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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Be willing to go alone sometimes. You don’t need permission to grow. Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. And that’s OK.

M. Scott Peck (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[buhaybabae]

You will be discouraged. You will feel fear. You will be suffering. You will doubt. You will be ashamed. You will be exhausted. But I am your hope when you are discouraged. But I am your armor when you are in fear. But I am your strength when you are sufferring. But I am your truth when you are in doubt. But I am your peace when you are exhausted. I am here always. I am bigger than these things you experience. I am your strength and your everything. You will get through everything because I have overcome the world. You will be more than okay. I love you so much that you can’t even comprehend how much I do. So even in my silence, have faith in me. I am always working, listening and loving you.

What God Told Me Today (via buhaybabae)

[imanurse]

Remember guys!

[alittleheartandruh]

The most beautiful thing

is that He knows

what you are about to tell Him

and yet

He still listens.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Don’t explain. People only hear what they want to hear.

Paul Coelho (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[jassynoelle-deactivated20190106]

“Little did I know, God would use my biggest failure and turn it around for His glory.”

(via ichosejesus59)

Thanking God for that.

(via hisandhisalone)

only He can do that

(via healingrockministries)

[americanexpresstravel-deactivat]

8 Things to Remember When Everything Goes Wrong

by Marc Chernoff, co-founder, marcandangel

MarcAndAngel.com is a regular paid contributor to the American Express Tumblr community.

[nedsdeclassifiedlifehackguide]

Life Tip #523

Make time for your hobbies. Whether it’s an hour a day or an hour a week. Don’t let it get to a point where you realize you never sketch, knit, play an instrument, etc. anymore. Carving out some time for your favorite thing will make you not only less stressed, but happier in general.

[israelmekaniko]

THE PURSUIT OF #RELATIONSHIPGOALS KEME

Relationship Goals? Pina-hipster na “Ideal Relationship” lang yan para kunware cool. 

Nagsubuan lang ng pizza, Relationship Goals na agad? Sabay lang nag-exercise Relationship Goals na agad?

Ang babaw lang.

Hindi pa ba sapat para sa’yo na in a relationship ka na, at kelangan mo pa ng goals? Ang maramdaman mong mahal ka ng taong mahal mo at masaya kayo pareho sa kabila ng lahat ng kapakshetan sa buhay, kung tutuusin, isang malaking goal na.

Hindi porket Relationship Goals na yung kanila, yun na talaga ang basehan ng tunay at masayang relasyon. Isang picture lang yan na inupload sa FB pero that doesn’t define their relationship as a whole. Tapos Goals na agad? ( Oo, napa-english talaga ako. Hindi ko din alam kung baket. ) Walang sira-ulong magjowang magpopost sa FB para i- self vid ang sarili nilang nagpuputang-inamohan at nagsusumbatan ng mga pagkukulang nila sa isa’t-isa. Walang mag-jowang ibbroadcast na 10 years na sila pero may umi-Ettiquette of a Mistress pala. Yung “almost-perfect” at edited version lang ng kwento ang pinapakita nila. Hindi ang buong episode. Hindi ang buong season. Hindi ang kabuuan ng kanilang relasyon. 

Hindi mo kailangang igaya o ikumpara ang kung anong relasyong meron kayo sa relasyong meron ang iba.  Hindi lahat ng bagay na nakikita mo pwedeng magwork-out sa inyo. May mga bagay na applicable sa kanila pero hindi applicable sa inyo.  Paano na lang kung ang gusto mong #RelationshipGoals ay yung tipong  mala-”I can show you the world” na ittravel at ililibot ka sa buong mundo pero sa totoong buhay puro siya rock ‘n roll to the world sa pagdoDOTA. Kung talagang mapilit ka at gusto mong maki-relationship goals, siguraduhin mong mutual ang mga plano niyo sa buhay. Hindi yung ikaw lang ang may gusto. Dahil minsan, sa halip na makatulong yang Relationship Goals, mas lalo lang nakakasira.

Kung tutuusin, mas masarap pa ring isipin na hindi niyo na  kailangan ng kahit anong #RelationshipGoals. Parang lakad lang din yan ng tropa mo, kapag sobrang pinaplano, hindi natutuloy.  Mas maganda yung excited kayo pareho araw-araw sa mga posibleng mangyari na walang iniintinding kahit ano. Nakakapressure lang yun. Dapat, relationship lang. Wag puro goals. Dahil alam niyo parehong mas mahalaga ang kung anong meron “ngayon”.  

At isa pa, kung totoong nagmamahal ka, kelangan mo pa bang isipin kung may patutunguhan o wala? Ang ending naman nun magmamahal ka pa rin di ba? Nasa relasyon ka ngayon hindi para may marating o may maabot na kahit ano. Kase, andyan ka na mismo, kasama yung taong mahal mo. Yun pa lang isang malaking achievement na. At the end of the day, dun pa rin tayo sasaya sa pinakasimpleng bagay na pinanghahawakan natin. 

( Pero kung talagang mapilit ka, bago mag-skip sa #RelationshipGoals, sana #PanoMagkaJowaGoals muna. Baka nagkakalimutan.)

[imanurse]

be patient when things are not going right. accept that what is yours will come to you in the right way at just the right moment.

[his-desert-rose]

Sometimes you just need to remind yourself that everything’s okay. Struggling’s okay. Hurting’s okay. Crying’s okay. Sometimes you just need to hurt. Just know that whatever happens, Jesus is there to comfort you.

(via dearadelle)

[israelmekaniko]

PAGE 365 OF 365: "NEXT YEAR NA LANG KITA MAMAHALIN"

Puro ako hugot, so this time ibabaon ko na.

SOME PA-DEEP THOUGHTS I LEARNED FROM PARENG 2014

Kapag malungkot ka, magfocus ka lang sa pinakamaliit na pirasong kaligayahang meron ka. Hindi mo namamalayan, unti-unti yang lumalaki hanggang sa maramdaman mo na lang na sobrang saya mo na.

Minsan hindi natin nakukuha ang gusto natin para masulit muna ang kung anong meron tayo sa ngayon. Para kapag dumating yung araw na nakuha na natin yun, hindi tayo manghihinayang sa kung anong pwedeng maiwan. ‘Cos that’s the thing about delays, mahilig lang magdisguise pero ang totoo, yun ang tamang timing.

Maniwala kang may ‘forever’. Dahil kapag tinanggap mong wala, para mo na ring sinabi sa sarili mong walang kahit sinong tatagal sa’yo. ‘Cos what you think will determine how you will live.

Simple lang ang konsepto para maging masaya, mahalin mo lang ng mahalin ang sarili mo para ma O.P. ang kahit anong form ng galit at insecurities sa puso mo— para wala na silang paglagyan sa buhay mo.

Magkakaiba man tayo ng pinaglalaban dito sa mundo, Nike rosche shoes man yan, pinggan na hindi pa nahuhugasan, lovelife, o overtime na hindi pa rin nababayan, we’re all after the same thing, happiness.

Hindi mo malalaman kung gaano ka katapang hangga’t hindi mo narerealize na wala ka na palang ibang choice kundi ang maging matapang. Darating at darating ang pinakamaaksyong climax ng buhay mo at kahit gaano karaming tao ang nagpapahalaga sa’yo, at the end of the day, sarili mo pa rin yung aasahan mo.

Magmahal ka pa rin gaya ng unang beses kang nagmahal. Wag mong pigilan. Darating din ang araw na may magpapakatanga din sa’yo gaya ng pagpapakatangang ginagawa mo. Dahil pakingshet lang ang napapagod magmahal. 

Ang pinakamasayang parte ng buhay mo ay yung mga panahong wala kang pakealam sa sasabihin ng mundo.

[imanurse]

Yes

[ourheartsarewildcreatures]

Avoid people who:

mess with your head.

can’t and won’t apologise sincerely.

expect you to prioritise them but refuse to prioritise you.

intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you.

[nataliaquerida]

5. Act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behaior.

[psych-facts]

I learned not to trust people; I learned not to believe what they say but to watch what they do; I learned to suspect that anyone and everyone is capable of ‘living a lie’. I came to believe that other people - even when you think you know them well - are ultimately unknowable.

— Lynn Barber (via psych-facts)

[desppsin]

A simple scratch paper that can turn into something bigger.☝️🙌😇😊

[desppsin]

And the countdown begins. .🙈🙉🙊💨 #fivetogo

[desppsin]

Goodmorning! 😊🙌