[renthony]

One way to be an ally to disabled queer people:

If you want to attend a pride event, ask about their accessibility plans and policies.

Ask about their covid policies. Ask if they are accessible to mobility aid users. Ask if they will have strobe lights, if there will be bathrooms, if there is water. Make the event planners consider who they may have left out, even if the person being left out isn't you. Have your friends ask as well. Help create a demand. Help get conversations started. Help people see where things could be more accessible.

Because when we, the disabled, ask these questions? We're much more likely to get ignored, and much less likely to be heard when we raise hell.

So help us raise hell when we need it. Demand to know why your local Pride event isn't requiring masks, or is charging for water, or doesn't have wheelchair ramps, or whatever other accessibility issue you catch.

Stop leaving us behind. We need your fucking help.

[greelin]

haha i like you. I’ll be growing on you like moss now if that’s alright

[thechronicmasochist]

spouse is listening to the Harrow audiobook

bonus, my response:

[cryptotheism]

So internet archive lost their lower court case. They're appealing, and have a good chance with the 2nd circuit, but they need help. Here's a link directly from one of their librarians for how you can help.

The Fight Continues - Internet Archive Blogs

Today’s lower court decision in Hachette v. Internet Archive is a blow to all libraries and the communities we serve. This decision impacts

[thechronicmasochist]

The Internet Archive's digital lending library system is the only reason that I can access entire chunks of queer history that has been out of print for decades, and if publishers and corporations have their way we will lose it.

In the midst of waves of anti-queer panic, hate, and legislation it is as important as ever to defend our right to access and learn from our history.

Today (March 20, 2023) supporters of the Internet Archive are speaking out to raise awareness about the ongoing lawsuits they and other libraries are facing. Take some time to learn more by visiting the website below, and speak up to protect our communities.

Battle for Libraries

Don’t let libraries die. As the future goes digital, major publishers are suing to cut off libraries’ defense of digital books from censorsh

[toxicdogs]

She is though, isn’t she. 

[thechronicmasochist]

when you really can't find what ur looking for at the library, and you take a bunch of the books off the shelf so that you can climb in there and pout

[discountalien-pancake]

Could you analyze the cover for Gideon the Ninth if you haven't already?

I love this cover, honestly. The title? Perfection. It reminds me of runes and old Irish oghams, as well as rib bones and such. And usually I have nothing to say about the reviews, but this one is genuinely the best possible thing they could’ve put on there. I fucking love it. Just the “Skeletons!” is so genuine and excited. A+ choice.

And the colors!!! That’s what I’m talking about! The title matching the bones and the author name matching her hair! That pop of orange! It frustrates me so much when they choose secondary colors for subtitles and taglines and author names that don’t coordinate with the illustration.

God, and look at that illustration. There’s so much movement around her, but even though she’s swaggering towards us (and I mean that in the best way), she’s a pillar of calm and self-assurance. Like, I don’t mean to wax poetic, but she is the eye of a storm coming to wreck your shit. The aviators, man. Everything about this illustration is both technically and conceptually perfect. Note how the background gradually gets darker behind her, but still grey where her jawline is painted black—it makes her makeup stand out that much more.

9/10, maybe I just found a bad crop but it’s shifted a little to the left.

[fulltransmetalgenderist]

Top to bottom, bottom to top

[xsatanssweetheartx]

If you aren’t obsessed enough to kidnap me so no one else can take me from you, do you really even want me?

[sweeetcarolime]

[cobwebkitten-deactivated2020101]

reblog if you’d like one of these in your inbox

- ask me things you want to know about me

- why you follow me

- what’s on your mind/what you’re thinking about

- a compliment

- make me choose between two things

- ask for advice

- tell me a secret

- things you associate me with

- anything!!!!

[glitterock]

tbh i get kinda annoyed at the “femmes need to stop treating masc/butch lesbians like men, they’re still women, treat them as women!” thing because like first of all i think there’s a difference between calling yourself a masc lesbian and a butch lesbian. Butch is a historical term that has to do with community and yes, somewhat rigid roles. Masc literally just means masculine presenting and isn’t a term that directly correlates with the lesbian community or should have roles attached to it. I don’t think masc and butch can be used interchangeably.

Second, I don’t even know what treating someone like a “man” even means. I’ve never been in a relationship with a man so I don’t even fully understand what that dynamic would be like let alone how I would treat one. So no, I don’t think I treat butches like men.

But if i’m being honest, I don’t ever really think i’m treating them like “women” either. I treat them like butches. Most butches i’ve been with are transmaculine, non-binary, or old school butch women who would honestly feel uncomfortable if they were treated like a “woman” or would not enjoy me using feminine words (pretty, beautiful, princess etc.) to describe them. So I call them handsome, let them carry my things for me because they genuinely enjoy it, let them act tough in front of me and let them express their masculinity in a way that affirms their butchness. Now this doesn’t mean that me treating them like a butch means that i treat them like a “man”. As a femme, I always want to be a safe space for any butch I’m seeing to be soft. not “feminine” or “womanly”, but soft. Softness shouldn’t be inherently gendered. I want them to feel like they can relax with me, cry with me, let me hold them in a way they may not usually be held in. This is what butch/femme is all about. There are roles yes, but I never think of how I treat butches as how i’d hypothetically treat a man.

I can understand how someone who only considers themself “masc” and not butch, someone who has no knowledge of butch/femme roles and maybe is only masc in the way they dress, could see this as gendered treatment. I can see how the use of roles can be seen as gendered by some, but that’s just not how I see it in the slightest. I don’t treat my lovers like men, I just treat them like butches.

[fearnelesbian]

sorry I showed you the cracks in my skin and the sharpness of my teeth, do you still want to go on this date or?

[misplaced-syllables-deactivated]

if u call me baby in that soft voice i’ll do whatever u want me to do

[butch-forest]

Hi beautiful people in my phone 💌 go drink some water right now

[scalierpepper]

something from twitter i never finished all the way