IN NO WAY AM I TRYING TO PAINT REN AS THE BAD GUY!!
also, looking at the posts here, don't really seem to know what victim blaming is? Victim blaming is when someone says that it's the victim's fault for a situation that happened. As far as I know, no one has been doing that..??? from what I've seen.
I'm not trying to paint Zeal as a saint either, as we don't know the full story yet until Ren has redone the doc and posted it.
There are many plotholes in Ren's story though. I'm not pointing this out in an attempt to laugh and turn people against her, as I am an SA victim as well and I'm well aware of how it feels to be assaulted by someone you were attached to. But it's odd as how she tried cutting out messages to make Zeal appear worse than how she described him to be.
I also don't think Fawning includes asking your abuser for sex and being the one to initiate such. Yes it is different for everyone, but we see this pattern time and time again. Zeal has not provoked her, as far as we know.
Consent can also not be taken away months later. Consent can be revoked before or during sexual acts, but not after a reasonable amount of time. It's like saying a woman's ex husband is a rapist after she took away consent 4 months after their divorce. That seems a bit weird now, doesn't it?
I also find it odd how she contradicts herself by saying Zeal had only sexually assaulted her, but then calls those who only asked a few questions about her "rapist defenders".
Note I am NOT trying to defend Zeal, as he has handled the situation not so well and made himself look equally as bad.
I will clarify something, the screenshot of him on arsenal was a screenshot taken weeks before the doc has happened.
Despite how serious the accusations are, trying to drive someone to suicide, and then mock them for it is inexcusable. Especially since we don't even have enough solid evidence that Zeal has even done the thing that Ren has claimed he has.
Please remember the phrase "innocent until proven guilty" until one of the two members involved is actually proven to be guilty.
Stop being driven by guilty until proven innocent. That's the mindset that takes most of the innocent's life.
A similar case to this being the Kwite situation that had happened years ago. Wait until both sides come forward with proper evidence.