Desirdae Blog

We know we cannot transition to some of these labels without it hurting others, so we will not transition to them

[desirloved]

Desirdae blog for one of our headmates

My name is Lacey, it/its and she/her

Gender: Honeybee Transfem

Sexuality: lesbian (somewhere on the aroace spectrum)

Do not flirt with me.

More under the cut

Desirdae’s:

Desirloved

Desircutefashion

Desirsafety

Desirstreamer

Desirfictional

Desirfreedom

DesirKAngel

Desirabled (we are physically disabled, and desire to be more able to do the things we like)

Dissomeis:

Dissojapanese (I am a Japanese alter in our system, this causes disconnect)

Stances:

Proship in the way that fiction should not be censored and you shouldn’t harass people for what they write

No I don’t think that incest or pedophilia is good. Just that fiction about these topics should not be censored

Pro endo

Radqueers I feel soooo complicated about you. I could not put this sinking feeling about that community into strictly anti/pro if I tried

I don’t have a paraphilic disorder and don’t understand much about them so like. Just don’t sexually abuse anyone okay? Okay.

Contradictory labels supporter (mspec lesbians/gays, afab transfem and amab transmasc, etc)

Transandrophobia is real

Intersexism is real

Exorsexism is real

Transmisogyny is real

TMA/TME are bad labels and not helpful in the slightest. Anyone can be affected by transmisogyny.

DNI:

-Radqueers

-anti endos

-people who are going to be mean about my stances

-anti endo

-general bigots (racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, homophobes and transphobes)

[desirloved]

I feel almost… guilty ? For being Japanese in system and missing (?) being connected to the culture. Cause… this body has no claim to the culture and I don’t want to appropriate anything. I just want to feel at home again

[desirloved]

Yearning again for something I cannot and will not ever have

[three-cats-in-a-bagg]

Desirpermapurring

A desirdae term for anyone who desires / wants to / yearns to be permanently purring

Based on the transID flag for permapurring. This label is anti harmful transition, anti radqueer, and pro good faith labels

- tagged blogs : @radiomogai, @new-desirdaearchive

[desirloved]

Do you take requests for flags?

I haven’t really thought about it before, but sure! What kind of flag you want?

[desirloved]

Heyo! I’m a curious bystander looking into the desirdae community I’m curious about your experience in this community

Everyone’s pretty chill from what I’ve seen! It’s nice to talk to people who understand!

[desirloved]

Do you feel dysphoria when you see other Kangels? (if it makes u i comfy ignore) /nf /genq

Nah! The more KAngels the better I reckon!

[desirloved]

hi!!!!

Hello!

[desirloved]

omg i remember coining this on the old account i lost lowk feel so honored that someone identifies with a term i coined so heavily !!

!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[desirloved]

Remembers I’ll never be accepted for who I am by anyone except our other half

[desirloved]

Hate having to learn Japanese, I should already know it!

[the-ungovernable]

Just realised you can conceptkin aesthetics. It's over for all of you

[grotesquelymoving]

Honestly I think the fact I don't have doll joints, corset piercings, and a closet full of jirai kei is really mean /j

[desirloved]

I ache

[desirloved]

I wish I could be Japanese for real

But I know better

I know that I cannot have this

…it hurts

Every time I think about what I wish I had it hurts so badly

But… my hurt is not more important than the hurt it would cause others if I pretended to be what I am not

It would hurt many people

….I wish I didn’t feel like this

[desirloved]

We should make a your-fave-is-desirdae blog sometime!

[desirloved]

Real yearning hours tonight chat