

[kiefbowl]

no <3

[carpathxanridge]

lmaoooo at “politically neurotypical”

[antiporn-activist]

I could throw a dinner party and just serve a lasagna. That might cost me $25 in groceries. Maybe throw in some orange juice and French bread, now we’re up to $32. Woo-hoo! Living large.

[hmsindecision]

There are people out here spending 10k on food a day. There are people who cater every meal. There are billionaires out there… and the critique is of people who are one rung above you on the ladder who can afford to… have friends over for a meal once a month? This is some crabs in a bucket behavior lol

[kiefbowl]

you literally do not have to think about your identity all that much

[watermelinoe]

there's an interesting chapter in this book called old mistresses: women, art, and ideology that deals with the conflict of identity of woman and artist. the authors reference this conclusion from simone de beauvoir's the second sex: "what woman essentially lacks today for doing great things is forgetfulness of herself, but to forget oneself it is first of all necessary to be firmly assured that now and for all the future, one has found oneself." looking at that section of the second sex, de beauvoir's point i would argue is that assurance is implicit for men and not for women. women can't forget ourselves because of that lack of assurance. our identity as Woman is inextricably tangled with our work, so we are always self-conscious of this conflict of identities. it hinders our capability. (i'm reminded of the experiment showing that women performed worse on math tests when wearing swimsuits - self-consciousness makes us worse)

the authors of old mistresses write of french rococo artist elisabeth vigée-lebrun: "she was acceptable only in so far as her person, her public persona, conformed to the current notions of Woman, not artist."

so back to the original post, i think what this means for women is that we need the assurance to forget ourselves. to not think about our identities all that much. society will continue to prescribe our identities based on our sex, but we don't have to spend our lives twisting ourselves in knots to affirm or deny this prescribed identity. we can simply be :)

[toskarin]

If you got the midas touch what would be the first thing you’d touch

local dogs

[toskarin]

every bird and innocent people too

[toskarin]

the sea

[hmsindecision]

I would touch women’s shitty husbands then help the ladies melt the men into sellable gold 💜 finally make them useful 💜

[iwanttolisten]

One thing I found super interesting learning about the uterus in anatomy class is that it isn't actually stretched out like you see in diagrams. It's super cooped up in there

[hmsindecision]

Ableism is a reflection of patriarchial values and your casual ableism is you not challenging patriarchy

[ilynpilled]

actually how many significant female characters fitting this archetype can u think of? and i mean their arc and role being actually substantial

[belladonnafeli]

Women don’t really get these arcs as much as men, but it does remind me of this quote.

[hmsindecision]

Just sharing my favorite female example of this trope. I don’t think this show would get made today :/

[thepersonalispoliticalsworld]

Men do, in fact, owe freedom to the women of this world. Your mothers and grandmothers suffered, sacrificed, and fought to ensure their daughters would never again be viewed as mere vessels or property.

You stand on the shoulders of a century of hard-won progress that you now take for granted.

Giving up, throwing it all away, and reducing women back to their biological functions all so you can maintain a fragile and outdated hierarchy is an act of generational betrayal and intellectual cowardice.

[hmsindecision]

I cannot tell you how may generations of women that created me would weep with joy to see how free I am. A woman who chooses herself over children is choosing to purge a great injustice in the only way she can: by not becoming another victim.

Men like this are so small minded they cannot conceive of a lineage of grandmothers and grandmothers and grandmothers and grandmothers who yearned for everything I have. This is for them.

[flashdyke]

got a new kind of labiaplasty where they add more of them

[radicalgraff]

Anti-ICE mural in Mexico City

[femsolid]

dick dick dick cock cock cock suck suck suck semen semen semen dick dick dick

They are absolutely obsessed with male genitalia.

I think "blackpilled" women are just... porn addicts.

Incel ideology stems from porn after all. It's porn stereotypes transposed into the real world, by people who spend too much time online and have come to believe that porn accurately represents reality. And that's exactly what's going on here.

The rules of porn: women are whores, those who do not appear to be whores are secretly whores, women love being abused, women are asking for it, women who seem strong actually crave cocks, women need a good dick to reveal what they really are: whores, women are cunts, bitches, women are not human beings.

Even when they see an older separatist woman, they can't help themselves; they picture her in a sexual situation and in contact with their obsession: men. Dicks. Semen. Even when they think that woman might be a lesbian, they still write about her needing dicks and licking semen. Because why stop at homophobia? In porn lesbians love dicks don't they?

It's got nothing to do with politics. They just picture a porn scenario in their heads and write it down. They see a woman who does not center men and they try desperately to pretend she does, like them.

It's not an ideology... their heads are just full of porn...

And you know what I'm realising? They are sexually harassing women. Like all incels.

[hmsindecision]

There is apparently a subreddit for Pagan Veiling… and half of it is just trans identified white males in hijabs and head coverings because they say Hera told them to

(The other half is self conscious teen girls and young women who are like “wearing a bandana or a beanie counts as veiling”)

Every day men surprise me with how incredibly callous and stupid they are. I assume the worst and yet they still surprise me

[dangerthrillryanson]

ok

[hmsindecision]

Me when I am back in the regular world a week after being on womyn’s land

[colombinaa]

“bdsm is anti-purity” imagine thinking males traditionally never beat women in bed

like imagine thinking that’s a new thing

[hmsindecision]

Purity and punishment require each other.

[hmsindecision]

Sometimes I wonder how many of those mean insecure girls who sent me anons 10 years ago calling me a dumb bisexual whore for being a rape victim have husbands now lol