Desirdae Blog

We know we cannot transition to some of these labels without it hurting others, so we will not transition to them

[desirloved]

Desirdae blog for one of our headmates

My name is Lacey, it/its and she/her

Gender: Honeybee Transfem

Sexuality: lesbian (somewhere on the aroace spectrum)

Do not flirt with me.

More under the cut

Desirdae’s:

Desirloved

Desircutefashion

Desirsafety

Desirpermateen (due to being 17 in system)

Desirstreamer

Desirfictional

Desirfreedom

DesirKAngel

Desirabled (we are physically disabled, and desire to be more able to do the things we like)

Dissomeis:

Dissojapanese (I am a Japanese alter in our system, this causes disconnect)

Stances:

Proship in the way that fiction should not be censored and you shouldn’t harass people for what they write

No I don’t think that incest or pedophilia is good. Just that fiction about these topics should not be censored

Pro endo

Radqueers I feel soooo complicated about you. I could not put this sinking feeling about that community into strictly anti/pro if I tried

I don’t have a paraphilic disorder and don’t understand much about them so like. Just don’t sexually abuse anyone okay? Okay.

Contradictory labels supporter (mspec lesbians/gays, afab transfem and amab transmasc, etc)

Transandrophobia is real

Intersexism is real

Exorsexism is real

Transmisogyny is real

TMA/TME are bad labels and not helpful in the slightest. Anyone can be affected by transmisogyny.

DNI:

-Radqueers

-anti endos

-people who are going to be mean about my stances

-anti endo

-general bigots (racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, homophobes and transphobes)

[desirloved]

Yearning again for something I cannot and will not ever have

[three-cats-in-a-bagg]

Desirpermapurring

A desirdae term for anyone who desires / wants to / yearns to be permanently purring

Based on the transID flag for permapurring. This label is anti harmful transition, anti radqueer, and pro good faith labels

- tagged blogs : @radiomogai, @new-desirdaearchive

[desirloved]

Do you take requests for flags?

I haven’t really thought about it before, but sure! What kind of flag you want?

[desirloved]

Heyo! I’m a curious bystander looking into the desirdae community I’m curious about your experience in this community

Everyone’s pretty chill from what I’ve seen! It’s nice to talk to people who understand!

[desirloved]

Do you feel dysphoria when you see other Kangels? (if it makes u i comfy ignore) /nf /genq

Nah! The more KAngels the better I reckon!

[desirloved]

hi!!!!

Hello!

[desirloved]

omg i remember coining this on the old account i lost lowk feel so honored that someone identifies with a term i coined so heavily !!

!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[desirloved]

Remembers I’ll never be accepted for who I am by anyone except our other half

[desirloved]

Hate having to learn Japanese, I should already know it!

[the-ungovernable]

Just realised you can conceptkin aesthetics. It's over for all of you

[grotesquelymoving]

Honestly I think the fact I don't have doll joints, corset piercings, and a closet full of jirai kei is really mean /j

[desirloved]

I ache

[desirloved]

I wish I could be Japanese for real

But I know better

I know that I cannot have this

…it hurts

Every time I think about what I wish I had it hurts so badly

But… my hurt is not more important than the hurt it would cause others if I pretended to be what I am not

It would hurt many people

….I wish I didn’t feel like this

[desirloved]

We should make a your-fave-is-desirdae blog sometime!

[desirloved]

Real yearning hours tonight chat

[xenomayhem]

DESIRPERMATEEN

[ pt: Desirpermateen. end pt ]

Edit: Since we just learned that this has already been coined, consider this an alt flag.

A desirdae for those who want, yearn, or desire to be permanently a teenager/be a teenager forever.

The term desirdae was coined by @ghosting-plural-userboxes!

THIS TERM IS STRICTLY ANTI-RADQUEER AND PRO-NONHARMFUL TRANSITIONING.

[ pt: THIS TERM IS STRICTLY ANTI-RADQUEER AND PRO-NONHARMFUL TRANSITIONING. end pt ]

Someone may use this term for many reasons, however some examples could be:

Delusion

Not being ready to grow up/not wanting to grow up due to trauma

Being a teen in source

Being a teen in headspace/innerworld, but the body isn't

Any other reason you can think of that fits the definition of desirdae!

tagging: @radiomogai & @desirdae-archive

Coined by us, ask to reupload